How does a man feel after being broken up?

What kind of feelings and performances do men have after being broken up, I think it depends on what kind of personality traits the man is, and men with different personality traits may have different practices and performances. But what can be said is that if this man has given himself and his feelings in this relationship, he will feel very sad no matter what kind of man he is.

There are some heroic men, after they have been broken up, they may behave unusually calm, only to be sad in their hearts for a while, and will not show it from their expressions. Or call your friends out for a dark drink, drink all night, and get drunk.

But there are some more fragile men, when they are broken up, they may show that you are often sad, and may do some irrational things. For such a man, they may be depressed from now on and live a negative life every day, which is completely due to such a part of the people. Because, the wounds brought by feelings are really very long and painful, and he is much more painful than flesh wounds.

When a man is broken up, he is likely to ask the reason for this, and it is very likely that he will do his best to keep his lover. This should be something that every man who has been broken up will try to do. But for some very disgusting men, they have never taken the relationship seriously, and they will not feel anything after they are broken up, they will feel that they can start over again.

Anyway, men with different personalities may have their own unique feelings about being broken up, and they may be different from others, which may be related to their experiences. But I think that no matter who you are, men or women, you should be serious about your feelings.

I really want to be free and easy, and I have done a lot of things to be free and easy, but I can't be free at all.

It is said that the people who are broken up are poor people, and the other party has already said goodbye to him, but he doesn't know it. On the contrary, I am still in a state of planning for the future.

Girls are crying and crying when they are broken up, gloomy and gloomy, while boys are different, boys are broken up, they want to be cool.

Isn't it just a breakup, what's the big deal. Split this hand, I could have found a better one.

Lao Zhou is like this, when his girlfriend who has been talking for three years broke up with him, he said, it's okay, breaking up is relief, it's good, I don't have to fall in love with my mobile phone every day. So on the first day of the breakup, he invited everyone to a meal to celebrate his happy single life.

But within two days, he began to show signs of lovelorn pain. He usually doesn't smoke much, but he can smoke three packs of cigarettes a day. Having rarely drank, he began to drink heavily. Even the former sunny and cheerful man suddenly stopped talking, and always played games in the dormitory.

He pretended to be free and easy, and didn't tell anyone how painful it was for him to fall out of love. He also used a lot of methods to try to withdraw from this relationship, such as socializing, meeting more girls, asking them to eat and watch movies when he met the right eye, and trying to cultivate relationships. For example, when he went on a trip, he went to a lot of places that they had wanted to go to, but had never been.

Every circle of friends he posted, there was no half of a sentence unhappy.

Everyone thinks that he has a nourishing life, has gone to a distant place, and has beautiful women. But he wasn't happy. In the month of falling out of love, he managed to lose six pounds, and he became depressed.

Everyone says that only girls hurt when they break up, but it's not.

When boys are broken up, they won't cry to death, they will only crawl in pain.

It depends on what the boy's personality is, some people who have experienced a lot of this kind of thing have already regarded love as a game, he may ** reach the future direction of the two people, and it won't hurt him if he is broken up.

There is also the fact that I have always loved the girl deeply but was proposed to break up by the woman, it will definitely be very uncomfortable, I regret that I did not cherish it, and it may even be affected for a long time, and it is also possible to change my view of the future.

Heartbreak, can't sleep, pain, no appetite, still thinking about each other, and trying to redeem it.

It will be very uncomfortable, and even cry, and I want to get drunk at that time.

Maybe get sad, then find a group of friends to go out for a drink and declare yourself single!

Everyone feels bad after falling out of love, feels very unwilling, and will be in a low state for a period of time.

I felt like I had been dumped, and I didn't feel much at first, but then I felt very sad.

1. Break up for a month - free and happy.

When the boy takes the initiative to break up in the first month, the actual boy's heart is very happy, they always think about freedom and no constraints, and they don't have to coax another person anymore, they turn over and become the master, and naturally they will not consider your feelings, and this psychological change will be maintained for about a month.

2. Break up for three months - deliberately miss you.

Three months after the breakup, the boy will want to pay attention to your messages from time to time, occasionally want to call**, text you, and even want to get back together with you, but as soon as this idea comes out, the boy will feel that he is too weak, and he will always wander in the idea of giving up and picking up.

3. Break up for six months - miss it strongly.

Normally, when the boy takes the initiative to break up in the sixth month, the boy's psychological longing becomes completely crazy, and even wants to go out to find your trace from time to time, and his mind will experience the good times you used to have over and over again, and he will also remember that you are good to him step by step, but for the sake of face, he will not learn to take the initiative.

4. Break up for nine months - I want to get you back.

It's been nine months since the breakup, and the boy realized at this moment that he had completely lost you, and at this moment, the boy began to plan to send you a message, pick up the phone, and dare not disturb you. Although the psychology has a strong desire to redeem, it has never been able to pass the psychological hurdle, so the psychological pain of the boy is getting worse day by day.

5. One year after the breakup - leave indifferently.

Although facing a strong psychological lovesickness, but helpless, after a year of psychological struggle, the boy also feels that the other party has no feelings for himself at all, and the boy has tasted a series of bitterness and bitterness at the moment, and he will choose to leave indifferently at this moment.

