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It is not about oneself and hangs high, this is the truest reflection of the hearts of Chinese citizens.
After all, even beggars are troubled now**, who else can you sympathize with in today's society? Who else do you dare to be in the same period? Make yourself like a fool, why bother?
In today's society, don't think that if you treat others, others will treat you as you are, that's absolutely wrong!
Hope it helps!
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In fact, there is a good side to people's hearts. It's just that people now hide this side a little deeper. Because after all, the current society is too complicated, and saving others may not necessarily be able to get back good rewards, just like "The Day of Leaving Lei Feng", saving others may not necessarily be affirmed, so many people now choose to protect themselves.
But the human heart is still kind. People are still willing to help others. There is true love in the world.
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Ask yourself if you know, do you also treat people who are particularly good, and you haven't helped other people? In fact, human nature is like this, it's all about one's own business, and it's all hanging high. You haven't treated anyone well, and you can't expect others to be nice to you.
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It is human nature that 99% of people are unconscious, that is, they move closer to the interests and automatically leave the disadvantage. And to push humanity to extinction. The vicissitudes of history have shown us that if human beings were to remain on Earth, they would only be extinct.
This is also the self-protective nature of the earth.
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Definitely. The worse you are, the more comfortable I am.
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I have a lot of feelings, so let's talk about my own experience.
Tell a little thing that I have personally experienced before, After the college entrance examination ended the summer vacation, I rode across the province to Wenzhou, Zhejiang Province and had a small accident by my family, and then scolded and called us back, at the train station, of course, I had to move a bicycle up and put it on the other side of the railing, because I was thin and small and had little strength to move over, many people were watching next to me, I asked a sturdy middle-aged man next to him if he could help, guess what he said, he said: You can't move over, I can't move ......Oh my God, I was stunned by my three views, this thing is very impressive, and there is such an indifference, I don't want to ...... anything that helps to carry it for a few seconds
Maybe I'm too kind to feel that this society is indifferent, I still help a lot of strangers over the years, although I don't know each other, and even when I was a student, I had 2 times because I saw strangers have difficulty lending him money, and there was no news later, and I knew that it was **.
My kindness and zeal are almost worn out by this society......
Of course, there are also things that warm my heart, and when you receive thanks from others after helping others, you are really happy and feel that it is worth it.
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There are many reasons for the reality and apathy of society, and here are some of the possible explanations:
Economic pressures: The rising cost of living in modern society has forced many people to devote more time and energy to work and earn money in order to survive and seek a better life, resulting in alienating and apathetic interactions between people.
Social**: With the popularity of social**, people can communicate with other people through the virtual world, but this way of communication is often only superficial, it is difficult to establish real intimacy, and it is easy to cause people to feel alienated and indifferent to real interpersonal relationships.
Fast-paced lifestyle: Modern people live at a very fast pace, and most people feel that they don't have enough time, and in order to complete various tasks and jobs, they have to put social and interpersonal relationships on the back burner, resulting in a lack of depth and sincerity in communication and communication between people.
Values of individualism: The values of modern society are gradually tilting towards individualism, and many people pay more attention to self-realization and personal interests, while ignoring the emotions and relationships between people, resulting in interactions between people becoming more selfish and profit-driven.
In summary, there are many reasons why society has become realistic and indifferent, but we can still improve this situation by strengthening communication and exchanges between people, and establishing more sincere and caring values.
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Competitive pressures in society: In today's world of prosperity, many people face fierce competition for limited resources such as jobs, housing, education, etc. This competitive pressure can cause people to become more realistic and apathetic because they have to fight for the best opportunities for themselves.
Popularity of socializing: Socializing has made people rely more on virtual socializing rather than real-life model relationships. This can cause people to lose their attention and empathy for others because they are simply focusing their attention on their own virtual world.
Focus: Rapid reporting on violence, crime, and bad behavior may lead people to become more apathetic because they don't think the issues are relevant to them or can't be resolved.
Education and family education: Education and family education can affect people's values and morals. If education and family settings do not value compassion, affection, and responsibility, then people may be more realistic and indifferent.
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Utilitarian society, since the reform and opening up, our country began to vigorously develop the filial piety economy, everyone is keen to make money, people have become snobbish, and the spirit of dedication has gradually disappeared.
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The main reason is that everyone feels that life is not easy, and it is not easy to make money, so when they spend money, they will spend it on the bladeLife is not easy, and we are eager to meet warm-hearted people.
At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;
In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;
Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good. If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I want to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to.
However, looking back at myself, is he a person who thinks about his lover in everything at home? I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest?
Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it. There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them. So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people.
Those who love love to return, and the love is deep when the love is true. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset
In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?
Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others? If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always put your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be bad, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader does not trust you, such a day can be called a good day.
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There is a fact that we are unwilling to face, that is, the quality of the Chinese nation has really declined! Both physique and IQ. The Chinese nation has been reduced to an inferior nation. I'm sad! But nothing can be done!
The shepherd rides on a donkey to shepherd the sheep, and the donkey sows joyfully in the flock, and the shepherd turns a blind eye, what can the sheep do. If Lu Xun didn't shut up alive, he could only be in prison.
Do you want to be indifferent to you? There are thousands of injustices, and there is no right or money to stand aside. In a word,:
Mingzhe protects himself and stands aside, who will judge everything right and wrong? It is not easy to support a family, and it is difficult to judge whether it is right or wrong. Officials have their own blessings, and no one complains about their own hardships.
Bear hardships and stand hard work for the sake of the family, and the retribution of good and evil will not be broken.
What is an ugly phenomenon? What are we judging on? In the absence of accurate information, in the absence of accurate information, how can you tell that this is an ugly phenomenon?
The 8 people in Wuhan, we always thought that they were the makers of rumors at the beginning, and the information we got was that they were rumors, and as the information changed, we knew that they were whistleblowers of conscience. One must have the ability to think for oneself and not follow the crowd.
First, it has become commonplace, and ugly elephants have long been normal. And then the beauty and ugliness are indistinguishable, and even the ugly is beautiful, and the ugliness is proud. Second, either the concept of values has become blurred, or there is nothing that can be done to get rid of it, or even to cause fire and injury.
In this world where the three views have long been extremely distorted, indifference to ugly elephants is already a way to protect oneself! Alack! The so-called ugly elephant is nothing more than its matrix, the refraction of the form, and the accompanying shadow!
Because most of the ugly things in society are done by powerful people.
Not indifference, but helplessness.
The reality is cold, everyone only wants to protect themselves, the sense of justice, and the blood is gone. I'd rather live in a poor, but safe, morally strong place.
Because there's no way to [cover face].
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