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Anonymous users2024-02-08In a way, the time I have now is my own. Until I die.
A lot of people will say, how is this possible?
Don't you need to go to work? How can it be your own time at work? Don't you need to be with your family? Is the time you spend with your family, the time you spend doing things for them?
I want to say yes, it's all my own.
Everything we do now has a direct impact not only on the near future, but on every present. Ultimately, it's a matter of personal choice. Some people follow their parents' choices and arrangements to apply for a major that they don't like, and after graduation, they follow their parents' advice to apply for the civil service examination and start a slow public examination.
Go on a blind date arranged by your parents, choose a girlfriend or boyfriend they like, and then get married and have children ......
This kind of life can be said to have little time for you, you are just a puppet, a doll, how others pull the line, you can go ......how you go
Life is actually a trade-off, really, time is limited, how you distribute and how you choose, will determine your future. Work, study, life, socializing, and accompanying parents, how do you divide them? It's up to you to decide what to do and what to give up, and it's all yours, unless you leave the choice to someone else.
In fact, we have the right to choose our own lives, and all the time is our own.
The fetters of home are actually one of these choices. If you can put your home in society and your career first, like most successful business people, you can be busy with work every day without taking care of your family. Socializing and working overtime occupies most of your life, what is family?
If it's not the bond of blood, if you don't have them in your heart, then they are dispensable.
Work is the same, you can accept the work you don't like, you can also choose the job you like and work hard for it, or you can mess around and mess around, these are all you can choose, no matter what choice you make, these times are your own, no one else can replace it, and you can't make a ......choice for youUltimately, it's up to you to take on the ......
Some people like to isolate their lives, as if the self at work is not the real self, or in daily life, life with family members, is not their own time ......In fact, it's just irresponsible for yourself.
Life is your own after all, it's just that you give it up.
I can start a business with a deposit of 800,000 yuan, and it probably doesn't cost much to open a scrap shop in the first step. This is at least the number required to open a beverage company, but I'm currently feeling the stones to cross the river! No capital was invested.
Now I have four dollars in my pocket, and I can go to school and buy a lot of snacks to eat, which is so happy, but I don't dare to spend money after less than four dollars.
I think the luck of a person's life is limited, for example, I am lucky in this regard, on the other hand, I am more unfortunate than others, my feeling is like this, no one is happy with everything, people have to work hard to live, there are things to pursue, otherwise what is the meaning of life.
1 day, I usually only need 1 day, I can start over with others. >>>More
I'm not as dependent on money as Grande the Scrooge in **, and that kind of life has no meaning, let alone any sense of security. Money is not the only way to bring people a sense of security, only money people may not have a sense of security, this problem itself is problematic, if I am a born insecure person, then you give me more money may not be able to have a sense of security, because there are too many ways to make people feel insecure, the sense of security itself is a relative concept, not an absolute concept, people with tens of millions of assets will worry about tomorrow, Conversely, those who are penniless may not be less secure than others. >>>More