Is it possible to change the status quo if you don t agree with your other half?

To be honest, it's actually very difficult to get along with each other, because your ideas are completely different, and you can't talk about it together when you chat, which is easy to contradict.

Once the three views are formed, it is difficult to correct, but if you love each other enough, you can understand each other, listen to why the other person thinks the way they do, and start from the other person's point of view.

If you don't agree with your other half, then it is difficult to change the status quo, because a person's personality and three views are very difficult to change, but if two people love each other enough, they will change one day.

It is very difficult, because it is impossible for a person's three views to be changed all at once. This is not uncontrollable, it is the result of the accumulation of long-term environmental influences. Even if it changes temporarily, the future will repeat it.

It depends on what age you are in, if you are at a relatively young age, then it is possible to change, but with the increase of age, a person's three views are becoming more and more fixed, and it is very difficult to change a person's three views.

If you don't agree with each other, you can also seek common ground while reserving differences, or you can work together to change the status quo, you can slowly run in with each other, and it will change with the years.

There is a status quo that can be changed, and the disagreement between the three views may affect the relationship between you, but you must have the right eyes to look at it, and you can have common values.

If she always does things that make her unhappy, and tells her about it, and she can't change it, I don't think I should be with her, there is no grass anywhere in the world.

If you and your significant other are always at odds, then you can try to put down your posture and get along with her, after a long time, it may change the two of you are reconciled as before.

If you have three different views from the other half, you can solve it by accompanying Qi Zai in the following ways:

1.Communicate with each other: Listen calmly to each other's point of view, share your own opinions with each other, understand each other, and avoid arguments and attacks.

2.Respect for differences: Everyone's life and upbringing experiences are different, which may shape different values and codes of conduct. We should respect the other person's point of view and choose wisely, and discuss how to strike a balance between different points of view.

3.Seek mediation: Sometimes, the involvement of a third party may be required to mediate disagreements and disputes. Help and support can be sought by seeking professional psychologists, couples counselors, and homeschooling specialists.

In short, if there is a situation where both parties have different views, they should actively look for solutions, respect each other's views and choices, and maintain communication and understanding in the process of dealing with the problem.

I feel that a marriage with different views can continue.

The so-called disagreement between the three views, my understanding is that there can be good communication in case of trouble, rather than blind violent communication. A breakup or divorce is not the key to really solving the problem, and proper communication is important.

In fact, most marriages are the same, no matter how completely consistent the three views and preferences of two people before marriage, there must be a period of intense run-in after marriage, and after surviving this time, you will find that this run-in is beneficial to the marriage and is worth paying for both parties.

The saddest thing in marriage is that the person who used to hold the hand of the son, and the person who grew old with the son refused to tolerate you even a little bit of life in the end, and the original vow of a good married life was slapped in the face like a slap.

People are always fickle, and they always find a lot of excuses for their fickleness: when they are in love, different personalities are called complementary; When you quarrel, if you have different personalities, it's called incompatibility. When it is sweet, the prince marries the princess and calls it a love fairy tale; When they broke up, it was wrong for the prince to marry the princess.

No marriage is perfect, and no matter how loving a couple is, they have all had the idea of divorce. According to statistics, every couple wants to divorce at least 200 times in their life and wants to strangle each other 50 times, but the two people in the marriage are inextricably linked because of their children, property, each other's families, etc.

The conflict between modern and traditional concepts is forcing us to carry out one inner revolution after another in order to truly find the path to happiness. "Revolution" does not mean that you must abandon your existing other half, but how you can find your own happiness in a marriage with "inconsistent views".

Couples with the same three views, there are happy and unhappy; There are different values, and there are the same happy and unhappy. After years of running-in and edification, no matter how different the three views of the two are, they can be placed in the same house without incident. Therefore, a marriage with the same three views is only more likely to be happy, rather than "a marriage with the same three views must be happy", and we can't simply beat the marriage with different three views to death.

No, it will be tiring for both parties to continue.

After getting married, have you ever heard your other half say this: "Life can't be passed, we don't agree with each other, let's get divorced!" The meaning expressed by this sentence is that the three views do not agree, and the people who often say this sentence are no longer in each other's hearts!

Relatives and friends do not agree with you, you can choose to stay away or reduce contacts, but husband and wife do not agree with each other, and there are children involved, how to stay away and reduce contacts? Separation?

After being separated for a long time, it may come to the step of "divorce". On the other hand, in real life, there are many couples who often divorce because of disagreement, saying that they are not all the way with each other, they can't understand what the other party says, and the other party doesn't know what I mean, just like playing the piano to a cow.

A marriage is coming to an end, not all of it is a matter of three views, the three views are only one aspect, and the feelings and personalities of two people, etc., it is recommended that couples run in more, be more tolerant, and understand more.

But people who have come over will tell you: couples who do not agree with each other can't go on, divorce is a matter of time or time, there will always be contradictions, quarrels, and cold wars together, and after a long time, they are under the same roof, and they hate each other, and everyone looks at each other and tortures each other. What do couples with different views do together?

There is no need to be together at all, and continuing to "settle" will only make it more painful.

You must know that the three views of husband and wife do not agree, and some of them are discovered after marriage, and if one party really cares about the three views before marriage, it is impossible to combine them with the other party.

That is to say, before marriage, some couples are "similar in three views", and after getting married, they completely find that they do not agree with each other's three views, and begin to regret and want to divorce, but they are reluctant to have children after divorce, and they are very tired when they do not divorce.

