How can you not let yourself sink deeper in love?

If you want to fall into it without it, unless you don't love it deeply, you want to love and you don't want to fall deep, it's impossible, unless you're not true love.

Remember.

If you really love him, you can't fall into it, unless you're playing ......

That's when you are strong and see through everything. Don't be sad for that person, really understand love

Love is willing to do everything for each other, whether it can last forever, whether it can be long-term or not, whether it can be for a long time, I sincerely hope that the other party can be happy and happy! True love takes a lifetime to comprehend--- in real life, the one you love the most often does not choose you; What loves you the most is often not what you love the most; And the longest, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most'No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem; If you still love him, you should want him to live happily and happily, and hope that he will be with the true love, and it will never stop him; If you prevent him from attaining true happiness, you don't love him anymore, and if you don't, who are you to accuse him of changing his mind?

Love is not possession! You love the moon and can't take it down and put it in your basin, but the moon's rays can still shine into your room. In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, making the lover an eternal memory in your life.

The real victor is not you, me, him, it's time! He is the culprit of love, it makes you crazy for love, and at the same time it devours your love without a trace. He never changes his pace for your emotions, even if you plead with it and refuse to stay for a while, and you can't even see its face of ignoring everything, so the spring night is always short, and the pain is long, so the parting is always fast, and the wait is long, so love is fleeting, and life is a little bleak.

We can't grasp the response of our love, we can only pass on the message of our love, we can't grasp it, we can only grasp our own pay, we can't guarantee that it will last forever, we can only manage it with our hearts!

As long as you are in a relationship, no one can control your emotions, no one can control your feelings. How deep you fall, you really can't make your own decisions. Sometimes you really don't need a reason to love someone, and if you want a reason, it's not called true love, so you don't have to worry about these things.

To be able to love is your luck.

No one can control their feelings in this relationship, unless in this relationship, you are a very cold-blooded and ruthless person.

Personal advice is to keep learning and progressing in life, divert your attention, don't pay too much attention to the words and actions of your partner in a relationship, learn to keep your distance from each other, and don't be too intimate.

No matter what time you do it, you have to understand that relationships are not the whole of life, and many times some couples who have no experience in love. When falling in love, they will be overly immersed in the relationship, ignoring their daily work and life, which leads to their own lack of progress in the relationship, which may cause dissatisfaction and conflict with their partners in the long run.

Keep learning and progressing and divert your attention.

Since you don't want to be overly involved in your emotional life, the first thing to do is to focus on your current work and life, keep yourself learning and progressing, and when your life is gradually busy, you will naturally not have much focus on the relationship. But it's also important to have an appropriate measure to prevent the long-term impact on the relationship between you and your partner. <>

Don't overly focus on your partner's language and behavior in a relationship.

At the same time, in the relationship, for some of the partner's inadvertent bright words and related behaviors, the banquet should not care too much and think, many people are afraid that some of their partner's words and deeds will affect the feelings of both parties, but in fact, this is a normal phenomenon produced by their uncertainty about the first relationship, and they must learn to accept these emotions reasonably, do not bring them in, worry and worry about the relationship, and affect their daily work and energy. <>

Keep a proper distance from each other and don't get too close.

If you want to maintain the long-term development of the relationship, you must learn to keep a proper distance from each other, in addition to daily work, you can take a little time for emotional communication and development, and do not be too intimate for a long time, which will only make the freshness of both parties in the relationship disappear quickly, and in the long run, it will affect the communication topics and daily interactions between the two. <>

Lovers love each other before selling, no matter what you do, you should think about yourself first, think about your own interests first, think about your family first, love against the attack of the skin square, don't love very full, you can love 6 points.

The way is to clear the stove and don't care about the other party's answers, everything goes with its own way, everyone's patience is limited, if you can get by, you can't just do it, anyway, the most important thing in the world is the people around you.

Be sensible at all times, think carefully before doing anything, and don't be led by the other person.

In a relationship, if you want to keep yourself from falling into such a deep position, you should always understand your situation, you should try to weigh the relationship between two people, and look at this relationship with a long-term development vision, as well as your own feelings to judge whether you can get a long-term reliance in this relationship, so that you will not let yourself fall into this kind of relationship too much.

In a relationship, we have to put ourselves in the right position, we should not be influenced by others casually, do not be overly involved, and finally move ourselves and hurt ourselves.

