How can you reason with unreasonable people without making yourself angry?

Sometimes we have to do reasonable things in the face of some unreasonable people, which is an inevitable situation in reality. For those unreasonable people, no matter what the situation is, you are always a passive party, because the unreasonable conditions have already determined the result of reasoning, in the end the problem is not solved, it is obviously the fault of others, but it is yourself who is hurt and angry, which is a situation where the gains outweigh the losses. Therefore, in my opinion, in order to be reasonable with unreasonable people and not to get angry, we need to pay attention to the following two aspects; <>

First, we must be psychologically prepared, and when we know that the other party is unreasonable, we must have appropriate psychological preparation, that is, we must have psychological expectations for the possible consequences of reasoning. The purpose of this is to prevent the consequences of being unrecognized because of reasoning, which will cause frustration and depression in one's own heart. The pre-determination of the consequences is an indispensable measure that can be taken in response to unknown situations.

Regardless of the outcome, if you already have a plan, you will not have a strong unprepared reaction when you deal with it.

Second, to make appropriate concessions, there is a saying that it is good to take a step back, although in the process of reasoning they are the party that is reasonable, but the other party's unreasonable character traits, has long decided that they are the losing party, at this time the appropriate regression is the best way to deal with it, not to have meaningless quarrels with unreasonable people is the clearest choice, then the mistakes of others to punish themselves, it is a very unfair thing, why need to punish yourself for the unreasonableness of others? Express your views reasonably and do what you should do, this is the best way to deal with it, you don't have to lose control of your emotions because of meaningless arguments, and taking a step back does not mean giving up, but in order not to be affected by emotions.

Then don't reason with unreasonable people.

There are two options, you can talk to the unreasonable person, the unreasonable person, or the unreasonable person.

With an unreasonable person, why be angry? Is it worth it? Don't punish yourself for the mistakes of others, what do you say to unreasonable people in the future?

What's more? I don't understand human speech at all. I just feel that this kind of unreasonable person is pathetic, if she is sophistry.

Then you can put it in some people with high IQs. If he is unreasonable and unreasonable, it can only prove that this person is very low-level and interesting.

What you have to do now is to tell him that I don't want to quarrel with you, and I don't want to argue with you, that's fine, this is the first method we say: ignore him, you dry him for a day, and he will stop. If you bother you again because of this matter, you will directly scold him and scold him back.

In this way, it is okay to make himself angry, so that he will suddenly feel frustrated, and he will never reason with you again in the future.

The second way, that is, you are as unreasonable as him, how unreasonable he is, you double it back for him, that is, let him try to see what is called real vexatiousness. If you deal with someone you hate more than yourself, you should do it more hateful than him, so that you can disgust him to death. By the way, I also gave my own anger.

Anyway, I don't have more meat, and I don't have less meat, so why not?

The main thing is that such people are really common and annoying. Even in an ordinary vegetable market, you can meet an unreasonable person, such a person can basically be said to be a person with no quality, so there is no need for our sympathy!

We always meet a lot of people in life, and each of them has their own personality characteristics. It is natural to be very lucky to meet some good people, but to meet some bad people will make yourself "hurt". In life, we will always meet such a group of people more or less:

They think they are right, and when they reason with them, they never reason, and even if they say it, it will only make them more and more angry.

The best way to meet this kind of person is to stay away. I know that they are unreasonable, so why should I reason with them? Isn't this a clear meat bun beating a dog - there is no return, and the bamboo basket is empty.

I know what kind of person the other party is, but I still get along with him in the opposite way, isn't this asking for trouble for myself. Since the other party is unreasonable, then you just need to take care of yourself, so why bother with others. Others will not have much influence on their behavior and future, and the initiative is still in their own hands.

But sometimes we have to deal with some unreasonable people. So first of all, we have to be mentally prepared, we have to think about what will happen and what the outcome will be. For example, if you get the test paper and find that you have failed the test paper after the exam, it will definitely be sad.

But if you were told in advance that you had already failed, would you still be so sad the moment you got the test paper? Duoduo must be mentally prepared, and the mood swings will not be so big. The same is true with them, if you know in advance that you will be angry, and you are mentally prepared, then you tend not to be so angry.

