His family s conditions are not very good, and I am so entangled

Although I am not married, my mother often tells me to find someone who does not need to be too rich, middle and upper-class, and you don't need you to support the elderly, at least you must be able to afford your own children, otherwise you will have to fight over the child's milk powder money after you get married. The current society is really realistic, there are many civil servants around me, who get a fixed salary of more than 3,000 a month, there are no foreign workers, and you can do it yourself, if you are together, it will be less. You want you to have a down payment, you pay the mortgage, no money to renovate, no money to support your parents, let alone children.

If he loves you, he won't do anything to hurt you. If you don't want to be defeated by reality, then be together, you can try to get married first, live together first, and then feel like it. My mom colleague bought a suite for her mom, and she rented a house with her husband and children outside, and my mom said she couldn't even buy good cosmetics.

It is said that the person who marries you is not necessarily your favorite. But that's the reality.

I think it's better to break up, especially if I hurt you, if anyone hurts me, I'll break it up immediately!

Although it is very, very sad, if the feelings are deep, it may be sad for half a year, but my reason will tell me that it is definitely worth it!

And I have a younger brother who is still not doing his job, maybe he is married, and you still need to support him.

It depends on the position of love in your heart, and whether your love is really solid, just sharpened a knife, and never know if it can stand the test when you don't use it, are you right?

In these years, there is everyone. But I believe that friendship will last forever!

Actually, I think the key is what you think. Also, the conditions of his family you said are not good, and I don't know how bad it is. Emotional matters are really tangled, we can't help you anything, the key is your own choice.

It is recommended that you think for yourself in the following aspects:

First, whether he usually treats you well or not;

Second, whether his family is a poor mess, like most poor people, or simply because he can't afford to buy a house in the city, this must be considered.

Third, whether he has bad qualities, it's not that smoking and drinking are not good people, I'm talking about character fourth, what kind of life do you want to live in the future.

In the end, in fact, life is like a play, there are bitter and sweet, when you are young, you can be a little willful, indulge yourself a little, and don't think about it so much.

If you have reached the age of marriage and already have the idea of getting married, then you should be cautious, after all, life is to have bread, and without bread, everything is fake.

It's up to you.

1Wilt thou live a hard life with him? If he can't provide you with a good life all the time, you can only have food and clothing. If your answer isn't sure, then don't be together.

No one can promise you a future, because no one knows what the future will look like. Marriage is not about buying a lottery ticket, I always hope that I am the one who wins 5 million, after all, the odds are very small, and you have to be prepared for not winning 5 million.

2 If you love him very much, even if it is very hard in the future, you feel very happy to be in the same boat, then you choose him, the opposition of your parents is just to hope that you live a happy life, as long as you can prove that this person is together, even if the life is not so rich, I am still happy, and my parents will not object.

Oh, if you dare to love and don't dare to face life, then don't be emotional;

If you part, you are reluctant;

It's all to blame for being too young and too impulsive.

If you love him, stick to your choice, if you don't love him, leave him as soon as possible, don't delay yourself and don't delay others.

Looking at a man, it's the same as looking at **, the main thing is to see the potential, a man can make money in the future, has a future, it doesn't matter if he is poor in a short time, if he is a loser, no matter how much money he has, he has to consider it!

Choose for yourself and don't regret it.

It's the same end of the world. . .

1. You have the right ideology.

2. The economic conditions of the family are not changed if you can change them, the point is that the two of you love each other, so you should work hard for your future small family.

3. Don't worry about what the other party's family thinks of you, as long as you get along with them, as long as you know what your responsibilities are when you marry into their family, and what your role is in it.

4. The point is that if you love each other, you must get along well, and don't make a big fuss about trivial things. Otherwise his family will blame you.

5. Calm down, if you say so, those rich people should marry those who have a similar status to them? However, there are also the fact that nobles marry poor women. Bless you.

You have to be confident that you can look up to yourself.

Friend, marriage is based on love. The point is how deep and true the love you have with your boyfriend, and if you think the love is really deep, nothing else is a problem.

Although economic factors are also one of the factors to consider, this involves several factors that affect your marriage in your heart, which is heavier and which is lighter, and how to choose between each person and everyone's opinion.

It's normal to be afraid that his family will look down on your family, but if you're worried, then you should find a way to understand what his family thinks, and it's easy to do it if you understand it clearly.

Wishing you all happiness and happiness!

Money is not an obstacle to marriage.

The main thing is whether you love each other enough! Maintain a good personal cultivation after marriage, know how to consider problems for him and his family, and the estrangement before marriage will be slowly eliminated.

In this case, if you want to get married, you generally need the man's proposal first, and you can see how much he loves you from the way he proposes.

Otherwise, it is recommended that you are poor and wise, and find the right person for the long-term consideration of physical and mental pleasure. It will be more miserable to avoid being angry with their family after you get married.

I wish you happiness!!

If you're worried about this, I suggest you postpone your marriage... Communicate more with his family, get close, talk to his family more about their own affairs, observe their family's attitude towards you... What his family thinks of you, you'll soon know!

If his family really looks down on you, then give up.

I think there are very few parents who think their daughters-in-law's families are poor. If there is such a family, you will not be happy if you marry.