What kind of person to be? What kind of person should one be?

To be a man, you must first be smart, but you can't be too smart, and more importantly, you are confused, smart, people who know everything are not as good as people who take everything to heart, have you ever heard of a sentence? If you say more, you will lose, so do more and say less!! You say you've been taken advantage of, so stay away and don't have deep friendships!

Don't tear your face either, just remember it forever, remember it with your heart!! Also, you said that you were jealous, and I asked you, if you are jealous of others, will someone else's be yours? No!!

So why be jealous, jealousy won't be yours either!! If there are any more questions, just ask, perhaps, I am not comprehensive enough.

I was young, 19 years old, wooden, simple, and introverted. Nervous, arrogant, used to be all kinds of **, TV flickered, it was difficult to accept dark things, and then people grew up, but one thing after another is too much, I am confused, paranoid, self-defeating, I will not go to high school in a few days, and I have been closed at home for more than half a year, I don't even have the right to watch **, I don't have the right to surf the Internet, my family lives in the 80s, I quarrel every day about trivial things, I have no friends, I don't have all kinds of warmth, and then I am often bullied at work, and they will make fun of me, I found myself like a fool sticking to my own morality, after the New Year, I thought about it seriously, and found that no matter how uncomfortable it was, I could always live, I like to read comics, I like those distinctive characters, I like **, Xu Le, who is tired of writing, is what I want to do, whether it's right or wrong, I can't care what others think, what others think, I'm really not interested in care, what bad things, disgusting things, I don't care anymore, I just want to be myself, that naïve, rough line me, just won't easily deny others. I'm happiest to be myself, of course I have to learn all kinds of things, I'm not afraid, I can spend a lot of time doing what I'm interested in, it's hard to be someone else's own fool, but it's not myself, until I'm insensitive, I can't do it, the former can do it, the latter can't do it, so I choose the former.

Anyway, those who are lonely, despise, and incomprehensible suffer a lot, and they have long been used to it.

Life? What is Life? Life is just a continuous perception.

If you want to explore the meaning of life, then you must need a spiritual teacher, Dzongsar Jamyang Khyentse Rinpoche, adhering to the best inheritance and education of Tibetan Buddhism, world-renowned, I recommend reading his books, "The World is a Theater", "Buddhist Insight and Cultivation", "Right Vision: Buddha's Enlightenment", I believe you will find what you want.

This question is not a question that can be explained in one or two words! If you want I can help you, how much is your QQ!

You can think differently and re-examine your own problems, preferably in anti-conceptual ways.

But you have to understand whether you are continuing the path you are taking now.

To be honest, I think the same thing as you, but I know that my current path will give me the ability to change for the better, and I will change it immediately, but if I can't change it now, then I will wait until I have the opportunity to change it.

I think this question of yours is very interesting, go to the heart, live how you feel happy, and don't care too much about other people's opinions! You have to live your own life, and everyone's way of doing things and personality is different! Be optimistic! I think about the good!

Are you a boy or a girl?

People should be useful people, not people who only talk about decency and do not benefit others.

People should be tolerant and generous, not people who are pressured and harsh on others.

People should be people who can be relied on, not irresponsible people.

Source: "Falling Peanuts" Xu Dishan.

Original: The father then said, "So be like peanuts, which are not pretty, but they are useful." ”

I said, "Well, people should be useful people, not people who only talk about decency and do no good to others." ”

The father said, "Yes." This is my hope for you. ”

We talked about late at night. I finished eating all the food made of peanuts, but my father's words were deeply imprinted on my heart.