Falling in love to breaking up, but it is not a thing that both parties can accept, after all, breaking up is a failed relationship, because when you choose to fall in love, you want to have a good love experience, two people can hold hands to have ideas, hope to fall in love with each other, breaking up is not a good thing for both parties, there will be some blows and injuries, falling out of love is painful, but you should not indulge in thoughts and can't extricate yourself, just like the theme. He has a positive and enterprising mind, and he can forget about this unhappy lovelorn, the sadness and torture caused by the breakup, and constantly strive to change himself. After his change, he has become very confident.

Don't pray, don't entangle, accept the fact of breaking up, many people will repeatedly promise each other that I will change, I will change, I will change, give me another chance, okay? And these words are often said n times before the breakup, and repeating them again will only cause the other party to resent them.

Or if you feel hopeless after trying to redeem yourself, you are angry and say that you should never contact each other again, and then you can't help but contact the other party, these repeated actions are not conducive to recovery, and your image in the other party's heart will be greatly reduced.

And when a man proposes to break up, it is generally a deliberate decision, and he doesn't want to continue, for what reason? If you have the opportunity, be sure to ask the other person why they want to leave, but many times they will not tell you the real reason, you can only think about it yourself and understand.

Or you have some shortcomings that he can't bear or there are some realistic external resistances that make him have to give up, or more rationally, it is easier to give up than to continue, and you can find the answer from what he has said.

After breaking up, give yourself some time to think about the real reason why the other party wants to break up, only when you find the real reason why he wants to break up, you can be targeted when you recover.

Breaking up gives yourself a period of calm, and another advantage is to let the other party accept the fact that the breakup is that the two people who used to have the most information every day suddenly cut off contact, and it is not only you who are uncomfortable, but also him, but it is this pain that will prompt him to miss the good you used to be, and think about whether the decision to break up is right.

3. Breaking off contact and finding back to your former self is difficult for people who want to redeem their love, you may very much want to know if he still loves you, whether it is worth retrieving, and what he is doing during the breakup.

But I tell you, don't rush to contact, even if you are still in love with the other person, don't keep looking at his space and following his Weibo, because once you are overly involved, it will only increase your sense of need and make the other party more and more disgusted with you. So when facing a breakup, I must find the reason, and then establish my own image, so that I can become better and better, maybe at this time, I will be more confident to recover this relationship.

Observe post-breakup attitudes. It's often easy to show your true colors. At least after the breakup, it's really the same.

Generally, after a boy breaks up, he will feel very relaxed and happy at first, but after a while, it will be boring.

Boys are also different from boys, some boys break up, there will be a time when they will feel particularly lonely, especially lonely, but after a while, it will be fine, and some boys are more emotional, and they will not be able to get out for a long time.

How do guys feel after a breakup? Many boys seem to be very at ease after a breakup, and they don't seem to be sad at all when they go out with friends, party, eat, and sing. In fact, this is not the case, the breakup matter, boys are also painful and uncomfortable, after all, people's hearts are long, because the person who proposed the breakup and the person who was broken up are not the same as the sad period.

If the boy thinks. This girl is unreliable and troublesome, and gradually dislikes it, when he wants to break up with him, he will hesitate and entangle to associate the good side of this girl, after all, the two people have had an intimate relationship in deciding whether to break up, this tangled stage, the boy is very painful and depressed, and at this time, maybe the girl can't feel it, but some boys are just stubborn on the surface, in fact, they are also very sad.

After a breakup, although the boy will have a bitter sense of failure, he will also have a sense of relief, like a sense of freedom that has been squeezing on his body has been untied.

Because in some ways, a boy will always be a child who will not grow up, especially when it comes to the things he likes.

But love will make the boy force himself to grow up and care about the girl he likes, so he will give up a lot of happiness when he is single, in order to be better for the other half.

But this abandonment and growth also gave up the pleasures he once enjoyed, and it also added pressure to himself, even though these are the things that must be faced in order to manage a relationship.

How do guys feel after a breakup? Exhaustion is a common emotion that most men will have when they break up, but it is also the one that is most easily ignored by women.

Maybe a man will find 10,000 reasons to break up with you, but when he says, "I'm tired," he's really tired. When a man is tired and too lazy to respond to your emotions, women usually directly label the man as "unloved" or "irresponsible".

In fact, it's not that he doesn't love anymore, but he can't love anymore. You are still attractive to him at the moment, but the negative emotions and oppression make him want to escape this feeling quickly. Therefore, a man will feel tired, mostly not because he is selfish or has changed his mind, but in this relationship, the man has been under an uncomfortable oppression for a long time, and there is more of a sense of powerlessness and frustration.

In this case, the reason for the breakup is generally that the girl has been making trouble for a long time, being strong, and being suspicious, so after the breakup, the boy will have a sense of relief, freedom, and relaxation, usually this feeling will last for about 2 weeks to 1 month, during this period, introverted boys may play games day and night, and extroverted boys may often go to some social activities.

People who really feel tired often wait until 1 month after separation, the negative emotions gradually disappear, and then they begin to miss the good of their ex, but at this time, he feels uncomfortable because of some previous habits and thinking, and on the other hand, he will fear the powerlessness in the relationship, and then continue to convince himself over and over again to insist on his choice to break up.

At this time, if you contact him occasionally, show him your emotionally stable side, and pave him with more comfort, the other party will slowly replace the negative impression of you with a new impression, thus increasing the possibility of compounding.