I wondered if he was lying to me, and I always felt like he was lying to me

The foundation of love is trust, and men and women in love generally test their other half intentionally or unintentionally. A common way to do this is to have your friend pretend to be a stranger and talk to each other, and then ask your friend to ask questions about themselves in uncomfortable ways, including: Do you love him, are you happy together, etc.

This may be a very normal mentality: I am not sure about my feelings or judgments. If you say it through the voice of a third person, you will get a lot of psychological satisfaction.

However, the result of this method is that once the other person says 'no', it will quickly bring a relationship to an end. And so quickly, so thoroughly. Similarly, there are many people (especially girls) who want to deliberately test each other to see how much they weigh in their hearts.

It's better if you meet a smart boy this way. You can get the satisfaction you want. But it might not be the same when you meet a sloppy guy.

My personal suggestion: this girl can think about the situation you know, and you need to think rationally, including time, place, and situation. These things allow you to discover what your love for each other time is based on?

What is it about you that attracts each other? Some of his small actions will change your mood, and I believe that you must not have been in a relationship for more than half a year before, (if there were), and a total dependence in your heart makes you lose yourself a little. Although your requirements for him are not high in your opinion, this kind of behavior is a kind of restraint on the other party, and if he is less than 22 years old, I believe he will have a rebellious mentality.

At this time, you are both a pawn in each other's minds, and you are figuring out each other's psychology (human instinct), which may directly involve the question of who will be in charge of the house after you get married (I hope you have this opportunity), and the man will be more active when he wants to express a way of love. You don't have to tell him what to do, he knows when to give you ** and text messages, remember: all birds belong to nature.

Hopefully you will free yourself. I can say with certainty: you love each other very much right now.

After reading what you wrote, I feel like you made a mistake.

Emotionally, you must be reserved, and if the person you love leaves you, you will not be in pain. You can't sometimes believe everything men say. Perhaps, he just likes you. And not love you. Treat it well. Wishing you happiness!

...Speechless. Where is there no grass at the end of the world, why should you love one of him?

Friend, I have to say:

These clips of yours are surprisingly similar to my emotional experience.

I'm in love with a married man. I don't want to say what I think, and I don't want to hint at anything, because the gods are free. I hope my kindness didn't hurt you.

Like you said, I have personally experienced the behavior of those men. Even including the phrase "we are not suitable"...It was as if I had gone back a few years again.

I was the most careless girl, all kinds of signs have shown that he has something to hide from me, I thought at first that he had another girlfriend, but the result was something I didn't expect, or I didn't want to face, he, married. He had been married for over a year when he met me.

It was learned that he was married 2 years after they met. Please don't call me stupid, love, it's a weird thing.

Before that, I thought that there was a conflict between our personalities, and I was repeatedly in a state of ambiguity about what I tolerated and even what men and women should know best. Maybe it's because of love, I can tolerate myself to deceive, because I completely feel that he has something to hide from me, maybe it's more appropriate to deceive.

Maybe it's my love and tolerance, he can't do without me. I won't talk about the details in the middle, and now we are married.

As for your confusion, I want to say that I asked him, and he confessed that when he first met me, he didn't know that he loved me so much, so he used all kinds of methods to make me retreat. Doing a lot of things that hurt me, like the things you said. At that time, he was in the period of separation, and he was being hurt by others, and he couldn't determine my feelings, so he kept hurting me very contradictory, with words and deeds.

I think you can already feel that there are a lot of things you don't want to face.

Suffice it to say that love is a game for the brave, and you will go through a lot of tribulations. If you are together, you must learn to trust, even if it is pretending; It doesn't matter if you're not together, and there's no need for people you don't trust to be together, right?

How much love is worth coming over, how many people are worth waiting for! I don't know if he is worthy of your life (men to care for and care) and women (to rely on and wait) people.

I don't know if you're a man or a woman.

If you feel that he is not as enthusiastic about you as he used to be, you should pay attention.

Because I'm a boy, I can still learn a little bit from it.

