What it s like to be good friends with your ex now

I'd rather be a friend at a distance than lose this person completely. I want to know how he will develop next, and I want to know if he is doing well, and he is no longer obsessed with whether this person belongs to him in the end. I only care if it's good or not. I want to know.

I think it's good that we continue to be friends after we broke up. The way of dealing with a breakup is relatively mature. I am a personality who does not hit the south wall and does not look back, and I will be entangled when I break up, but all the entanglements are to convince myself and the other party.

The first premise is to ensure that the reason for the breakup will not be bloody, we have three positive views, basically have not encountered the bloody plot of the third party, nor have we suffered any love shame, and there will be no unwillingness, revenge for the sequelae of the breakup. The reasons for breaking up are simply personality incompatibility or marriage and family views. Love is unforgettable, and when you break up, it is naturally painful, but when you calm down, you repeatedly ask yourself if you can accept these disagreements, and the answers you get are all negative, and you understand that long pain is better than short pain, so you just broke up.

My ex and I have always been friends. They and my husband also know each other, have some contact, WeChat also adds friends, occasionally complain about the circle of friends sent by each other, maintain the contact frequency of ordinary friends and care for each other. The reason why we can still be friends after breaking up is because we have similar views and are relatively positive.

Even if you can't be a lover, there are a lot of topics to talk about when you are a friend or something. In addition, I also know the boundaries of being friends, and I know whether the interaction within the boundaries has an impact on the other party's life, and I will think about each other and the other half of the other party, so I can continue to be friends openly.

There is no love between the two, but because the character of both parties is not bad, helpful or kind and considerate, a little troublesome or something, you can confide in each other and help each other. This feeling is very good, as if two people have grown up and matured in this love.

After the breakup, we can still talk about each other's present with great interest, he said that he will help me beat up the person who bullied me, will help me analyze and solve the problem very rationally, and clarify my thinking, whether it is career or life, just like he said when we broke up, he takes care of me. He did it but not ambiguously, and we both kept good friend boundaries.

I'm a person with a lot of emotional experience, so I usually have a good relationship with my ex. Of course, there are also people who delete after a breakup and feel that they are blind. I've always felt that adult feelings can advance and retreat, and it's not like many people say, you can't be friends if you love.

As long as both of you are loyal and mature enough to understand that the other person is not giving up on you, but just choosing the things that you have to fulfill in life, then it is no problem to be friends.

After my ex found his girlfriend, he was very generous to introduce us to each other, and kept a gentleman's distance to care about me, mainly complaining, so he could be an ordinary friend calmly. He taught me that dealing with a breakup maturely can bring great blessings to the other person.

I think it's very difficult, it's actually very embarrassing for people to break up with to be friends, and I think it's definitely unnatural to get along.

Actually, for me, it's a kind of creation to make people, after all, it's so funny to be good friends.

I think it's a kind of memorial, and I haven't completely forgotten each other.

It's just that I don't want to get closer to each other's relationship, but take a step back and become friends.

I have a good relationship with my ex, we talk a lot, we say whatever we want, and it's very direct, but I'll admit it. I think he is very good, and I am very reluctant to give him up, but I don't have to him, now. Time can make you forget everything you want to forget.

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I can't control how much I miss you, it's just that I don't expect anything about you.

It's that I'm no longer there, looking forward to being your other half, not looking forward to being your second half of life, although sometimes I still miss you, but it's not, you have to be.

Break up when you're in love, and it's hard to be friends. If they are still friends, then at least one of them is still holding the illusion of reunion, wanting to be friends, and can communicate with them justifiably, and know their situation, so that when the time comes, they can redeem it. However, this process can be painful, the possibility of reuniting is very small, and the hope in my heart is still lingering, which is simply a punishment of my own heart.

Once the other person is in a new relationship, it is inevitable that you will have an emotional breakdown. This tearing and entanglement is better than not being friends after the initial breakup and breaking off all contact. When we are all happy, we can be friends again.

Break up when you don't love. Break up peacefully, you can be friends, because after all, each other used to be the people who knew themselves best, when you were together, you and I were willing, and you and I were willing to break up, and after breaking up, we returned to the role of friends, who said no. Conflict breakup, I want to be friends hard.

