What am I going to do My girlfriend said she was going to be quiet and she was going to give up.

It's better for everyone to be calm, in fact, you're still lucky, my original girlfriend for 3 years, the beginning of more than 1 year is also very affectionate, and gradually get acquainted with each other and find that a lot of them are not very compatible, and the outlook on life and values are also very different. At that time, I could say that my heart was too broken to be broken, but time gradually faded and forgot everything. After a few years of retrospect, I realized that it was better for everyone to be separated, otherwise both would be tired.

So it is recommended to separate and calm down... If you come back from being a soldier, and the two of you can still be together, then this kind of relationship is stronger.

Your girlfriend says she wants to be quiet, so you have to give her time.

Two people have encountered contradictions when they fall in love together, and they really need to be separated for a period of time to calm down, and they can also adjust and change some of their bad behaviors and habits, so that the two of you can really get along.

If your girlfriend says this, it means that he may have had a lot of troubles lately, and she wants to give her a little time to think about it, then you should respect her ideas and be there for him all the time.

At this time, I think it is best to let him be able to calm down. Fulfill his request. The more you go to him at this time, the more annoying he may become, but there must be a time limit during this time. That's unlimited, otherwise there's a good chance you'll end up ignoring you again.

So during his quiet time, you should also reflect on yourself, ** is not good for him, ** is what you need to improve, and talk to him well the next time you meet, so that the relationship between the two people can get better and better.

You said that you really want to meet Jingjing, can you arrange for you to meet, ask her out for dinner, and find a reason to meet, mainly because you are willing to spend money, who will not have trouble with money.

Then, if there is a problem in the relationship between the two of you, you should think calmly, think about who it is, what went wrong, and think about how to solve it.

Then it depends on what is wrong with you, obviously she is now reconsidering your relationship problems, of course, it is also possible that she does not want to meet and quarrel with you, and does not want to worsen your relationship because of the quarrel.

Don't rush to find her first, first ask her how much time she needs to calm down, such as giving you a day or half a day to calm down, and then I'll go to you again after this half a day, and we'll talk about what's wrong.

If it's your problem, then you have to admit your mistake well and sincerely, put down your face to admit your mistake, and then coax her well; If it's her problem, then see if it's a matter of principle, if not, don't be serious with her, after all, sometimes girls need to be coaxed, if it's a matter of principle, then you have to tell her that you can't accept her approach, if you can't negotiate because of the principle, then you will have this kind of problem in the future.

In the end, you have to do what you promise, don't commit if you can't do it, taking a step back does not mean that you have to abandon principles and dignity, girls will always worship the strong, you think about whether you sometimes have some small problems that she cares about and you don't do well.

Girls are all duplicitous, so if you have time, look for her in the dead face area! She'll forgive you, explain it well, if you still care about her.

Then you let him be quiet.

It can only be like this, there is no choice.