I think you have to keep yourself in a certain point of view, and you have to be rational and don't do anything.

Don't invest too much in this relationship, you can invest half of it, and the more you invest, the more you will get hurt.

First of all, I think you should calm down, don't let anger affect your own buried judgment, it's best to calm down alone for a few hours, and secondly, talk to your brother and ask your brother's attitude towards your girlfriend, whether it is true love, or just want to have fun, or just want to rob you of your things, if it is true love, and it happens that your girlfriend also has feelings for your brother, then simply quit yourself.

If it's just for fun or just trying to steal your stuff, then you can just don't have this brother. The last thing is to communicate with your girlfriend, ask her what she thinks, see if she really has feelings for your brother, if so, then it's good to get together and disperse, quit by yourself, and find another one, there is no need to make no brother, and run away from the female bureau filial piety, which is more than worth the loss.

Life is like this, it's not that you must be rewarded if you pay, not to mention that you don't give anything, you just silently like someone, but you can't force someone to like you, right. Loving and being loved are the rights and obligations of others, the law does not stipulate that your girlfriend can only love you alone, love will change, so when love changes, I hope you can treat it rationally.

Maybe this matter is a hurdle for you to get over at this stage, but after a while, you will let go of yourself. There are a lot of forests in front of you, why really hang yourself on this tree. There are many boys who are better than yourself, and there are many girls who are better than your girlfriend, and in this relationship, I hope you can understand your own problems, why does your girlfriend fall in love with your brother?

That's definitely in some ways you're not as good as your brother, so in this failed relationship.

I hope you can find out what the problem is, and then make up for your own shortcomings, so that you can find a better other half with a better attitude, don't bother with this relationship, it won't help solve things, cheer up, people always have to move forward.

There is also not to have any radical behavior, love is not all, friendship is not all, there are family, relatives, career, and their own life, etc., you used to focus on your girlfriend, now you can look around, you will find that life has a lot of meaning, and it is worth your own efforts, remember there is a very good saying, if you bloom, butterflies will come.

Divide the time to work, interests, travel, fitness, and mental cultivation, don't think about love all day long, and blindly talk about all kinds of misfortunes in love, in addition to love, there are many things worth taking a look at and feeling.

There will always be some people who regard love as more important than their own lives, and feel that this hard-won relationship must be carefully cared for, and don't focus on love in everything, feeling that they can't live a day without love.

I really feel sorry for this kind of person, because his life circle is too small, so small that his world can't accommodate anything other than love. So, let's enrich your life.

Hard work, you can also give yourself an interest and find the roots, you can also come to a walk-and-go trip, you can also go to fitness or yoga in order to shape your own more perfect body, you can learn the art of flower arrangement, cultivate your own sentiments, anyway, there are many things you can do, why do you have to put all your attention on love?

Don't think of love as the first thing in your life, find something else to do for yourself.

Make your life rich, not only love, but also friendship and family. When you have nothing to do, go out with your friends, go home and get together with your parents, travel more often, and see the world.

Then put most of your time and mind on work, and don't let love occupy all your time.

You have to have your own hobbies and careers, and don't be blinded by love and lose yourself in love.

Find what fascinates you more in this world besides love, and then put all your mind on it, and you won't value love in particular.

I don't think it's possible, it's caused by personal character, some people take love very seriously, while some people are very indifferent to feelings.

Do more things that interest you to divert our attention, there are many meaningful things waiting for us to do in life besides love.

Shift your focus and do what you love.

Go and look for something more important than love, such as family affection such as friendship.

Be broad-minded, not to mention that you want to change the world, you have to have a career.

When this happens, you must always remind yourself that love is only a part of life, love is just an episode of life, and you must keep yourself awake at all times.

Tell yourself not to put all your energy and emotions into it, and to be ready to get out at any time, because emotional things are difficult to grasp.

I think first of all, you have to stick to yourself, you have to put yourself first, not the other person first.

When we are deeply in love, we must keep a trace of sanity, and do not let ourselves fall into it all and lose ourselves, that will be very dangerous.

You should definitely talk to your friend, after all, the bystander is clear, and he will give you some good advice.

When we fall into love, we must have our own opinions, remember our thoughts and cognitions, so that we will not be confused by the sweet words of the other party.

But if people don't pursue and don't have desires, are they still people?

Well, yes, people are cheap!