How can you keep yourself from being pretentious? How can I become inactive?

If you don't think you've done anything wrong, ignore their bad words. Don't do it, respect yourself first and don't force yourself to pander to others. Don't deliberately attract the attention of others through some behaviors, make yourself more mature by reading or communicating with others, and don't always have childish behaviors.

Learn to summarize, think to yourself after doing something that wasn't good enough, remember, teach yourself a lesson, and prevent yourself from making the same mistakes in the future. Just be yourself.

I don't know if you've ever heard of such a saying, no matter what you do, so you have to try to be as happy as possible: you can't make everyone happy. You can't find a second you in this world, you should realize that in fact, everyone is unique and can't be copied, in fact, you don't need to change yourself, they have their own style, their own thinking and ability to do things, which is also something that others can't imitate, right?

So what about you, as long as you have no guilt and no heart, you can't satisfy everyone, even if others say anything, only you know what is wrong with me if I work hard, I have done it and I have done my best.

To put it bluntly, it's too fake! Why should we treat others with hypocrisy? Now that you know your own pretentiousness, you have to do it yourself, and you must first have confidence in yourself!

Be cute, slow to react, look calm, slow to move, look elegant, don't value other people's judgments of you, maybe you can do it.

Avoid hypocrisy, such as saying what you want to eat, don't know what you don't know, whatever, and then others say eat yusheng, you say you don't like to eat, others say you eat barbecue, you say heat, others say take it to the bar, you say your parents don't allow it, and you want to do the same thing. The premise must be that you have intrinsic value that you can express, such as core technology. You might as well think about the results, in addition to doing your own work, try to improve your "visibility" as much as possible, not just a more sudden "performance".

Don't be a perfectionist, a perfectionist is always waiting for everything to be ready before acting, always waiting for the best time. Sounds good, but everything is ready, the best time has been lost, and it is difficult to do everything so coincidentally focused on everything. There is no best in everything, only better, so if you have a goal, you must act immediately, according to the existing actual situation, take immediate action.

Continuous improvement in the process of action.

To be a "good person", you first have to like yourself and like an introverted self. Of course, I never think there's anything wrong with you learning from extroverts, it's a good thing for people with different personalities to learn from each other, but you learn so anxiously and painfully, as if you're an introvert, so worthless, always trying to draw a line with yourself. This, very unnecessary.

Learning is a process of upward accumulation, and if you completely deny your foundation, can you learn it? As you say, it's just contrived. Accept yourself before you can change yourself.

Respect for everyone and their labor, for example, he seriously found a delicious restaurant, and took you there with great interest, you obviously think it is delicious, and then pretend to be reserved and say that it is okay, he must be super speechless, and it is better to say which dish he likes to eat, and attach serious comments, and there is, for example. In KTV, your friend (especially homosexual) sings very well, after he finishes singing, please applaud him sincerely, don't try to suppress others at this time, in addition to feeling scheming, it's really a and a.

Don't be too showy, especially on occasions where the same sex is present, the gun shoots the first bird, this will not be explained, especially the jealousy between girls, which will blow you up to the sky in minutes. In addition, really powerful people disdain to be exposed. Of course, I'm also struggling with this issue....I am also facing the problem of career orientation, and I can communicate more when I have time.

Looking at Chen Duling's performance in the longing for life and if love, it seems very unnatural and overwhelmed, but I think she is real and unpretentious. A girl who is really contrived is not so considerate of others, and does not feel that her actions make others feel uncomfortable, because she is immersed in her own contrivance and cannot extricate herself.

The scenery of Jiuzhaigou is not beautiful, and it is recognized as beautiful. After a bumpy 10-hour drive with my family to a famous tourist destination, I made a special statement that I just wanted to stay in the hotel and have a good rest and visit the small shops nearby. At this time someone reminded me:

Ran all the way to Jiuzhaigou, don't be petty, you will regret such a beautiful place if you don't look at it. Although I was not interested in the crowds of people in Jiuzhaigou, I was still dragged to the scenic spot by the elders of the same sex. Put it on other people, come and come, then take a good look at the scenery.

But my strength came up again, so I wore a bitter gourd face all the way, and walked in front of me sullenly, neither taking pictures nor resting, and finished visiting the scenic spot in the shortest possible time.

