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Try to keep up with the rhythm of their lives. Especially at night, they are noisy and not as painful as you try to sleep, why not try to cheer up and play, and then relax and sleep more soundly after they are quiet?
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I sympathize with you and meet these few enemies! They behave this way only because they are too young and energetic to control themselves (of course, a little too much), so they must fully understand and be friends with them sincerely. Only by being friends can they talk well, and they can have the heart to take into account your feelings and be restrained.
And being friends is not just about resting, the friendship of college classmates is very precious and will be useful for life! Find a way to change the environment and say goodbye politely and amicably to these great gods. Change dormitories, or rent a house near the school with your best classmates.
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If you are hard to hurt and angry, you don't say anything, and you feel wronged. There are always contradictions and problems in collective life. If you can, you can rent a house. If you really can't, if you offend someone, you will offend.
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You can only treat others the way they do, and make a noise when they are resting, so that they can also understand your feelings. But this is the next strategy after all, and it is even more difficult to do it if you are not able to isolate you collectively. The relationship between the characters in the bedroom is still very weak, and you can't offend anyone, because you don't know how many lines and how many nets are behind him.
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Everybody is an adult, you can talk to them well, everyone takes a step back, you go to bed a little later and they take a nap early. In this way, you can also have a good resting environment. If these are useless, you can only buy a noise-canceling headphones with good sound isolation effect and a bed curtain with good blackout effect, so that you can't see whether the outside is bright or not, and the mind is quiet out of sight.
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Since you can't rent a house outside, you can only ask the teacher to change the dormitory, which is usually difficult. Helplessness is helplessness, but I can only endure it in the dormitory, survive this period of time, strive to improve myself, and stay away from these roommates in the future. You can buy eye masks, earplugs, bed curtains and other items online, which can maximize the quietness in the middle of the noise.
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How many people are there in your dormitory, if it is a normal break time and you have communicated with them reasonably for many times without success, you can consider finding a counselor to mediate, if the counselor does not use it, then ......Just move out like me, haha, after all, a good rest can have a good body, and a good body is the capital of the revolution.
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It's okay, I'm sharing a 3-room room for 5 people, and I'm alone. The nature of everyone's work is different, the time is different, and many are different, but sometimes you still have to mingle, not to say that it becomes like that, but to be superficial and agreeable, as long as you have a degree in your heart, so as not to make others think that you are different. There is also meditation, calming the mind and the outside world will not have much impact, so that it can be externalized and not internalized.
It's normal for this to happen in accommodation, especially if you have such a routine alone, in fact, everyone has to be on your own.
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I have a roommate who is going to be porridge with my boyfriend every night. In addition to you, if there is anything else in your dormitory that you have to sleep, if you talk to a noisy person to be quieter and have a long snack, tell him directly to let it lighter, it will be quieter, and if it is really unreasonable, let the counselor mediate, or consider moving out.
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I think I should just say that I want to go to bed. Don't hold it in your heart, and then fall and beat, and everyone is not happy. Of course, you have to be quiet when others want to sleep, otherwise how can you expect others to be quiet while you are sleeping.
If you run into those unreasonable roommates, you can't help it.
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In the university dormitory, it is more appropriate to keep the whole dormitory quiet after a student rests.
First, because as a large collective, who will respect others will achieve better results, and everyone will be more united and respect each other. Therefore, it is very important to learn to communicate with others more and respect others, and you must learn more from professional teachers and master the correct communication methods.
Second, there is the question of time.
If it's time to go to bed at night, such as 10 o'clock at night, one of the roommates has to go to bed at 10 o'clock, and the other roommates are night owls, usually until 12 o'clock or even early in the morning, in this case, the roommate who sleeps at 10 o'clock wants the other roommates to be quieter, I think it is also reasonable, even if it is not guaranteed to be completely quiet, but also to minimize the sound, I think this is a respect for each other, when you want to go to bed early, you can also exchange the other party's understanding and concession. There is also a lunch break at noon, sometimes after a morning class, after eating at noon, there may be roommates who want to sleep for a while, if you don't have anything special, you don't want to sleep, you can put on headphones and watch a drama or something, which is understandable.
Third, contingencies.
For example, there is a roommate who has a little cold in the past two days, and he always wants to sleep after drinking medicine, and then he may tell other roommates during the day if he can be quieter, I think everyone has compassion, and this kind of accident is also understandable, I saw that my roommate was sick and had no energy when I was in college, and it was really distressing, so I hoped that she could get better quickly.
I think the above two situations can be viewed normally and understandably.
Of course, college roommates are like smoking a blind box, you may encounter the situation that you ask the whole dormitory to be quiet when you sleep, and you don't respect others when you sleep, and you are very loud, there is actually no good solution to this situation, because generally this kind of person will not be useful, you can only choose to change the dormitory or move out if you have the conditions, or you can only hurt each other, or I hope everyone can meet normal roommates.
Fourth, many times, when several people live together, there will be those invisible inadvertent frictions that you don't even notice, but this question is like you asked, you obviously realize that you should be considerate of that roommate at this time, be quiet, and experience the right way, why do you want to let your indignant psychology be weird, feel conflicted or in a bad mood? I hope you can handle the friendship and classmate relationship well. Cherish friendship.
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In a university dormitory, if one person sleeps, the whole dormitory should be quiet, and I personally think that it is necessary to judge whether the person's practices and requirements are reasonable in light of the specific reality.
First of all, if it is after ten o'clock in the evening, the whole school, the dormitory building, are relatively quiet, and only their own dormitory is noisy in the dormitory, other students do not follow the requirements of the school dormitory management regulations, normal, sleep, then in this case, the dormitory is required to be quiet, I personally think it is understandable, after all, the school's management regulations are implemented, and the roommates should not affect the rest of others for their own enjoyment.
But if it is not at this time period, some students in my dormitory chat normally, but I make such a request, I think it is inappropriate! After all, the dormitory is different from being at home, you have a separate bedroom, you have a separate space, or you should be as understanding and tolerant as possible, other students in the same dormitory, there is a normal time to sleep, so you ask other students in the dormitory to accommodate yourself, obviously there is some selfishness, in this case, if you feel that the dormitory is noisy, affecting your sleep, you can consider bringing yourself an earplug, if you always adhere to this point of view, then the relationship between yourself and your dormitory classmates will become more tense, which is not a good thing for the round combust itself.
This kind of thing often happens in college, you have to adjust your mentality, otherwise it will drive you crazy, it really happens. Learn to do things alone, after a long time, you will like to live like this, wearing earplugs in the dormitory to surf the Internet, going to self-study during the day, and getting used to it after a long time. But there must be a good relationship, even if it's not your own class, it's not bad to often complain together and say bad things about others, but if you can't change the dormitory.
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