Just don't be reasonable, because it doesn't make sense, and it's good to play scoundrels once in a while.

You don't have to pay too much attention to unreasonable people, and you and the other party won't necessarily listen to you, I don't think it's necessary.

There is an old saying in our hometown: it is better to fight with people who understand than to talk to people who are confused. Let's take a good feel for yourself the meaning of this sentence.

Those unreasonable people speak uprightly, think that they are wrong to others, they have no cultivation and quality at all, they fly and trek, and even beat and scold others, in the face of such people, we should think of some coping strategies!

1. Persuade the other party to correct their mistakes.

We should pay attention to one point, that is, we must not give up our own ideas, also known as not forgetting our original intention, we can't feel that this problem is tricky, and we can't solve it all at once, so we just give up, we should stick to our own ideas and not give up easily.

2. Try not to clash head-on.

We should try our best to avoid head-on conflicts with unreasonable people, because there is a saying that Xiucai can't be justified when he meets soldiers, and when he meets unreasonable people, you can only communicate and explain appropriately and try to persuade as much as possible, but you can't counter violence with violence.

3. You can ask for help from relevant personnel.

If we encounter unreasonable people in our work, we should actively ask for help from our superiors, and if it is a matter of life, we can ask the street, the district police station, etc. to help coordinate and solve it.

4. If the other party is too much, don't swallow it.

I should maintain a correct attitude, because if we condone his unreasonable words, it means that our attitude has been compromised, and his rudeness has triumphed, which can only further fuel his arrogance.

5. It is necessary to stick to your own principles.

If the other party is unreasonable, we should also explain the reason with him, try to persuade him, and find a way to make him understand through other channels, and correct it in time.

If you really can't do it, you just stay away from people who are right and wrong. We have to judge according to the situation, if we guess that this person is something we have to face, we should try to solve it, and if it is dispensable, we can also choose to stay away, try to avoid it, and not be disturbed by them.

Directly without Zheng Ji and look down at the defeat or you are not reasonable, anyway, the other party will not listen to you, there is no need to continue to be a gentleman, people with lead socks are bullying the soft and afraid of the hard, the more reasonable you are, the more they are arrogant, sometimes they will be afraid if they don't talk about it.

1. Control yourself, when the other party is difficult for you, the first reaction can not be to fight right away, because in this way often people with a mild personality will be at a disadvantage, since the other party is prepared, you are caught off guard, and you will lose in momentum first. At this time, you should control yourself and avoid getting angry, if you get angry at this time, you will make yourself look very bad, and it is not easy to win people's hearts.

2. Respond calmly, carefully analyze the starting point of the other party's behavior, whether there are loopholes in the words, if there are obvious loopholes, then after speaking, just point out this point, get to the point, and don't give any chance to justify, because since the loss is an unreasonable person, then it will definitely come up with crooked ideas immediately, and if you don't give a chance to justify, you will definitely be very depressed.

3. Lay a good foundation for the masses, if you can no longer point out the flaws at that time, then you must learn to win people's hearts, and the friends around you will not have opinions on you.

4. Take the initiative to attack, find the right time to take the initiative to attack, at this time don't be soft-hearted, when you should be tough, you have to be tough, remember, be kind to others, there will be no half of gratitude. In addition, in front of the leader, we must learn to "be a low-key person and do things in a high-profile manner", and behave when it is time to perform, and not being proactive is a sign of weakness.

5. Know how to protect yourself.

1. Low-key: For powerful people, being low-key can better protect themselves, and being high-profile will only attract some people with bad intentions.

2. Principled: For people who do not have the strength for the time being, they must be principled in everything so that they will not be oppressed by others. If you are unprincipled and have no bottom line, you will only become a bad person.

3. Trust your own judgment: see more and think more, have your own judgment, instead of listening to what others say and do it.

4. Learn some specialties to support yourself: When people live in this world, they must always be warm, fed, and stable, so they must have skills to support themselves in living in this world.

5. Learn some legal knowledge: When you encounter some bad things, you must learn to use the law to protect yourself, so as not to hurt yourself, and learn to think more: the times are progressing, the society is progressing, and only by constantly learning and thinking can you keep up with the progress of the times and society.