Mistakes frequented, and on another trip I was forced to follow the large group to a small town on the border line, which was barely passable for a car, and the scenery was beautiful on both sides of the verdant sugar cane forests. When everyone in the car got out of the car to buy sugar cane and munch, I sat in the car and watched a movie with my ipad. Sure enough, this move was disgusted by everyone, who thought that I was not in line with the group and too capricious.

I've done it so many times that I don't even know what normal looks like. Oh, all of a sudden, I probably know, it's normal to follow what others do, and follow what others say, so that's right, I won't do it next time.

1. Ask for what you can.

There is a girlfriend who works as long as her boyfriend is by her side, she will not do anything, and she will let her boyfriend take Mori Liang's friend to complete everything, and even a bottle of water needs to be opened by the other party, and many times I doubt life. The girlfriend makes people feel very depressed, and many times they feel helpless, but because they love each other, they will tolerate everything about their girlfriend. If you love each other, you will accept everything about your girlfriend and her habits, so that you will get enough happiness and take a step back to make yourself feel happier.

Second, you need help with everything.

I have a girlfriend who wants help with everything, and I don't want to do anything by myself, so I rely on my boyfriend very much. Many times it seems to be a small thing, but they all hope to be able to get help from their boyfriends, which increases the pressure on their boyfriends and makes their time basically spend with each other.

Since you know that the other party is a woman, but since you are your girlfriend, you should pay for it, and many times both parties love each other enough, and there will be no problem with it. If you love someone, you should tolerate each other infinitely, so that the other party can feel that you are stupid and lenient, so that you can better maintain the relationship between the two and have a good future.

Summary. Definition of work.

Kiss. Hello! Doing, most of which is another synonym for willfulness, that is, excessive demands that do not know how to judge the situation in the relationship will cause trouble to others.

How to become undoable.

Definition of pro. Hello! It is more likely to be another synonym for the shouting of willful sedan talks, that is, the excessive demand that does not know how to judge the situation in the relationship is closed, which will cause trouble to others.

So first of all, your question must first be defined, whether it is your own doing, or whether it is really your own reasonable needs that are not met, but others say that you have done it. <>

Why bother, Li Xian, a child who grew up in a loving and safe environment, will have a bottom level of self-confidence and trust in others. When you grow up, you don't need to be constantly proven by the outside world to believe that you are worthy of love. Therefore, the essence of the work is the deep insecurity and low self-worth of the sedan car.

It's that we hit ** and his parents let him sleep and I hung up ** I got angry because I was waiting for him every day just to fight ** at night I admit that I was missing a trace of Jane But I just wanted to stop him and let him accompany me to play Lu a little more, even if it was a little bit.

This is not called, ** is called.

Waiting every night just to talk to him**, this is just a boyfriend must be accompanied.

I really just want him to spend more time with me, even if it's just a little bit, I know he has to do a lot of things every day, and he's angry, how am I going to coax him.

You can write a short essay, it works.

Why do you want to coax him, in fact, you are not wrong.

Do you often do this?

If you don't have it often, there's nothing wrong with it, it's not called it, you just want the other person to care about you.

This is what every girl will look like when she falls in love.

No, it's just that I made him angry today, and I wanted to coax him, after all, he was also my boyfriend for the first time, and there was something wrong with calling Sakura, I made him angry, Duan Block, and I also had to coax and burn Cong.

<>That's okay. I'll give you a recommendation on how to coax him.

First of all, it's not a big deal, you can try to be coquettish, or write an apology love letter, and just say a few sweet words.

It's okay to apologize for a small composition<>

After all, it's not a big deal, and in the end you want to say that you will do that, because you want him to be with you and love him very much.

It's okay to add an extra confession of sweet words to it.

In fact, after giving the letter, you can also find a place for the two of you to be alone, and talk about why you are like this, greasy and crooked.

I'm sure your boyfriend isn't really that angry, you don't have to worry.

Girls are coquettish and wronged to be the most effective for boys.

Remember to be coquettish.

Hahahaha, I'm wrong, and I have to understand him, right?

In fact, there is no one right or wrong in this matter, it is just a small thing in life, coax him tomorrow, go out with him, and talk about why you are so <>

Maybe the two of you are in a better relationship because of this little thing.