Why can t I forget her? Who can enlighten me? 20

It's understandable that you can't help it! Loving someone is like that, always thinking of her! But if she doesn't want to accept it, then you have to let it go if you want her to be happy!

Stop torturing yourself! This will make a lot of people who care about you hurt and worry! It's all a chain reaction!

Learn to live your life to the fullest! You can think about her when you really think about her, but you have to shorten the time you think about her a little bit! I believe that slowly you will forget about her! You have to work hard!

Alas, why are feelings always so complicated! Ever heard a phrase? "If a girl marries a boy because she thinks he is handsome, it is lustful; It is aesthetic for a boy to marry a girl because she is beautiful. ”

No matter how badly a person loses, he has to maintain his last dignity, she refuses like this, why do you still think of her, people have to be kind to themselves no matter what. Try to accept new things, and the past can only become memories, although those memories are sad. But isn't it necessary for man to go through all these things in order to be considered complete?

Let it go, feelings can't be forced, if you really love someone, give her freedom Although I'm very sad I can't forget her If you don't care about a small thing all day long, your heart will break Just let time go slowly Two options 1Waiting for her to change her mind 2Wait for another person to appear in your world

Just now that I'm dead, new people are facing this world

Brother is a person from the past, only give you one word, no matter how beautiful it is, it can't stand forgetting, and no matter how sad it is, it can't withstand time. Buddy has also experienced it.,More than 1 year to now, I haven't had a girlfriend again.,It's not that no one likes it.,It's just that I'm tired.,But I still believe that the one who finally married me is my favorite.。

Work hard and gradually you will forget him, in fact, there are many good girls in the world, you just don't get along well with other girls, blindly pursue only one is not good for yourself, and it is not good for him. If a girl doesn't like it, don't be daunted, maybe she has someone she likes, but she's embarrassed to tell you.

In short: be a strong man and don't be looked down upon by others.

Do you still love him? A sincere love is hard-won! If you still love her deeply, I hope you can hold on to this love!!

You can't give happiness to others, so let it go and bless others.

There is no silver bullet, do something else when you want to, and let time solve it.

Eh......I'm feeling about ...... like you right now

You're going to die, so indefinite?

Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

You probably don't know that there are two points in time for a concentrated breakup in love when you were a student, one is the college entrance examination, and the other is college graduation, because there will be a lot of disagreements when everyone decides about their future life, so they can't go hand in hand all the time, and they still have to part ways in the end. After the college entrance examination, I went to college and went to different schools; After graduating from university, looking for a job or continuing to study is also a different way.

More importantly, after these two points in time, the essence of your life will change, and your values and aesthetic tendencies will change. Maybe you don't believe it when I say that now, but when you go to college, you will meet more boys, not necessarily how good the conditions are, but at that time your requirements for finding a boyfriend may be different from now, you look at this relationship very painfully now, but wait for three years, five years, ten years, and then look back, you will really feel nothing.

First love is always unforgettable, but first love is always sour. To your boyfriend, it's like his former girlfriend, he can't give it up, but he can't get it; For you, just like him, maybe you will never forget him for the rest of your life, but after a few years, you will find that you deserve better.

If you feel miserable, you can force yourself to study, and if you can't read a book, you can memorize words, memorize texts, read out sounds, memorize repeatedly, and force yourself to do one thing, and when it is a more urgent thing, it can make you forget another thing, even if it is only temporary, but you will not be so painful in this short period of time.

Give time to study and improve yourself, you can alleviate the pain, but also lay a good foundation for yourself, in the future to be admitted to a good university, meet more and better people, then you know, in fact, he is nothing at all, the world is very big, very exciting, you can meet more worthy and better people, like a princess to be cared for and loved, instead of being harsh and neglected.

If you can't forget, don't forget... Downplay it in your heart.

Sometimes things must take a turn for the better, not necessarily only to forget to solve, maybe to keep the memory, in the future life is a warning. It's an aftertaste, or it's a faint throbbing.

Memory is used to record your life, not to forget the pain is happiness.

Definitely not worth it.

The college entrance examination must not be affected.

