What if my boyfriend chats with someone else, and my boyfriend and his friends of the opposite sex o

You're also at fault, and your way is so wrong. He's right, a man should have privacy, and his pressure is not big to talk to anyone, and there is no big obstacle to you. On the contrary, in order to motivate him, you said something that makes men undignified, men regard face dignity as the root of life, you as the woman behind him must understand how to review your own way of speaking, behavior, I hope you can communicate with him in another way, communication is really important, if you love him, you will first improve your quality and level, and he will naturally live a good life with you.

In fact, it's just a stealing cat, there will always be a little greedy, married for a long time, it will naturally be dull, and there will be small friction when it is bland, the best thing is to dress yourself, go out to work, make friends, keep yourself busy, naturally you won't care too much about your boyfriend, you are excellent, beautiful, and your boyfriend will naturally come back to you.

Change your approach and see what happens to him, in fact, although it is said that two people are together, sometimes you have to give each other a little personal space.

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Questions. Hello teacher, my boyfriend just graduated and worked for half a year, and has a good relationship with a female colleague in the company, yesterday I found that they have been chatting every day for the past two months, basically the female colleague came to my boyfriend to share daily life, various trivial things in life. I know that I will feel very uncomfortable in the future, but my boyfriend is very calm to show me all the chat records between them, he thinks that there is no difference between occasional chat and daily chat, just normal chat and did not cross the line, but I think that after having a boyfriend and girlfriend, I should not chat frequently with friends of the opposite sex every day.

So we had a disagreement and quarreled for a long time, and now I'm depressed, is it normal for someone to chat frequently every day with friends of the opposite sex, right?

First, understand the situation of chatting, what kind of relationship it is, if it is a chat at work, it is not unavoidable. Because it's impossible that you don't have male friends, you will also chat with them about some necessary things, especially those who are in elementary school, middle school, college, and even have male friends in the relationship. In the future work, I will also need to communicate with some people about the work.

Second, simply delete all the boyfriend's friends of the opposite sex, except for the people at work, once and for all, and never suffer in the future. However, this operation is likely to be opposed by your boyfriend, and it will even cause a quarrel between the two people, so this matter should be discussed with your boyfriend before it is handled.

Frequent chats are really not good.

You talk to your boyfriend about it, you care about this.

You see if he will take your feelings into account.

Questions. I said it, but he insisted that he was right, no matter how I said it, he didn't agree, thinking that it was okay to chat with other girls every day.

I feel like I can observe your boyfriend.

It does feel a little out of order.

Questions. Isn't it ambiguous to share your daily life?

It's not out of line.

The key is what you think in your heart.

Your boyfriend also has to take care of your thoughts.

Questions. Uh-huh, I see, thank you, teacher.

You're welcome and I wish you a happy Chinese New Year.

In such a situation, I think I should take the initiative to communicate with my boyfriend, and I should also determine whether the friend of the opposite sex has an improper affair, and if there is an improper relationship, I should break up in time.

Tell him directly that his behavior like this makes him very insecure, and he is very worried about the relationship between the two of you.

You should tell your boyfriend directly that you will be jealous if you often chat with friends of the opposite sex, and friends of the opposite sex should keep your distance.

Take the initiative to talk about it, and express your heart, saying that you don't want your boyfriend to talk to any friends of the opposite sex, and your boyfriend will know.

You should tell your boyfriend what you're thinking, and now that the two of you are together, your boyfriend shouldn't talk to other people of the opposite sex.

You should tell your boyfriend that you mind this matter more, and let your boyfriend confess to him more and be more honest.

First of all, you have to communicate calmly with him and know who the other party is. Don't quarrel randomly, be sure to find out what happened, and you have to trust him, don't doubt him randomly.

You should talk to your boyfriend about it, you mind this matter very much, and when chatting, you should still pay attention to proportion, don't be too ambiguous, otherwise you will break up with him next time.

If it's just a normal chat, I think it's normal, although the two of you are together, but your boyfriend still has to interact with the opposite sex normally, there is no need to restrain him too much, if you say something more intimate, you should have a good talk with your boyfriend.

Then you should take the initiative to talk to the other party, and hope that the other party will not do this, and the two people are already together, so they should be responsible for themselves.

I suggest you talk to your boyfriend and don't delve into it if there's no problem.

Summary. Hello, when your boyfriend finds out that you always chat with other boys, you have to take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and then take the initiative to apologize to your boyfriend.

Because he didn't just see you talking to someone once, he already had doubts in his heart if you didn't take the initiative to reconcile. The relationship will eventually break up.

What should I do if my boyfriend finds out that I always chat with other men.

Hello, when your boyfriend finds out that you always chat with other boys, you have to take the initiative to admit your mistakes, and then take the initiative to apologize to your boyfriend. Prepare because he didn't just see you chatting with someone Shi Wei once, in his heart there were already doubts in his heart if you don't take the initiative to reconcile. The relationship will eventually break up.

I'm not afraid of breaking up.

Is the talent still around? Why don't you reply to me.

Wait a moment. If you're not afraid of breaking up, you can say "What do I do?" You can take care of yourself."

If you chat every day, the first thing that will arise is dependence, and the longer you go, the deeper the dependence will be.

As you talk more and more, you may have a deeper relationship in addition to dependence.

Everyone needs their own space, especially girls, and in fact, it is also necessary to maintain a sense of mystery.

Don't talk every day, tell him everything that happens around you every day. If he knows what you did today and who you're with without even thinking about it, he won't take the initiative to chat with you.

If there's something worth sharing, you can send a message. If you suddenly think of a romantic sentence, you can also take the initiative to send it to him.

It is not necessary to let the communication between two people be filled with the trivialities of life too early.

Chatting every day may not necessarily have this need, but at least there is an exchange of information every day, and both parties should have this awareness, because it is a sign of mutual respect.

I took the two of them apart because I thought they were two different things. The chat may be about some topics, and what happened to me today.

And the exchange of information, at least say good night and say peace, say I miss you, say I love you. It's the lubricant for the relationship between men and women, so I feel that communication is necessary every day, but once in a while there is a special situation, that's another matter.

And maybe you have experienced a similar scene, just met a boy, love at first sight, admiration, at the beginning of the boy also reacted well to you, you began to have the first of the three major illusions in love - "He likes me!" ”

My personal experience and experience is that chatting every day, this state cannot last a lifetime, there will always be a time when it fades, if the nature of the relationship is defined by "chatting every day", then the relationship is destined to be mediocre.

Occasional chatting between couples can enhance the relationship between two people, but every day there is a problem with chatting and medical treatment, a person is working or studying, you suddenly send a message, and people reply to you because they love you. If you do this every day, imagine how much she hates you in the depths of her heart. Chatting needs to be time-sharing, it's not that you want to chat with others, people have to chat with you, you have nothing to do, it doesn't mean that others are very idle.

Maybe the other party is busy with work, the couple also has their own private space, the number of times the chat in private time is not as good as the quality, if two people are in love, it is natural to have a common hobby topic, and they are very happy to chat every time, and a pleasant chat is stronger than ten ordinary chats. And after a high-quality chat, it can arouse the other party's aftertaste and want to chat with you again, this depends on the specific situation, specifically, if the other party wants to know where you are every moment? You talk about two people together, and the best relationship is after falling in love.

Even if you are together, you won't feel embarrassed even if you don't speak. Because of the love period, you need to get to know each other, and there are naturally more topics, and when there is nothing to talk about, even if you stay together quietly, you won't feel embarrassed. I think this is the beginning of a period of relationship stability.

There's nothing wrong with chatting with your boyfriend every day!