How can we be filial people?

People in the world are parents because they have children, so objectively speaking, parents are not necessarily saints, and they also need to continue to learn and progress, but parents are not children after all, we can not mention the face of life, we should be gentle and persuasive, when pay attention to skillful and convenient, the best way is to work hard to do a good job, to set an example for parents, to play an exemplary role, so that the elderly will naturally follow the progress. To be precise, only when we become virtuous and holy, and our parents are also virtuous and holy, can we be regarded as having achieved the perfection of filial piety, which is the great one of filial piety. ‍‍

My colleague's child is very filial to his parents, and every time he buys him something delicious, he has to share it with my colleague to eat, and I think this is filial piety. Before the minor, the parents belonged to the simple giving, we eat, wear, use, are given by them, teach us to walk, talk, at first we don't know anything, are listening to them, and later due to their limited level, we gradually have a certain understanding, we have to distinguish between right and wrong, when disagreeing with the gentle justification, do not lose your temper, the attitude is very bad, not foolish. Do what you can to reduce the burden on your parents.

Now that society has changed, modern filial piety certainly cannot be equated with what it used to be. Not only material, but also spiritual companionship. When my parents were still young, I didn't need to be taken care of, so I often went back to see, hit **, and took time to travel with my parents.

When your parents are old, you should discuss with your siblings how to take care of them. At this time, you need to be accompanied day and night.

When we become adults, we have to repay our parents, send them some things they need, give them some pocket money, take care of them when they are sick, always pay attention to their material needs and spiritual needs, so that they can rely on and support their old age.

The virtue of adoptive parents helps parents develop good virtues such as kindness and selfless dedication, so that the personality of the elderly can be sublimated, so that they can obtain a higher sense of morality and happiness, and improve the quality of life. If you do the above four points, you can be regarded as a good person in the world, and this is the little one of filial piety. ‍‍

Every time I have a holiday or a break from work, I go back to my hometown to visit my grandparents because I am afraid that they will be lonely. Because everyone's needs are different, the conditions to be met are also different. We think that giving parents a high-quality material life may be a kind of filial piety.

But parents think that companionship is the most simple filial piety. Personally, I believe that filial piety is to amplify the interests and hobbies of parents to meet the unfulfilled wishes of parents when they were young.

First of all, we should do it from the action, help our parents cook, do laundry, have time to chat with our parents, take a walk, and take our parents around.

For the sake of parents, we should honor them, and give them warmth and help when they want to help them the most, so that they can be happy and happy.

First of all, you should be more considerate of your parents, don't make them angry, and try to do what they want.

Think about it, Wang Xiang lies on the ice and begs for carp, and Huang Xiang fans the bed warm.

This is recorded in the history of filial piety, mainly to tell us, what parents and elders need, try to meet, start from small things, it is not easy to persist, the so-called, there is no filial piety in front of the bed for a long time, even if it is a simple care for parents, can only insist, the mood is still, that is also the most filial piety.

Practice filial piety, there are no rules, there is filial piety in your heart, and you can sleep well at night when you do things during the day, which is filial piety!

Filial piety is a virtue and an obligation that everyone must fulfill. Just as our parents took care of us when we were young, we who are babies are also supposed to serve the elderly when our parents are old. But in the process, repeating the same thing for a long time can generate a lot of negative emotions.

Such negative emotions will accumulate over time, until you lose control of your emotions and feel physically and mentally exhausted like never before.

Filial piety, follow their hearts", only words and deeds in line with the parents' intentions, always and everywhere to make the elderly happy, is the real filial piety. When you serve the elderly for a long time, you will fall into the quagmire of negative emotions, which is not conducive to your physical and mental health, and it is easy to lose your temper in the process of taking care of the elderly.

Therefore, long-term service to the old troublemaker must have the opportunity to relax his mood, relax his life, and don't let life overwhelm him. In the final analysis, it is very difficult to serve an elderly person, and there is nothing to ask a nurse to serve the elderly when the economic conditions are comfortable. It is very difficult to wash the and urine, take a rock bath, do laundry, and clean up the filth.

