Do you feel uneasy, scared, and fearful when making a decision on your own?

If you don't know how to make a change, I think you have to change your mentality first, if you want to change anything, you have to have your attitude, I must do this thing, I have to persevere. I don't know how to change from **, then I suggest that you can first learn to control your time and learn self-discipline, self-discipline will make your life very calm and comfortable. If you don't know how to do it, you can take a look at one of Aili's books, "Your 8760 Hours a Year", which has a "34 gold coin management" method, which you can learn about.

Then there is the choice, there are several choices in life that must be done by yourself, the choice of education, the choice of work, and the choice of marriage. These ** choices must be done by themselves, their own choice, anyone's opinion can only be referred to, these stages you will definitely encounter grievances, uncomfortable, complaints and so on most negative emotions, only you choose yourself, and it is because of your own choice that you will not have complaints, grievances.

I regret being a soldier for two years, and I regret not being a soldier for a lifetime! This is a classic line in the movie "Wolf Warrior". And I belong to the latter group, choosing a different path when it is right, and regretting this choice when it is impossible.

I still remember that a few years ago, military-themed film and television works were not as popular as they are now. At that time, I thought about becoming a soldier, and I believe this will be the idea that every boy has had. When I first entered the university, my eyesight was satisfactory in all aspects, but at that time, I was gradually corroded by college life, and by the time I remembered this dream again, I had missed the best time and physical condition.

I've had this dream too, the dream of becoming the "loveliest person". But I missed it, knowing that regret is useless, but I still can't help but feel sorry!

I would consult with other people what they would do if they were in my situation. And ask why they do it, and then bring it to themselves, what if they do it? What kind of result is there, and whether this result is acceptable to you.

Also, think about why they would want to do this, and why you didn't think of it, is there something missing? Of course, the final result is still to be decided by ourselves, and the opinions of others are only a reference function, so that we can understand the essence of the event from more angles. Of course, if everyone has different ideas, they can also express it, multiple people have multiple ideas.

Before making a decision, everyone is not sure whether the decision will change for life, but he at least knows whether the decision is suitable for his character, his tolerance for the change, the degree of dedication, and his sense of purpose and direction. You can't change the environment, you can change yourself, and the change of thinking and mentality is slowly transformed in a series of processes.

The first choice to decide your life is that you choose the goal you are positioning, and it is very important to follow the mentality and character, no matter how big the ideal is, it will not be a person, and it will be empty.

This question depends on the situation, depending on what specific choice you have to make, whether you are familiar with the industry you are sure of, or an unfamiliar industry, and the most important thing is to have confidence in yourself, because in addition to yourself, any idea is just an idea, and you have to do it seriously. Seeing through the essence of the problem, the choice is not so difficult.

A person has developed correct and effective values, and naturally knows which one to choose and how to choose when making life choices. Therefore, the choice is not difficult, and may not even exist, the so-called "choice" is just a natural result of the determination of values.

When we are faced with a choice, the reason why we hesitate or struggle is simply because we suddenly can't determine which option is better and which option is worse.

A person with a strong psychology and optimism, and an indecisive, timid and obscene person, in the face of opportunities and choices, the direction of life is completely different.