A person's three views will change with his growth, time, and experience. People who have similar views to you before marriage may also have different views after marriage, and conversely, if the three views do not agree after marriage, couples can also strive to achieve similar views.

Most couples are in a situation where the three views before marriage are very similar, but after marriage, the three views are not compatible.

The real change in the three views is often after marriage, the husband and wife have children, they are busy with work every day, and the other party is not engaged in romance, let alone focusing on you. At this time, the husband and wife gradually disagreed, because after a long time of getting along, the other party's temperament, preferences, looks and other characteristics have no attraction to you, and you are also unconsciously bored.

Couples who do not agree with each other will not be able to go on in the end, and divorce is a matter of time. The two will always have contradictions, quarrels, and cold wars together. After a long time, they are under the same roof, they look at each other and hate each other, everyone looks at each other and tortures each other.

What do couples with different views do together? There is no need to be together at all, and it will only be more painful to continue to live.

It's just that after getting married, the couple has children, and they are even more busy with work every day, and the other party no longer engages in romance, let alone focuses on you. The two will quarrel over some trivial things, and they can't respect and tolerate each other. At this time, the husband and wife gradually disagreed.

Because after a long time of getting along, the other party's temperament, preferences, looks and other characteristics no longer have any attraction to you, and you also unconsciously have a sense of boredom. When there is a conflict between husband and wife, the other half is unwilling to let you go, and the two of you are not on the same channel for many things.

Because they got along day and night to get to know each other better, they completely found out that they didn't agree with each other, and since then they began to regret it and wanted to divorce, but they were reluctant to have children after divorce. did not divorce, continued to maintain this marriage with different views, and lived a very tired life. In my opinion, women still have to be kind to themselves, and only by completely letting go of this marriage with different views can they live a more comfortable life!

There's really no need to waste your good youth in this marriage, it's not worth it at all! If you don't get divorced, you will definitely regret it in the future!

I feel that there is no need to continue, because two people who do not agree will often quarrel and quarrel in life, so since this is the case, it is better to separate the long pain than the short pain.

I don't think the three views match, and the marriage doesn't need to continue. Even if it continues, it is easy to misunderstand each other. Noisy and noisy life is unavoidable.

Couples who don't agree with each other can't go on, and divorce is a matter of time.

There will always be contradictions, quarrels, and cold wars together, and after a long time, they are under the same roof, and they look at each other and hate each other, and everyone looks at each other and tortures each other. What do couples with different views do together? There is no need to be together at all, and continuing to "settle" will only make it more painful.

I think it's very difficult, if you don't have the same views, you will have a lot of friction in your daily life.

I think it probably can't continue, now most people looking for a partner, the most important criterion is to have the same three views, people with inconsistent three views, there will be disagreements on many things, if you get married, then contradictions are essential, and life will naturally be unhappy.

No, the three views do not coincide, basically all aspects of life will produce friction, and it is simply torturing each other.

If the three views do not agree, the marriage can still continue, but two people need to have enough tolerance ability, the most important thing is that the three views are not compatible, and it may evolve into a quarrel or something like that.

Yes, it is really not easy for two people to get married, don't easily feel that the marriage can't continue, the three views don't agree or something, you can slowly run in in life, and the main thing is to understand and tolerate more.

I can continue. Since you choose to marry each other, you must learn to accept each other, tolerate each other, understand each other between husband and wife, learn from each other's strengths, and slowly run in, the three views will gradually be consistent.

Definitely not, for example, the ex-wife's view of marriage, she can find a man casually outside, and you can also find a woman casually outside. I'm sorry, my thinking is not so avant-garde, loyalty and trust are what I want, even if I am divorced, I will leave innocently, not like you.

Don't continue the relationship between the three views, you can find the other half who has the same three views: if a person doesn't care about what others think in his emotional life, then it is not easy for the two of them to feel happy in their married life. Therefore, the other person may feel very tired, and they really don't want to be with this person in the long run, so the two will choose to break up.

If the three views of the two parties do not agree, then you also need to care about this problem, because if you want to live together for a long time, personality will be an important main reason for the breakup of two people, so you must pay attention to take care of other people's thoughts in your emotional life, so as to reduce the probability of disputes.

It will be more comfortable for two people with different views to live together, you can communicate with the other person about anything, and the other party can also understand you very simply, but if you don't agree with each other's three views, the other party really doesn't understand what problem you are talking about. Therefore, if both parties still want to continue, and want to make this relationship well, then they must understand others in their emotional life. At this point, I think as long as there is no problem with the direction.

Life values, values, outlook on life, everyone has different ideas, different views, and different things they like, and there is no doubt that they are different.

If the three views are very inconsistent and there is no way to negotiate, I just don't recommend being together, because in this case, the two will become more and more painful, and they will see each other's shortcomings more and more, and they can't see each other's advantages. Because everyone insists that they are right, then no matter what others say or do, they will feel out of tune with themselves. Therefore, when falling in love, it is best for the two to have similar views, at least to have a certain degree of tolerance, and be able to listen to the advice of others, so that they can be happy.

In fact, in the vast majority of cases, as long as there is no violation of law and discipline and morality, most of the three views will not be far apart, at this time, it depends on whether each other really loves each other, whether they want to invest in each other, whether they tolerate each other, this is not the three views, but love. I don't think it's okay as long as there is love. Because I don't think anyone loves that kind of criminal suspect and morally degraded person, so the person we can love the most must be the person who can love the most, there is no doubt that they all have their advantages, and as long as they are happy with each other, they will have the level to combine themselves with each other's three views, so I firmly believe that as long as there is love, it can be solved.