How can I let go of what I can t ask for?

If you die, you will naturally let go. If it hurts, I naturally don't dare to catch it. You can't let go because you still have illusions.

Imagine that you still have a chance to get it. One day, or when you really despair and really know that no matter how hard you try, you can't get it, you really let go.

We will be full of helplessness in this life. People who like it don't like themselves. You can't afford to get what you want.

This is what makes us very painful. When I grew so big, I found that the only thing I could afford to put down was chopsticks. There really are no such free and easy people in this world.

If you can love, you will pursue it, and if you don't love, you will wave your hand and let you go. That only exists in television.

It's just that some people are too indecisive and don't want to let go. Some people will die quickly and have no illusions. So some people seem to be very free, and some people seem to be very indecisive. Indecisive people are naturally more miserable.

A person goes to the mountains to find the master and says I can't let go of my ex-girlfriend. The master asked him to hold the cup and poured him water, and it was not until Yang came out to burn his hands that he put the cup down. Then he said to the master, are you telling me to let go when it hurts?

The master said that when it hurts, it will be put down. But the pain is like that glass of water, it is full little by little. And not all at once.

So you can't let go because your pain isn't full. Don't rush. There will be a full day.

When it's full, it's natural to let it go.

It's the same if we can't let go of one thing. It's your sadness that isn't yet full. That's why you have illusions.

When your pain is like that glass of water, it fills up and even ripples out. You won't be fantasizing, and you won't dare to fantasize. That's when you're going to die.

It's really put down.

Don't deliberately let yourself go, put him in your heart first, and then go busy with your own things, and after a long time, or you have a new person you like, you can slowly let go.

If you can't ask for it, then give it up, and don't pursue things that don't have anything to do with you.

You should see the essence of this matter, there is no point in persevering, and the best way is to let go.

Don't force it too much, if you don't get it, you won't get it, you'll be stupid, and you'll become crazy if you go on like this.

Saying hurry up is to find a better relationship again.

Another amorous species, time is the best.

The first is to know that being uncomfortable is being uncomfortable, and don't force yourself not to be uncomfortable. Many of us suffer because we don't accept our current state and always want to change. In fact, what I want to say is, since you are already uncomfortable, don't force yourself not to be uncomfortable, and see this uncomfortable state, because everyone will be uncomfortable when encountering such a thing, which is also reasonable, don't fight with yourself with all your strength.

I'm obviously very uncomfortable, and I have to pretend that I don't care, which is actually the most painful.

The second point is that releasing your emotions will have unexpected results. There are many times when we always like to suppress our emotions, thinking that it will be better to do this, but in fact, it is not, there are emotions that really need to be released. If you're having a hard time right now, you can cry, you can yell loudly, and you must remember to let your emotions out.

If emotions are not released, it will not only affect your mental state, but even your physical state will have a greater impact. Once your emotions are released, you will find that the breath you are holding is smooth, and you will easily be relieved.

Third, try to be good because you deserve better. Do you know? In fact, it is your one who has not yet appeared, and when he has not appeared, what you have to do is to try to make yourself better and wait for your one to appear.

When he appears in front of you, you will feel that this is what you want. Why waste your good time with someone who doesn't love you? In fact, not loving you is his loss, and that's because you deserve better.

Good times always go by so quickly, may you be free of emotional troubles in life.

Forget about someone you shouldn't love, the most effective way is not to see each other again.

There is always only one way to forget a relationship: time and a new love. If time and a new love can't make you forget a relationship, there is only one reason: the time is not long enough, and the new love is not good enough.

Thoughts are just as exhaustive as love. I have no choice but to separate the two places, at first I thought you were thinking very bitterly, and I wanted to run to you immediately, and never be separated from you again. Later, I didn't miss you so much, not because I didn't love you, but because there was no way back to miss you like this.

No matter how much I think about you, I still can't see you or touch you, I just torture myself with my thoughts. Then I knew I had to learn to live my life.