1. The best filial piety is to be the most coarse and good yourself, and don't let your parents worry.

Only by reassuring parents is the greatest filial piety. A person who behaves well, has good moral character, does not take any crooked ways, and can make his parents completely reassured, this is filial piety.

2. Filial piety is to love one's parents with 100 points of piety.

For parents, it should be pious love, not just to keep parents fed and clothed, material support is very important, but it is more important to soothe the lonely soul of parents.

3. Give your mother a smile, and your mother will give you a hug in return.

The true manifestation of filial piety is the love for parents from the heart, and the manifestation of bridge psychological emotions is the external appearance of burning and eliminating the town's feelings, and the consistency between inside and outside is the real filial piety.

1. The best filial piety is to be the best version of yourself, don't let your parents worry.

Only by reassuring parents is the greatest filial piety. Disturbing a person who behaves well, has good moral character, and does not take any crooked ways, can make parents completely reassured, this is filial piety.

2. Filial piety is to love one's parents with 100 points of piety.

For parents, it should be blind and pious love, not just to feed and clothe parents, material support is very important, but it is more important to soothe the lonely soul of parents.

3. Give your mother a smile, and your mother will give you a hug in return.

The true expression of filial piety is the love for parents from the heart, the expression of psychological emotion is the external expression, and the consistency between inside and outside is the real filial piety.

Filial piety is not only about providing financial help to the family, but also about care, care and companionship. Money is indeed a form of filial piety, but if you rely only on money to fulfill your filial piety, you may be considered cold-blooded. Therefore, young people need to fulfill their filial piety through care, care and companionship when the economic conditions allow.

Here are some possible ways:

1.Provide emotional support to your family: Caring for and listening to your family members in your life, encouraging them, supporting them, and helping them get out of difficult situations.

2.Provide time support: Share more household chores in family life, take care of elderly parents, etc., to help reduce the burden on family members and make them feel loved and warm.

3.Provide moral support: Provide positive advice and help to family members when they need it, and help them solve problems and difficulties.

4.Provide financial support: Provide financial help to your family if you can afford it, such as buying gifts for your parents or helping them pay for some expenses.

To sum up, filial piety is not just about providing financial help to the family, but also includes a variety of ways to show care and care. Young people should play their role appropriately according to their own situation and the needs of their families, and provide support and assistance to their families in various aspects.

Of course, there are many ways to sell love, among which filial piety is the most important. You shout every day, Mom, I love you; Dad, I love you, but when I'm upset, I turn around and make a face at my parents, is this love? No.

Is this filial piety? Not even more.

So, in Chinese history, why is filial piety governing the country? Because in the earliest days, China took the family as the basic unit, and the family members were members of society, and the father-son relationship was not only a father-son relationship, but a social relationship. It first takes filial piety as the basic point, and slowly combines filial piety and loyalty, then it will be loyal to the country.

Therefore, China's filial piety is very important, and there is a special "Book of Filial Piety", which tells the story of 24 filial piety. The culture of filial piety is a fundamental thread in the Chinese cultural tradition.

Everyone should know the story of Kong Rong letting pears, so why did Cao Cao kill Kong Rong later? Because Kong Rong talked nonsense, he said that the mother is just a container, and the container can be thrown away after giving birth to a child. Of course, he may not be able to do it, but when he said this, it constituted a kind of unfilial piety, a provocation to the foundation of the country, so Cao Cao got rid of him in the name of unfilial piety, of course, there may be other reasons, we will not talk about it here.

For another example, I often sing the western folk song Liangzhou Xianxiao, generations of westerners, the pursuit of life is nothing more than two words: one is virtuous, the other is filial piety. Among them, "Xian" focuses on human beings and emphasizes contributing to society; "Filial piety" focuses on the family, emphasizes filial piety to parents, and contributes to the trouble.

These two words represent the greatest thing in traditional Chinese culture - virtue, and it is also all the purpose for them to intervene in society. In the words of the new era, it is to pay attention to the construction of spiritual civilization, a harmonious society, and so on.

Yes, filial piety of the Chinese is an important culture of transmission and hail, which deeply affects the values and behavior of the Chinese. Filial piety refers to respect and filial piety for parents, elders, and ancestors. This traditional culture influences many behaviors of Chinese, and it is also one of China's core cultural values.