If each other is sincere, they must be very careful when they speak, even if it is a joke he makes, doesn't he think that he is too much, and he doesn't think about your feelings? So much so that you are heartbroken.

Is such a person worthy of love? Can this kind of love bring you happiness Can he make you happy.

The person who is loved during the relationship is always stupid, and even if he vaguely perceives something, he does not dare to think in a bad direction.

Because you're afraid of losing him!

Your above story is similar to what I experienced, I didn't feel for my daughter at the time, but I didn't say anything to him, I wanted to break up, but I was afraid of hurting him, so I kept estranged him, hoping to let time dilute everything, and finally he still felt it, so he came to my house to find me to live upstairs, my tears fell and asked me if I didn't want him anymore! What could I have said at the time? Considering a woman's self-esteem, all I can say is how is it possible baby, I will always love you, it's just that I've been a little busy lately and don't have time!

In less than 1 week, my dream came true, and I ended up going my separate ways!

These are just my personal analysis, you can refer to it, but it does not mean that I approve of you to break up, everything is still your chassis and you decide, you have the final say.

I hope you don't get too sad and sad and trust your own judgment.

Save the wounded heart.

Personal Wishes: I wish you happiness.

Love can be felt, you take your time to taste it!

I don't think he's testing you, maybe he really wants to be separated from you, and many girls will test boys, and boys won't. You've only been dating for a month, and with a little bit of sanity, everything can take your time. Ignore him for a few days, see what he does, and see how he reacts, you know what to do.

Then I wish you happiness.

Maybe this is the test of love

Persistence is victory

She's tempting you.

You've fallen for his tricks.

Show that you love her.

And he was satisfied.

A month to say that I will marry you? It's a bit of a problem.

Summary. Hello can tell us how you feel.

It always felt like he was lying to me.

Hello can tell us how you feel.

He and I have known each other since March, and we haven't met yet, and our family is close, and there has always been an ambiguous stage in the middle, and he wants to meet me during the summer vacation. At night, he almost always calls me by phone, but I found that he likes to say sweet words, obviously he doesn't confirm the relationship, says things that I think cross the line, says that marrying me will raise a lot of children, how about cooking for me, and saying that he is serious about me. Because I had doubts about his feelings for me before, saying that I was suspicious, and I also wanted to be with me at that time.

He himself admits that he is a thick-skinned man, and he dares to say anything, which makes me still very suspicious that his purpose is to deceive my feelings. Although he also said that he was still very worried about the holiday gifts, I could stop the loss in time.

You mean you're in the same place.

Not in the same school, I met through friends at first, and our closure is not over yet.

Meaning, you're still reading.

Yes universities. If it's a lie, you'll probably know if you try it.

How to try? Hearing you say that, he doesn't think you feel.

Still there? Stay away from the opposite sex and will not be ambiguous Generally speaking, good men are very dedicated to their feelings.

Summary. Kiss! When a person wants to be together, they must first consider the wishes of both parties, the actual situation and future development, and only after they have determined it can they officially start a relationship.

At the same time, you must keep in touch, understand his real situation, make sure that he is sincere to you, and he cannot deceive you when he says it.

Pro: If that's the case, you should find some other jujube staring hobbies, or find someone else to replace a window period. You have to think more about his bad points, write down his bad points, write them on paper and read them constantly, read them over and over again, deepen this impression, may change your attitude, and dismemberment This is a psychological advice for your Li Yan.

Is this really okay, I want to be with him well, love me sincerely, and can't deceive me when I say it, I will really be with him seriously.

Kiss! When a seller wants to sell in a faction, he must first consider the wishes of both parties, the actual situation and future development, and only after determining can he decide to officially start a relationship. At the same time, you must keep in touch, understand his real situation, make sure that he is sincere to you, and he cannot deceive you when he says it.

What should I do.

Kiss! Don't you say he's a**? Give up on him and find someone who truly loves you.

I just know that he is ** and still thinks about him, and I feel sick.

Kiss! Give up on him, the long pain is better than the short pain, find someone who loves you to spend your life with.