The relationship changed dramatically during college and after employment

Love in the school era is a dream, a longing for all good things.

And after stepping into society, society teaches us reality. Our outlook on life has changed dramatically. This kind of change will lead to all the original illusions, and they dare not think about it. And some things that have nothing to do with love are holding us back. Money status.

You're good now, really. Don't think you're useless.

Although I am a woman, I still want to tell you that some women can't get used to it. The more you give her, the less content she becomes. Lust is terrible. Why are you so tired?

Do you live only for her? What about your parents, loved ones?

When you're struggling, you can't pamper your girlfriend and you're incompetent. Not being able to comfort your girlfriend when you're sad isn't qualified. Can't pull your girlfriend when you're in trouble, not worthy of you.

If you haven't gotten married, you're here, you're wrong. Will you be happy after marriage?

People change over time and with circumstances. Are you sure that she is still the one you loved?

Think about it carefully, whether you can still be together, true love is mutual trust, mutual tolerance, and mutual support. Can you do it

Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Talk to her about your feelings. Don't care what the outcome will be. Will a woman who values money too much be an ideal wife Will she be an ideal wife who can help you take care of your parents and take care of your lover when you are old and unable to move?

Don't do things that you regret.

She really loves you, it will always be yours, and she can't run away; If she can't withstand the baptism of society, she will look up to the sky and laugh, let it go, pay some emotional tuition, and learn some safe love knowledge to fight again.

Manly, stand up to the sky! Afford - I love you constantly, I love you forever; I can put it down - there is no grass at the end of the world, and the plants beckoned to me and smiled.

When I was a student, I was very innocent and full of water.

It's not the same when you go out into society.

to the reality of modern man.

Of course, there must be love in marriage.

But the so-called economic base determines the superstructure.

Bread is also to be had.

I think you'd better try hard.

If you want to keep this girl.

You just try to meet her needs.

Don't feel like it's vanity.

Who doesn't want their boyfriend or future husband to make a lot of money and be powerful.

It's been a long time. You will face everything with you as a wife.

Just because she says this doesn't mean she doesn't love you.

A monthly salary of 3,000 is considered incompetent by her, and it seems that she only thinks that white-collar workers with a monthly salary of more than 6,000 and more than 10,000 and successful business people have the ability. See women.

People are subject to change, and we have to face it with a normal heart.

Affection is longer than love.

From the campus to the society, I think the biggest feeling is the understanding of love. First of all, the love on campus is so pure, and after entering the society, I found that life is very realistic. Many parents are worried that their children will enter college and fall in love, which will affect their studies.

Then, a lifetime of hard work will be in vain, and some university teachers believe that falling in love in college may fall into the sweet time of the world of two people and ignore learning, resulting in a decline in learning efficiency in the end, and after entering the society, the gap with others will be very large.

There are too many factors to consider when falling in love after leaving society, considering the family background of both parties, and also considering where everyone will settle in the future, whether there is a possibility of marriage together, etc., these problems will follow one after another, and constantly affect your view of love.

The emotional starting point has been lowered, as long as all the conditions are suitable, it will be possible to become a good feeling is the premise of falling in love, and the threshold for falling in love has been lowered a lot, and it is actually very common to be in social love because you like it.

Everyone feels that both parties are suitable, can take care of each other in life, and look at each other to meet their eyes, and it is possible that two people will quickly shift from a love relationship to a husband and wife relationship.

After all, love in society is talked about for the purpose of marriage, and everyone will take a long-term view and be more envious and closer to real life. After all, marriage is not something that two people like to be together, but also the relationship between two families.