Someday, you'll smile at the pain of your past. You will be grateful to the person who left you, who is not worthy of your love, your goodness, and your infatuation. He wasn't the man he was meant to be. Thankfully he wasn't.

When love is absent, learn to live your life. To live your own life is to fall in love with yourself, to treat yourself as your lover, and to spoil yourself.

Let go of those who can't get it, and it's all up to you to adjust your mentality!

One, one you can't get except.

When I think of him, my heart still hurts, but then I slowly let go. The good ones are on the way, and you shouldn't be greedy for the beauty in front of you, and start learning to enrich your life. I think of my previous self was too naïve, I have to ask questions about a little thing, and I am suspicious of gains and losses every day, how can a boy like such a girl?

I remembered that when I just broke up before, I frantically begged him not to leave me, but what can I do, if I lose it, I lost it, and I deleted all the screenshots of the group chat with a ruthless heart, and suddenly I felt relaxed. Don't look at things anymore.

At this age, it is true that no one wants to please anymore, and he will be with whoever is comfortable with him. Including my friends, I stay away when I'm tired. You like me, I like you, then we are together, if we don't like it, don't force it, it's past the age where you don't like me and I have to like you.

People inevitably have stupid times, because they are young, so they will meet a person who can't be loved. There has been an irretrievable failure to be let down This is nothing, you always need to experience it to know what you really need, and you can reflect more to become better Remember, when you become excellent, there will naturally be someone who will be with you.

If the person who took the initiative to break up with you found a new person in a short time, it was not because they were really good, but only because they had a goal early, so they threw you off like a broken shoe. What you don't want to drag down, what doesn't fit, it's all a lie. It's nothing more than liking the new and hating the old.

People who really love each other, no matter how many excuses they have, they will not break up. Because we are always in love, not in love. If you have a fate, cherish it, let it go if you don't have a fate, don't tire yourself.

Pay less attention to his message.

In the face of a person who can't be loved, if you can't let go, you have to learn to do it.

First of all, you have to accept the fact that you can't be together.

If you love someone again, if there is no possibility of being together, it is not in vain to know each other if you can love each other, and the final result is not important. If you can't accept this outcome, then don't start, so as not to hurt each other and hurt others.

If you can't ask for it, it means that the other party doesn't love you the same, no matter how deep you love, it's also your own business, he chose to leave, and you are destined to not keep his heart.

Secondly, those who can't ask for it are destined to become a pain in your heart, so learn to let go.

Whatever the reason for not being able to be together, this feeling is fruitless. It is already difficult for unilateral feelings and shriveled seeds to germinate.

In the face of people who can't ask for it, everyone will invisibly lower their posture and chase his shadow with an upward gaze, which will only bring you bitterness and pain.

If you can't ask for it, then learn to let go, let him go, and let yourself go. It may be difficult to do at first, but time will ** the pain in your heart, let you meet the right person, and make up for the pain in your heart with sweetness.

First of all, you should adjust your mentality, recognize that there are a lot of people in this world who can't love, not only yourself, since it's already love, then don't be entangled in the past, addicted to it, it will only affect your life, make yourself more negative and addicted, and the past is not desirable people, you should look forward, I believe that one day you will always meet a person who is most suitable for you, so let go of the past and strive to look forward.

How should you let go of someone who can't be loved? For such a person is hard to find, you can take him as your mentor and friend, you can also regard it as a good friend of yours, that is, a bosom friend, but it is impossible for him to become a family with you in this life, you can only bury her love in your heart, or silently bless her in your heart, hoping that she can also get a happy life.

Read more literary books such as Chicken Soup for the Soul to know how to let go of your lover. Because man has to learn to be rational in life. Especially to love someone who has someone to love.

At this time, it is not emotional intelligence that is needed, but intelligence that is needed. Not the madness that is needed, but the calmness that is needed. Make your mind stronger and know what you need.

