Troubles between the young couple should be resolved peacefully

First of all, when arguing, leave each other first and let each other calm down! Don't develop a quarrel to the point of hurting feelings, small quarrels are empathetic, big quarrels hurt people, you know?

Secondly, you have to know that quarreling is not a bad thing, don't think about it so badly, two people are not afraid of quarrels together, afraid of cold war. A quarrel is a kind of communication, albeit a heated one. Your girlfriend should be a straightforward person, right?

Isn't it still a bit simple? You should cherish her and take good care of her!

Finally, I would like to give you a message that my mother told me, hoping to help you. My dad and I are both very straight-tempered, and once we had a quarrel over something at home, and my mom pulled me aside and said, "What are you arguing with your dad about, there is no right or wrong in the family!"

I was really shocked that time, thinking that my parents had been through ups and downs for so many years, and they had seen them quarrel, but they saw more harmony, although there was no earth-shattering love on the outside, but from some small things, I saw that they really knew how to love each other.

Saying this to you is actually to tell you that there is no right or wrong between two people, sometimes arguments can't solve the problem, and whoever wins the fight doesn't mean that you will be happy, but will continue to be in a bad mood because of the other party's emotions, do you think about it?

So, talk to your girlfriend well, communicate when you're calm, communicate about how you will get into the next fight, and put a note in the bedroom: stop when you argue.

And remember, even if the quarrel reaches a stalemate and there is a cold war, you must not be unable to pull your head, you must take the initiative to hug her, kiss her, it is no big deal, because of love!

I wish you all happiness!

Living in peace is certainly a good thing!

Of course, of course, your previous personality of arguing when you encounter things must be changed, and this is right!

However, it's okay to have a small quarrel once in a while. That will only strengthen the relationship!

That's a good thing to say yourself.

It is not for nothing that home and everything is prosperous.

It's probably a financial thing, but they're already husband and wife, and talking about money can't help but hurt feelings. Basically, women don't feel much about the small pocket money they usually use, so it's no wonder that she doesn't think that you give her much money, but that you can't take out the money in big things. In that regard, I think you should talk about money.

For the grinding jujube, she and your family relationship is not very good, or the spike person has more contact and in-depth understanding, assuming that you are very good to her Heng Jie parents (referring to careful care), then she can also feel it, after all, it is her good parents who have the wife you love now.

Keep your own money, or one financial accounting, one safekeeping.

You are more pertinent, and you don't help your relatives when you encounter problems. But doing so will make your wife think that you are turning your elbow outward. So, there's a lot of learning here.

Under normal circumstances, everyone will have your wife's emotions to a greater or lesser extent, feeling that no matter what they do right or wrong, their husband should be one-sided towards him, otherwise he will burn his anger on his husband's head. In this case, you can first take silence, don't blame your wife for what happened, she is on fire, of course she will not listen to you, but provoke a scolding. Instead, wait until your wife's anger is gone, and find a suitable time to tell her to learn empathy; Also, you must consider your wife's feelings at ordinary times, and take care of your wife, even if there are occasional small quarrels and small frictions, it will not have much impact, and the bedside quarrels and the end of the bed.

In a word, pay attention to the way you speak and grasp the best time to criticize to achieve the best results.

I wish you a harmonious husband and wife.

As you said, empathy is important, but the question is are you also empathetic? For example, if she and her friends are arguing, maybe you can ease the atmosphere with a few words? For example, if she is not in good health and goes to the doctor, it is okay for you, as her man, to accompany her.

You can ask for leave from work. Taking time off is just a little less pay. Moreover, the company can generally understand the need to take leave to accompany the family to see a doctor.

You don't want to take time off and don't want to bear her complaints, obviously a bit too demanding. In a normal person's mind, it is a responsibility and an obligation to accompany a sick family member to see a doctor. Of course, you can say that you are busy at work and you are financially stressed and do not want to take time off.

But only if you have good communication – she can understand. Otherwise, it's normal to quarrel. If you want your condition to improve, you have to change yourself.