I just went through the college entrance examination and knew it. Although I encountered something similar to you at the time. But you're better than me, and at least you have good memories. Ay.

In fact, since you know that he may destroy you, why not let it go? Don't just tell yourself I can't let him go.

You can put it down. You think, there are so many people in the university, are you still afraid that you won't meet them?

What is reluctant, reluctant.

As long as you fall in love next time, you will know that you can give up what you have before, the key is to see if you can let go.

He's going to have to upset you now.

Why do you bother to make yourself more sad?

Why don't you just leave in style, maybe he will turn back, maybe he won't.

So what. For someone who doesn't love you. Hurt yourself.

Do you think it's worth it?

It's an emotional thing, right? I can't forget him, but the past will eventually pass, people who live in the shadows and the past are cowardly people, it is a manifestation of escape, be yourself and start a new life, take the past as an experience, a period of growth and tempering, will make our hearts mature, just as accumulating experience, hurry up and get better. We work together. Come on.

Give it up! A better tomorrow or something will definitely be more exciting in the future.

The past can not be forgotten, but it must be let go.

Forget about him and her. I still like you.

Do you want to hear this?

Give it time, and you'll forget it after a long time.

Falling out of love is something that everyone has to experience, whether it is once or many times, it will always leave a deep impression. Some people fall out of love, cry a lot, and soon come out of the reality of falling out of love, while others still refuse to give up. Some people can't accept the reality and go insane.

We give him a saying: a desire to be sympathized.

In the early years, scientists told us that everyone will replace cells all over the body after seven years, and it will take seven years to replace the old with the new, which means that you and I will be new bodies after seven years, not to mention brain cells...I know you might say I can't wait that long, it's been three months and I still can't forget him. But friend, I'm not talking about time. It is human nature to forget, and it is impossible for us to go back in time.

A person has to go through a lot of ups and downs before he can understand the true meaning of life. Betrayal, disappointment, deception, stress....And the pain you are suffering now is twice as sweet in the future, and you can't even get over the most basic love, what will you talk about later? Life is a long way to go through, and there are so many things to go through...Why do you have to put the shackles of pain, sorrow, and sadness on yourself at such a young age?

We must know how to give up in the past, there are gains and losses, what we lose is that memory, and what we get is stronger.

And why do you have to be so sad? God has added a few more people when arranging your belonging as a foreshadowing for you to find true love in the future, your fate with him has arrived, and when it is time to end, you should thank him for bringing you happy memories.

So learn to be thankful and look for victory from adversity. Because pleasure and pain exist at the same time.

At the end of some words, I hope you can understand that it is a kind of fate for two people to be together, and it is also a kind of fate to be separated. So don't push yourself too hard, after all, once loved.

Finally, I wish you well:

Happiness, forever.

Like me, I know that she is getting farther and farther away from what I imagined, and it is becoming more and more impossible, but I just can't forget it.

If you really love, it's not like you can let it go, everyone understands the truth, but when it's your turn to have emotional problems, most of them don't know how to be good, but if you think she is really a woman who is worth giving up your career, you can try it, but you must know that it is difficult to find a job now, you have to think about the powerful relationship, and see if that person is worth it for you! Good luck!!!

It's not that you care about her, it's that you haven't met a better one.

It's a matter of human nature, and there's nothing to be ashamed of.

This is true of all people, no matter how high-sounding they are.

If a person is obsessed with the old love, it can only mean that the people around him are not as good as the previous people somewhere or somehow.

But I can't grasp the old person, and I can't refuse to be single, so I just made a compromise with reality.

Otherwise, it is impossible for a person to be nostalgic for the person around him who is better than the one in front of him.

It's like she's leaving you unceremoniously. Because at least the man she had a crush on at that time was definitely better than you.

You will be the same, when you meet a girl who is better than him in everything.

You won't miss her anymore.

So your friend is right, you should look for the tree in the forest.

She has lived in your heart for too long, but not long enough to make you feel that she is just a friend, let yourself relax, do what you like to do, such as sports, playing online games, traveling, getting together with friends, do things with your own ideas, don't restrain yourself, don't feel that you can't forget, everything will go naturally, and slowly one day, you will find that you no longer miss her.