My boyfriend s mom thinks too much, and my boyfriend wants to break up with me, what should I do?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-08
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Your words are excessive, men are dignified, not everything can be used as a lesson, no wonder your boyfriend will be angry, pay more attention in the future... As for his mother letting her son break up with you, don't take it too seriously, the old people like to make a fuss about hearsay, and there is no rationality ......If you cry and are sad because of a few words from an old man with no cultural background, and doubt the extent or even authenticity of your boyfriend's love for you, it is too unworthy and naïve, and the harmonious love with your boyfriend is real, if you love him...

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It is normal for parents to worry about their sons, since you have said that his family knows half about your home, then it is understandable, every parent hopes that their children can live well! His mother is just using other people's examples, you don't have to take it to heart!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hurry up and solve this matter, don't trust it! Just let your boyfriend communicate more with his mother, and you should communicate more with his mother, don't let this matter leave a root in his mother's heart! It's just because my boyfriend's mother misunderstood me before, and his mother didn't like me all the time, and my parents forced me to break up.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Sometimes, your boyfriend's mom doesn't know what is going on, but it's actually your boyfriend who isn't doing it well.

    Because all his mother's impression of your brother is from your boyfriend, and if there is any rebellion, it is also indirectly expressed by your boyfriend.

    The first floor is right, it's better to take my younger brother to meet, everywhere, it's good to be familiar.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You should have a good temper.

    You two love each other very much, right?

    You know you're also on the spur of the moment.

    Hehe, your husband really loves you.

    He's lying to you, he's teasing you.

    But his mother was also true.

    Now it's up to your husband to explain it to his mother.

    Tell him more about your family in front of his mother.

    Tell me good things about your brother.

    You're marrying him, you're not marrying his mom.

    It's not that he's married to your brother.

    So I don't think there's any need to worry about that.

    As long as you love each other, nothing is a problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let his mom see your brother. The second thing is that the relationship between the two of you is important. As for the parents, they should coax and handle the relationship well. I'm in a better mood, it's fine.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    A few more touches will be fine. It can be changed slowly. Don't worry, after all, life is still your life, is it possible that you will have to live with your mother-in-law and them when you get married in the future. Your days will be longer than theirs.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It is advisable to bring your younger brother.

    Go to his house and have fun.

    Everybody understands.

    It's all right! ~

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Every family and relationship has its own unique dynamics and needs, so it is impossible to provide absolute judgment. However, I can give you some directions and common perspectives to help you make your own decisions:

    1.Respect and understanding: Respecting and understanding each other's family relationships and values is the key to building a good relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. If your boyfriend thinks it's important to be with his mother, you can try to understand his position and try to find a balance and maintain a good relationship.

    2.Communication and transparency: Communicate your feelings and needs with your boyfriend and figure out why he thinks such an arrangement is necessary. Together** and look for solutions to ensure that your feelings and needs are fully attended to and respected.

    3.Self-protection and personal space: It is important to have a good relationship with his mother, but also to make sure that your own needs and personal space are met. Find balance and establish boundaries and independence from each other to ensure your happiness and fulfillment.

    4.Growth and compromise: Maintaining the relationship requires effort and compromise on both sides, because sometimes compromise is for a bigger goal. As you grow and compromise, make sure your interests and well-being don't go unnoticed.

    Most importantly, the decision should be the result of discussion and consensus between you and your boyfriend. Through open and honest communication, you can find the right balance while maintaining family relationships and personal well-being.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Summary. A: Since you and your boyfriend have broken up, his mother asked you to go to her house. You can reply: No, I'm fine at home.

    I broke up with my boyfriend, but my boyfriend's mother said that she missed me and asked me to go to his house, and she didn't want me to be wronged, how should I go.

    A: Since you and your boyfriend have broken up, his mother asked you to go to her house. You can reply: No, I'm fine at home.

    Because: feelings are a matter of two people. If two people can't communicate well with each other, they can't continue to talk. What's the use of his mother understanding your grievances?

    Pro: How long have you been talking, and what caused the breakup? How did you feel about breaking up? Can you talk about it?

    Dear, we must be heartbroken when saying goodbye to a relationship, I know you are very reluctant to him, but we first need to clarify, whether this person is worth keeping with you, whether this relationship is worth you to salvage, can you tell the teacher why you broke up?

    Dear, we must be heartbroken when saying goodbye to a relationship, I know you are very reluctant to him, but we first need to clarify, whether this person is worth keeping with you, whether this relationship is worth you to salvage, can you tell the teacher why you broke up?

    His mother can stand in your position and comfort you, that proves that you are a good girl, sensible, understanding, just to meet someone who understands you and cherishes you, you deserve the best!

    Dear: Is there anything else you need my help with? Rest assured, we'll keep it confidential.

    Dear, you can also see that you both still have feelings for each other, what happened to affect your relationship?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    1. You can honestly express your feelings and thoughts, tell your boyfriend that her mother has broken up, don't hide the reason for the breakup, but don't describe the process of the incident in too much detail.

    2. You can tell your boyfriend's mother about your future plans to show that you are confident in the future.

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