My boyfriend is always out of town, should I continue with him?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-21
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think it should be continued. Whatever you do, you have to think about it from the other person's point of view first. often returns to his hometown, showing that he is a very filial man.

    You should feel relieved to have such a boyfriend. Since he has promised you, you should believe in him, and you should give him time to fulfill his promise. Also, if you really love him and he really loves you, is the landlord really willing to give up and continue with him for this reason?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Try your best to find a way to be together.

    After all, you have feelings.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's normal, I understand, if I give up, because I want someone to be by my side, not a money-making machine or a workaholic, just two people together

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Ay. What a statement!

    It's hard. It still depends on whether you love him or not.

    The key is here.

    There are also two people together.

    Just cherish it.

    But if you don't love it, give it up.

    Otherwise, both of them will be hurt.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It's not easy to love someone, cherish it, friends.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The importance of a person is not just for a moment, but for a lifetime.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Go with the flow! Whatever happens. But I think we should still be together, and I think this little difficulty must be experienced before I will remember the bittersweet memories later.

    ps My girlfriend is also out of town.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Quite simply, he doesn't like you anymore, and the facts will tell.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course I was going to break up, he said to stay in Beijing, that was to lie to you in order to get you!

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    In this way, a man has the ability.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you really like him, go on, if not, then why bother so hard, just disperse.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If you still have feelings for each other, of course you can't give up!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I don't know, the depth of love is together.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There will always be separation in life, and people should learn how to better face separation when they are alive, so that they can make their lives less sad, and at the same time calmly face these so-called separations and do what they want to do.

    The most painful thing in different relationships is long-distance relationships, because when two people are in different places, emotional problems cannot be solved in time, and girls in the relationship are very eager to be able to get each other's company, otherwise they will eventually bear a lot of pressure with personal independence, which is very painful for girls. Long-distance relationship is actually because girls can't endure loneliness for a long time and feel that it is a lot of pressure in life alone, so they propose to break up, after all, women themselves are more sensitive and sensual, and they all hope to have more time with their boyfriends.

    But many things in life are not as you want, and not all relationships are developing smoothly. It is said that summer is a lot of breakup season, as long as summer is the season of graduation, many couples have their own choices after graduation, and they can only go to different places for work, but it often doesn't take long to give up this relationship after being in a different place, because it is really very painful, and not everyone can bear the pain of a long place well.

    If the boyfriend is forced to travel for half a year because of work, he should be supported as a girlfriend, but I think girls should still have their own lives, and they can't follow their boyfriends to go on business trips, after all, after half a year, their boyfriends may change jobs in a city, and at this time, they can only follow and continue to change places, which is actually a very torturous thing for themselves, which will make their jobs unstable, and it is also very unfavorable to their future career development. After a long time, I will complain about my boyfriend. In fact, the best thing to do is to wait for your boyfriend to come back from a business trip in the city and place where you originally worked, after all, life will inevitably have various moments of separation.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can go to it. Among the boyfriends and girlfriends who are dating, they generally want to be by each other's side. Your boyfriend's business trip is half a year, which is a long time, and if you don't go, your relationship may fade.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I think you should go with him, because half a year will really create more distance between you, and it is likely to affect the relationship between you, so I recommend that you definitely go along.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Don't, loving someone should give him enough trust and space, you will only become a burden to him with the past.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't have a job, I think you can go with him, after all, it's safer, after all, men's hearts are easy to change.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When two people fall in love together, they should rush to get married, even if they are temporarily separated, they can't break up if they are not in a city, love is not child's play, and they must stick to it

    This is actually not a problem, whether to continue to go on, it is related to your attitude towards this relationship, if you really give your feelings, how can you be willing to let go easily, the relationship between two people is deep enough, and the distance is really not a problem. How to keep the relationship fresh in a long-distance relationshipEveryone is afraid of a long-distance relationship, because of the distance, they can't see each other often, and they are afraid that the relationship will become weaker and weaker. I think that as long as both parties keep their relationship fresh enough, the two of them will definitely go on until they get married and have children.

    So how do you do that? Two people can plan for the future, such as setting a goal, both parties promise to meet every once in a while, no matter how busy they are, they will get married in a few years after their jobs are stable, and they often look forward to their married life when chatting, and the two of them work together for this goal. Trust each other, don't have suspicions, long-distance relationships Sometimes they often think crankily because the other party didn't pick up their ** in time and reply to their own messages.

    Especially girls, who are more delicate and think more. Give the other person enough trust, trust.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Whether you should continue or not, you should make your own decisions according to your own specific situation. Although for people in love, sometimes they will be "obsessed with the authorities". But more often than not, it should be assertive. If you ask people everything, then what kind of love are you talking about?! ~

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Hello beauty, if you can find a real person, of course, it should be, for girls, to have a good job opportunity, it is more beneficial to their career development and personal life.

    However, when she is in love, in order to be able to be with her boyfriend, the girl needs to choose between her career and her boyfriend. ......For this problem, girls need to make a rational analysis based on their own situation. Specifically, it includes staying calm and avoiding emotional matters, not giving up your career easily in the process of pursuing love, and fully considering the reality of life and work and making rational choices with your boyfriend.

    1. Stay calm and avoid making wrong choices because of emotion.

    Although the relationship is very important in the process of being in love, it is precisely at this time to avoid being emotional. ......As a girl, when your boyfriend chooses to develop in a different place, she must stay calm and must not give up her career rashly because of the feeling of empty feelings. I should find a better way to solve the problem through rational analysis, 2, in the process of pursuing love, girls can't give up their careers.

    For girls, it is a very happy thing to be able to get perfect love, but this is by no means the whole problem. ......As a girl, having her own career is the key to maintaining her independence and the foundation for winning respect, so in the process of pursuing love, girls should not give up their careers, but should continue to maintain good development in their careers, so as to win a stable life for themselves, so as to obtain a more perfect love.

    3. Girls should fully consider the reality of work and life, and make rational choices with their boyfriends.

    As a pair of lovers, when faced with a choice, they should fully consider the interests of both parties, and face and solve problems together through negotiation. ......For the problem of boyfriends choosing to develop in different places, girls should fully consider their own work and life realities, and make rational choices with their boyfriends, so as to maximize the protection of their own interests with their boyfriends and make the relationship between themselves and their boyfriends deeper.

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