What do you think are the truths that you will only understand if you have experienced them?

The most difficult thing is always to do, reading and experience are always complementary relationships, but unfortunately many people who read, the biggest misunderstanding is that reading can replace experience, reading can give you strength, but it is necessary to create a strong heart, endure the joys and sorrows of life and this or that encounter in life. The more things you have experienced, the deeper your experience, the more you can calmly face all doubts, and the people who have been baptized and refined in the wind and rain are priceless.

When I am very ignorant of feelings, I often say that distance produces beauty. After four years of long-distance relationship, we are still in a long-distance relationship, distance is no longer beautiful, but sad. Sometimes I often wonder why I choose to live such a life, my life is so long, and I can't spend the best time with the person I love the most, isn't it really a waste of life?

However, this is life, and there will always be things that you want to change but can't do. But what doesn't change either way is that I love you, my sir. Hopefully, in the near future, we will have a wonderful and welcoming home.

I have a friend who is in business and has had a lot of setbacks and ups and downs several times. His daughter has been autistic since she was a child, and likes to lock herself in the house to paint, watch TV, and not communicate with others. Later, my friend gave up most of his business and spent a lot of time with his daughter.

The way he accompanies him is different from ordinary people. Every weekend or winter and summer vacation, he would go on a trip by car. So far, he has taken his daughter and wife to countless places.

His daughter is now very cheerful, not stage frightened, dares to dance in public, and can say a lot of wise sayings and explain them perfectly! From this point, it is enough to prove that it is not books that change a person, but knowledge, environment and family.

I feel that most people who read a lot have a tendency, that is, they like to take a step back, think about it, think about it, and then make a decision whether to move forward, although it is steady, but the result is often, forget it, stop moving, and miss a lot of good opportunities. Mind, courage, life, conscience, morality, kindness, and character cannot be learned from books.

How to help ourselves in the face of disasters is something that can really help us. Society is a big dye vat, no one can go in and still maintain their true colors, how to make their lives wonderful, interpersonal communication, recognize people, weigh the pros and cons, these all need us to have a good control.

Don't put all your trust in everyone, because except for your loved ones, no one will really give you sincerity, just like energy, always the more you lose in the future, I send out 100, the theoretical ideal situation will be **100, but the facts will always tell us that the pay is not necessarily proportional to the return.

My understanding is that for some truths, it is better to talk about them a thousand times than to practice them once. People often say the phrase: "I understand this."

The so-called "understanding" is actually the shallowest "knowledge". This kind of "knowledge", deep down is half-believed, and cannot guide a person's words and deeds. Only after the baptism of practice can we become "true knowledge".

My brother-in-law is a top student, and from elementary school to university, his grades never fall outside the top three. Since he was a child, he loved to read books and study numbers. His greatest skills are mental arithmetic and memorization, and he can remember pi to more than 170 decimal places.

After being admitted to graduate school, in their school, he met more top students, which caused him to be severely hit, suffered from mild depression, and graduated a year late. From this point, it can be seen that the book does not learn how to release pressure, how to correct the mentality, and how to learn to communicate.

Of course, reading is an effective way to improve one's ability and quality, and it is a long-term accumulation process. Although there are Yan Ruyu and ** house in the book, there are still some things that cannot be taught in books. Such as survivability, social skills.

These are things that need to be acquired through continuous experience in life.

What you have experienced is what you should have experienced, and it is true that everyone is fair, since birth, you have to go through many firsts, the first time you cry, the first time you drink milk, the first time you turn over, the first time you learn to walk, shouldn't these experiences be experienced? Every experience is a valuable experience for oneself, and only after more experience will you learn to grow and be sensible.

Fairness means that things are handled reasonably and without favoring one party or one person, that is, each person involved in social cooperation bears his due responsibility and gets the benefits he deserves. It feels unfair if a person takes on less responsibility than they should have, or achieves more benefits than they deserve.

It also refers to treating people and things reasonably in accordance with certain social standards (laws, morals, policies, etc.) and in a proper order, which is an important moral quality of systems, systems, and important activities. Equity includes fairness in opportunities for citizens to participate in economic, political, and social other lives, fairness in the process, and fairness in the distribution of results.

Justice is the principle of justice, including social justice, political justice and legal justice. Fairness and justice are the ideals and goals that every modern society strives for, so many countries attach great importance to the fairness of opportunities and processes while maximizing public services and social security.

To build a fair and just society, it is necessary for the whole society to make long-term efforts to improve the cultural, moral, and legal qualities of all citizens, so that people will have the awareness of longing for fairness and justice, the ability to participate in fairness and justice, and the behavior of pursuing fairness and justice in accordance with the law.

