What do women live for? Is it for the children or for yourself?

In our grandmother's time, or my mother's time, many women lived for the family, you see that they themselves are all to earn money to support the family, and their husbands are working hard outside, if they lose their children and husbands, how big do you say it is for them. But maybe as a modern woman, I think it is absolutely impossible for me to regard my family as my own, even if I have children in the future, I will not put all my focus on children, children are of course very important to us, I think I just need to be a good mother, be a good wife, the rest of my life is my own, I want to control how I want to be my own freedom, I don't agree that my life is for children and family struggle.

To be honest, many of our parents may be working hard for us, for us to have a better life, this is what their generation thinks, maybe they are getting older, and they don't have any pursuit of their dreams, so their dreams are good for their children. To be honest, they're really great, maybe I'm not mature enough to be that age, I'm still young, all I want is my own life, no family, no children, no sense of responsibility, but I hope I don't want to be that kind of person, I want to live my own life, but that's because I think being like my parents is really great, it's really contradictory.

The only way for a man to trap a woman is to let the woman give birth to him.

Once a woman becomes a mother, for the sake of the child there are no difficulties that she cannot overcome, the woman is weak, and the mother is strong.

In order for the child to have a complete family, a woman will always tolerate the child's father, even if he is extremely uncompetitive, she will work hard to maintain it and give the child a complete home.

In fact, when a woman gives birth to a child, to put it bluntly, she tortures herself and can't get along with herself.

If the man is busy with work, the mother-in-law does not take care of the children, and she cannot afford to hire a nanny.

Women have to work while taking care of children, and such high-intensity labor will continue for several years, which will torture women crazy, so it is better not to have children in the first place.

Whatever the reason, once a man gives up a child, the woman will never forgive him.

There are many single mothers with children, and they would rather stay single all the time in order for their children not to be wronged.

Even if a man is much worse than a woman in his own condition, as long as he is good to the child, the woman will accept him for the sake of the child.

It is a mother's nature to love her children.

But out of consideration for the child, if you can't give the child a warm and stable family, you can't give him a good family education.

If the mother and son want to bear the hardships in life together, it is still necessary to wait for the mother to become a stronger person, and she has the ability to take care of the child by herself, save enough material foundation, and be strong enough spiritually before thinking about having a child.