Feelings are confused and incomprehensible, is the emotional problem really unsolvable?

The key is to "want to talk about the last love in your life." What do you mean? Passing away?

Or is she reluctant to marry someone she doesn't like? If you are a rational person, you can continue to contact and see how this girl is, if you are afraid of being deceived, you can invite her to participate in more activities between your friends, and more people will help you check the gates. If you are very emotional, then don't contact, you can't bear it, if it's not, you can't bear it, if it's not her "last love in your life", you can't bear it. Right?

Feelings are inherently complicated.

It's not a **, because she hasn't cheated you out of any items and feelings.

I said that I would ignore him decisively, and the landlord didn't like to hear this, so go ahead and don't pay too much attention to it, it doesn't hurt.

Let's talk about it! Girls are so proactive, what are you afraid of? You also said that you have no money, no car, no house. What are you afraid of lying to you?

Oops, I'm sorry for you. , You yourself are a liar, you are an undergraduate and just graduated,,, do you still ask others to tell the truth? I think you're weird... It's all strange ... The Internet Thing... I'm convinced.

You can't conclude that she's **.

It's just that she is now a junior in college, and she is immature in both her thinking and understanding of reality.

Even if you want to be in a relationship, it's best to wait until she graduates.

After all, there will be a sea change from students to workers.

You can explain your idea to her.

Eh, this question is quite tangled, you can continue to contact her, anyway, you're a boy, you can't suffer, haha, but it's a little suspicious for a girl to say that she wants to be with you so easily. . .

Now if any girl likes a boy and wants to take the initiative to say it, people don't say it proves that they like you, big brother, I'm really worried about you Women are thin-skinned Women should be able to feel it when they are in contact with each other, for example, they often look for it.

Are you a kid or something, is this kind of thing necessary to pay attention to?

Some. And I can also tell you that all people have times when they are very powerless in the face of feelings.

This is a very normal situation.

You know, no one can do it, solve all problems perfectly. What's more, emotional problems are often not solved by one person, and many times this involves you, including you, and the second or even a third party is involved. It is inevitable to encounter a situation of extreme powerlessness.

So why, can't we solve all emotional problems perfectly? There are three kinds of problems that tend to be encountered here.

1.Everyone has a period of burnout, and it is difficult to maintain a high level of self-efficacy for a long time.

2.There will be a misunderstanding between each other, and communication will not be perfect.

3.With different positions, there are many things that cannot be agreed upon.

So why do you say that?

1.Why is it so hard to maintain a high level of self-efficacy?

First of all, I believe that in your daily life, you will definitely find that sometimes, the whole person will be very depressed, and we often say that it is very "sad". This is because psychologically speaking, people's emotions are in a state of fluctuation. Negative emotions will continue to pile up in your heart, and one day they will explode.

2.Why is cognitive communication biased?

And in daily life, there will always be barriers and inconveniences in your communication with others, and the more you face emotional problems, the more difficult you will find it to communicate. So it often happens that the problems you face don't go in the direction you want, and then cause you great trouble. In this case, it is normal for you to feel powerless.

3.What are the problems caused by different positions?

To a large extent, the difficulty of communication is due to the fact that your positions are not consistent. To give a very simple example, I believe that many people have encountered the question of whose parents' house to go to when they take annual leave. When you look at this from your own point of view.

You will find that there are enough good reasons to support your choice. Can.

1. Clarify the problem.

In the eyes of outsiders, the problems in the relationship are very easy to solve, but in it, you can personally experience the details in the relationship, and all the things that are easy to solve in the eyes of outsiders are inextricably related and cumbersome. But in order to solve the problem, you must learn to sort out the crux of those emotional problems, and only by finding out the cause of the problem can you find the best way to solve it.

2. Remember to be respectful.

No matter what problems arise in your relationship, in the face of the problem of how to deal with the relationship, as long as you want to be able to solve it rationally, then please give the other person the least respect. Only by respecting each other can you have the rationality to calm down and the mentality to solve problems. If you don't give the other person respect, then the other party will definitely not respect you, so no matter what the problem is, it will not be able to solve it, and it will only get worse.

3. Take the initiative to approach.

Don't always wait for the other party to take the initiative to admit their mistakes, or take the initiative to reconcile, and occasionally, you also take the initiative once. Take the initiative to buy a gift for the other party, take the initiative to help the other party wash their clothes, take the initiative to help the other party do what they can, or, take the initiative to approach the other party, let the other party feel your sincerity, let the other party feel your feelings, and naturally open your arms to welcome you.

4. Learn to understand.

When there is a relationship problem again, the self-concept of each other is very strong, and they generally think about "how hard I am" and "how you enjoy it", so the problem naturally becomes more and more serious. If you want to solve these emotional problems, you have to learn to understand the other person, look at those problems from the other person's point of view, and see what you would do if it were you. In this way, you will understand some of the other person's behavior, and you will not be too resentful and blame the other person.

Men are all virtuous, always thinking about hugging left and right! me too

It's a bit dangerous, it's not right for your boyfriend to break the thread like this!

It could also be that your boyfriend is showing his charm in front of you, so that you can see that there is a woman who is obsessed with him!

I think he's still thinking about that woman, he's about to get married and still like this, you want to delete her QQ and he won't let him, how can you marry him Open your glasses wider, something will happen sooner or later!

It's definitely not going to have such a man !!

I can't forget which, sooner or later something will happen.