This is how you can put it down.

In fact, as a girl, you have to learn to understand that there are only two outcomes with the person you like, one is to stay with you for a lifetime, and the other is to leave you sooner or later, not that you are not good enough, but that the other party is not the most suitable person for you.

The current situation is that you can't forget, he is already going to marry someone else, don't let yourself love so badly!

Learn to look forward, make yourself excellent, and always believe that one day in the future, the most suitable person for you will definitely appear, and when the time comes, take you through the barrenness of previous love, so that love can dock!

There must be a reason why you can't get someone in love. The main reason is that the other party is already married and has become someone's wife. So the two are fated to have no part.

At the same time, it also shows that you are a kind person, and you are a person who truly loves him. Genuinely for his sake. I don't want to disturb her life now.

I don't want to embarrass him. That's why I suffered myself. You can leave that sad city and change places.

Start your new life anew. Re-pursue a new relationship. It is the best medicine for broken love.

People say that whether it's in love or living a good life, it's not about finding the best person. It's about finding someone who is the best fit for you. Let the past be brave enough to face reality.

That's the only thing you should be doing right now.

Some people or things should be let go.

Everyone has to go through one or several relationships to find their desired partner, and if the two of you are not suitable together, you need to continue to find it. Although you love others, but they don't love you, it means that the two of you are not fated, and you should continue to look for your lover. You will only be able to let go if you want to open it.

Zhang Ailing said: Maybe every man has had two women like this, at least two. Married to a red rose, over time, the red one changed to a smear of mosquito blood on the wall, and the white one was still"Bright moonlight in front of the bed";married a white rose, the white one is a grain of rice sticky on the clothes, but the red one is a cinnabar mole on the heart.

I think, in fact, it is like this for everyone:What you can't get will always be the best, and what you get will never be cherished.

However, many people can't cross this hurdle, for example, I was like this at the beginning, I always felt that it was my fault, but when I finally knew that the other party had a girlfriend and forced myself to let go, I found that it was not so painful to let go, and letting go of a person was like pulling out a thorn in the fleshAlthough it was painful when I pulled it out, and it would be bloody when I pulled it out, as long as I got through that time, life gradually got better.

It's no longer necessary to give up, and even if you catch it, it's not what you want.

If you can't get it, you should give it up.

If that person doesn't like you, then even if you like him very much, then I advise you to give up sooner or later, you should seek your other half, pursue a better love, and then a love can't be forced?

It's not expensive! Let's go ahead!!

Work hard and do your best in everything, and you can't force it.

Giving up is the best option.

I think we should pursue our own happiness, but on the way to pursue happiness, if we encounter a lot of difficulties and obstacles, we must give up when we should give up, there is no need to wronged ourselves, let ourselves live in a painful situation all the time.

When I was in high school, I really liked a boy. At that time, he sat at my table, and I thought he was the best-looking boy in the world, and he was very gentle, very polite, and had a very good academic performance, which is the image of the male protagonist in idol dramas. I also hinted at him at the time, and then I pursued him directly, and he also knew that I liked him, maybe I was not the type he liked, so he didn't accept me at the time, I didn't understand it at the time.

The reason he gave at the time was that I had to study hard in high school, and I thought at that time, when high school is over, we should be able to live happily together. After graduating from high school, everyone was admitted to different schools, and the distance was really very far. I take the train to his city every weekend to see him, spend the weekend with him, I will cook food for him in his rented house, and I will also bring him all kinds of local products.

I think he knows what I mean, but his attitude towards me is hot and cold, and I always feel that I can always be good to him like this, and then one day he will accept me. He never accepted me after that. After a long time, I gradually understood that maybe we will never be able to be together in this life, and I have been entangled like this, in fact, it is not good for everyone.

I do like him very much, but I know that sometimes things that are barely good are not very good, so I gave up after that, and now everyone is living the life they want to live, and I still think of him, but only remember.