His own daughter-in-law is more tolerant of less calculation, less criticism and more encouragement. Two people are mutually influencing, and you don't just see her problems. I always believe that the rare love is not how many commonalities two people have, but the ability to tolerate and understand each other when two people have differences and contradictions.

I wish you happiness, do it and cherish it

The most important thing between husband and wife is to communicate effectively, and learn to think from each other's point of view. Don't think that a happy marriage doesn't have quarrels, that's unrealistic. Just like cooking can't be done without salt, it can be said that there is no husband and wife in the world who don't quarrel, if it really develops to the point that they don't even have the strength and mood to quarrel, it means that the marriage has come to an end.

In fact, the process of husband and wife quarreling is a process of continuous running-in, continuous adaptation, and continuous sublimation of feelings. Some people grow in quarrels, some get injured in quarrels, some people are harmonious in quarrels, and some people separate in quarrels. The key is to get the hang of "fighting":

1.Be kind and noisy. Grasp the direction well, really figure out the goal of the quarrel, and "study" the solution to the problem.

The difference between a "bona fide" quarrel and a "malicious" quarrel is that the latter tends to put aside the cause of the quarrel and only quarrel for the sake of anger. "Good-willed" quarrels, on the other hand, revolve around issues and follow certain rules.

2.Quarrel on an equal footing. Mutual respect between husband and wife is very important in a quarrel.

Quarrels between husband and wife cannot have different weight classes like boxing matches, and if the strong person scares the weak person in a simple and brutal way, smashes something or uses force, such a quarrel will not end well.

3.Be noisy in moderation. Husband and wife quarrels, as either party, you don't have to win every quarrel, it's enough to express your meaning, don't always be the last "summary speaker", you know, the last "speak" may not be able to get a "high score".

4.Quarrel behind closed doors. It is necessary to try to avoid outsiders intervening in the quarrels between husband and wife, do not try to seek sympathy and help from the outside world, and still less can bring "reinforcements" to "pressure" the other party, which will eventually be useless, on the contrary, it will make things more and more deadlocked.

5.Pay attention to the art of language. "A sentence on the fire is difficult to repair in three years", sometimes when you are angry, because you want to be happy for a while, saying a sentence is enough to make the other party hate you and go against you.

I said landlord. You're all married, can you get to the point where you don't know what a creature a woman is? Shun donkey.

The landlord now hurry up and buy something that his daughter-in-law usually wants, and he can afford to coax it back. Quarrels are inevitable. Be patient, hope to help the landlord.

Friends take a step back and open the sky. Go and apologize, make amends.

She is just undisciplined, and if you really explain it to her as you described, then you don't have to wonder what she thinks, you have to think about how to smooth out her ignorance.

This is a problem.,If you don't want to get married, drag it first.,Girls can't afford to drag it out.,But you like each other.,Contradiction.。。。

If the two still have feelings, it's best not to go to a good lawyer, but marriage is a difficult problem to solve, if your cousin has regrets, then persuade your sister-in-law, he knows that he is wrong and give him a chance, after all, he once loved, if your cousin doesn't want to continue living with your cousin, then dragging it will only make both of you unhappy. Giving up marriage gives each other a wider sky,

Try to convince yourself: "I haven't quarreled, I haven't quarreled, I haven't quarreled, I haven't quarreled, and then I get along with each other when I didn't quarrel, give each other a slight joke, of course, if you are a man, you can buy a bouquet of flowers after doing the blind plum mentioned above, and then say affectionately: "I'm sorry", it will be good.

Yes, in the form of negotiations, of course, it is possible to lose face, and it is more likely to lose interests, like many unequal treaties signed by Cixi, this method can only be used when a weak country is bullied by a strong country. Of course, it is also possible to ask for help from the hostile countries of this powerful country, or to the United Nations. If the weak start a war, you can find other powerful countries to be peacemakers, and if the strong and strong start a war, then fight.

Yes, in the form of negotiations, of course, there is a risk of losing face and more likely to lose benefits.

Yes. But not all the time.