People are not grass and trees, and breaking up will always cause a certain impact in the heart. Unless never loved.

It will be very embarrassing, sometimes a moment will think of the past of two people, and they will feel very close to each other, but they will feel very sorry in their hearts. can't walk together, sometimes I will touch the scene, and let me recall the morning and twilight when I was in love. It's inevitable that they will come together again.

Of course, there are also those who make good friends. Water under the bridge.

It should be not bad, it has a feeling of being a girlfriend. I have a feeling of being a confidant or a confidant.

Love is selfish and pure, if both parties leave and establish their own new families, and then become friends with their exes, it hurts both families, because there is no affectionate friendship and friends between men and women, only love, not to mention the ex!

I can't imagine that most of the ex, even if they don't become enemies, at least they don't get along with each other, isn't it absolutely embarrassing for you to get along directly, and if you have a new relationship with each other, won't it be uncomfortable.

This is a very difficult thing to do, it is really not easy to break up the relationship that was once so close, and how much courage and cultivation it takes to break up and still have good friends.

It's hard, but even if we can be friends, it should be a time for each other to be relieved for a long time.

Do you think it's necessary? There is no strife now! And then there will be strife! Especially feelings! No one is truly selfless! Unless people don't like your ex at all! Or you don't like your ex! Remember.

It's okay if you haven't done it, but if you can still be friends after that, how wide is the experience of the two of you? Isn't it embarrassing? What if we talk about it?

Some people are just suitable for being good friends, and being good friends will make you more comfortable with each other.

The two of us have three views and harmony, but our parents strongly oppose it, and we were forced to choose to break up, many people say that he is not enough love, and after experiencing it, I slowly understand that love is not together, but to give each other a better choice, he let me learn how to love, I know that he once loved me, very loving. It's been two years since I've been apart, and now I can face him openly, chat occasionally, keep silent about the past, and do my best to help if I need help. I think breaking up and being friends is not that we don't love or haven't loved, but we have to compromise with life, and wear off our liking for him little by little, but we can't wear off his goodness, and the advantages he once attracted you are still shining in bulingbuling, and if you can't be a lover, be friends.

Summary. Dear, being friends with your ex can turn your former love into friends.

Dear, being friends with your ex can turn your former love into friends.

He sent it to me, saying that we also have times when we tear our faces, and when we are so noisy that we can't answer the letter, but calm down and think about it, we are the most special people of each other, we are not enemies, so this is also good now, I think we are better friends than friends.

How to reply to it.

Okay, I'll take a look.

Dear, I heard that if you love someone deeply, you can't be friends with each other.

When a boy breaks up with a girl, he usually wants to be friends. Dear, what do you think?

If you want to be friends with the other person, just say, "Okay, we're friends from today."

I offered to be friends, and he agreed.

Oh. If you put it forward, you will reply to the other party, "Yes, I have loved deeply in this life, it is enough, may we become best friends in the future, and continue to accompany each other in another way".

It is recommended that if you want to be friends with him, you must pay attention to your sense of proportion, for example, if you don't ask to answer ambiguous text messages, you don't meet alone, and you don't want the other party to accompany you when you're lonely, etc.

I won't say anything ambiguous like before, just chat casually or something.

Good good. It is recommended that you should also think about opening up, slowly forget the past, and start a new life and feelings.

In the torrent of youthful love, there are marriages that finally achieve positive results because they truly love each other, and there are also emotional sadness that break up because of various inappropriateness. Break up, sometimes because of immaturity, sometimes because of too impulsive.

Some friends will be very sad when they break up, they care about the other party very much, and they will even feel troubled because of the other party's love object, such as their friends or brothers and their exes together, there will be more in TV dramas, but there is no shortage in real life. So what does it feel like to see a friend with your ex?

Personally, I think that since both parties have broken up, then there is no need to linger, and we really can't intervene in other people's feelings, if you really want each other to be good, then send sincere blessings!

At the same time, in order to avoid this embarrassing situation, you can also try not to choose the ex of your friends in terms of mate selection, what do you think?

Here is still a recall, I wish the world lovers will eventually become married!