What you have experienced is what you have to experience, not what you should experience, many things we say if we say to change can not go through this process, but each of us is after the fact, if we do this thing before there is no result, we are not clear whether these choices are correct, we can only say that everyone's experience we have to experience, but it should not be said that if we do not make any choice, do not try a thing, there will be no experience.

What you experience is what you should experience, my understanding of this sentence is: that is, no matter what choice you make, you are destined to have what the result is, for example, when you encounter a thing, the choice is in your own hands, whether the choice is right or wrong, the experience is your own choice, that is, the process you must go through.

This sentence is similar to everything is the best arrangement, everything has a cause and effect, the things we experience, good and bad, have their reasons, the choice is made by ourselves, then what we experience, the people and things we meet, are also what we should meet.

Everything in the world has a definite number, there is a cause and effect, anything you have done is not necessarily worthless, and the people you meet are by no means accidental, they will definitely tell you at a moment: what you have experienced is to get this "fruit". Don't believe you, carefully observe the verification.

My personal understanding is that what you go through is what you need to go through. For example, the first meal, the first success, the first failure, etc., all these things need to be experienced in your life. In this way, our lives will be full of color.

My personal opinion is that each of us is destined to have a good life, and the hardships we have experienced, the ruggedness and ups and downs we have experienced are all things we must experience.

I don't approve. After all, the background of the times is different, and it does not mean what our parents have experienced, but we also need to experience it. In the seventies and eighties, life was very difficult if there was not enough to eat, not to dress warmly.

Many parents feel that what they experienced when they were young, children today must also go through in order to grow, but this is not the case. In today's society, the most stressful thing is the house, but who doesn't rely on their parents to buy a house? Buying a house is not something that can be solved by working your own.

March 9th, Shanghai, cloudy.

The eighteenth day of coming to Shanghai and the sixteenth day of internship. Once, I was looking forward to working and graduating early. Now that I'm working and experienced, I want to go back to school even more.

People, it's always like this, only to lose it, only to discover its preciousness.

I found my internship at a job fair at school, and I didn't find this company in the list at first, and the resume I printed that day was all foreign trade merchandisers, or copywriters, etc. I printed two different resumes, the Foreign Trade Merchandiser because I studied Business English, which is also related to foreign trade. Copywriting or, because, I love writing work.

With anticipation, nervousness, and uneasiness, I arrived at the job fair. There were students everywhere who came to apply for jobs like me, and I searched everywhere and stumbled upon a company that was hiring tea masters. I like tea, because my hometown produces tea, and I have been drinking tea with my family since I was a child.

I also have a special affection for tea.

Curious, I interviewed the company.

What I think of is in the elegant teahouse, where people relax, drink tea and chat.

The interview process is also very simple, that is, to ask you if you know about tea, whether you are willing to go to other places, and then talk about the treatment of internships.

After that, it's time to wait for the notification.

Two days later, I received a text message saying that I could go to the internship. I was very happy, and my friends around me said that it was a good job. The food and shelter are included, and the salary is not low.

A year later, my airfriends and I stepped on the train to Shanghai alone.

At the accommodation, I met my colleagues, all of whom were very young girls, and the store manager was a year younger than me. Most of them are interns. Some of them have a three-month internship like me, and some have a one-year internship.

The next day was to go to the company for training. The training is to let me understand the company, the content of the work, the things to pay attention to when working, and learn how to make tea.

On the third day, I officially went to work.

Only then did I discover the gap between imagination and reality.

I work in a restaurant, and my job is essentially a tea waiter. When I go to work every day, I ask the guests who come to eat if they want to drink tea? What kind of tea to drink?

I don't want to say I'm fooled.

I'm just too young to think about things too beautifully.

But I didn't leave, but continued to work here as a tea waiter. Ten days of work, from the beginning of the unfamiliar, to now gradually familiar.

I think there must be a reason for what I'm going through now.

I am an introvert and not very sociable. Douji is doing this job, and I have to ask dozens or even hundreds of customers every day, "What kind of tea do you want to drink?" ......

We have black tea, Pu'er tea, Guanyin tea ...... here”

We also have a bit of tea, which is billed per bit, which is a good ......”

Every day I have to constantly recommend tea to my guests and convince them to drink tea. Overcoming the fear of internal complaints, I worked hard to sell tea to every customer.

My family, friends, all said I was too talkative and too introverted. I wonder if they will be proud of me when they see what I look like when I work now.

Many things are not as good as you think, but they are not as bad as you think.

Everything we experience has a reason for its existence.

People, when you have experienced some things, you will understand these three heart-piercing truths.

First, in this world, the only person who loves you the most will always be your hail parents. Because no matter what you become, your parents will never abandon you, this is the heart of parents in the world. And others will never be nice to you like that.

Second, the warmest thing for you is the quilt, because the coolest is not the heart, unless you are stupid and don't know.

Third, in this world, it is money that will never betray you, because man has legs, and he can walk and run.