What do you think about the breakdown of families caused by modern middle aged people dancing square

From a moral point of view, I think this is a very shameful act. In fact, square dancing will not break up the family, is easy to dance is ballroom dancing, now square dancing is a very common thing, not only in the city, even in the countryside there are many people dancing, but the only difference is that rural people do not dance ballroom dance, because they are afraid of gossip from others, but the city is different, the city is open-minded, and the middle-aged and elderly men in the city are also open, so it is not surprising to dance ballroom dance.

However, the ballroom dancers in the square are not necessarily husband and wife, and some are actually temporary dance partners in the square, if the two parties have a strong sense of tacit understanding, then they will develop into long-term dance partnersTherefore, this will also warm up the relationship between the two parties, and over time, there will be feelings other than the partnerFor this kind of feeling, in fact, it is not visible, after all, both parties have their own families, once **, then both families are not at peace. Of course, if this happens, you can't blame either party for being wrong, after all, "flies don't bite seamless eggs", and if both parties can restrain their feelings, this situation will not occur.

Take our aunt in the supermarket downstairs as an example, her family was very harmonious, and the son was afraid that they would have no one to take care of them in the countryside, so they came to the city, but the old couple came and wanted to go back, thinking that the city was too idle, so the son spent money to open a small supermarket for them, which allowed the old couple to stay.

Later, after staying in the city for a long time, this aunt also began to go to square dancing, at first it was to go out at night, and then learned ballroom dancing and went out to dance in the morning, after a while there were rumors that the aunt and a dance partner got along, the uncle didn't believe it at first, so he secretly ran to see, after observing a few times, he felt that the situation was wrong, so he beat the male dance partner without saying a word, and then how to deal with it is unknown, but now this aunt is basically in the supermarket, and no longer dances.

In fact, from this point of view, it can't be said that one party is wrong, if both parties can restrain themselves and recognize the reality, there will be no such thing, after all, extramarital affairs are shamefulBesides, if you realize that you have changed emotionally, you should stop from the precipiceBesides, there is more than one square dance, you don't necessarily have to dance that one, so as not to break up your family, after all, the husband and wife are still the original match.

I think that no matter what you do, you should have a moderation, don't pursue temporary happiness and lose yourself, when the freshness passes, we still have to live a dull life, so I am not optimistic about such things.

Modern middle-aged people dance square dance and cause family breakdown, I think it is definitely not because of square dancing that leads to divorce, the husband and wife should have a conflict for a long time, square dance divorce is just a manifestation of the outbreak of contradictions!

Personally, I feel that this is a bit excessive, dancing is only dancing in free time, and it is definitely necessary to focus on the family, and you can't use dancing as an excuse to mess with the relationship, which leads to the breakdown of the family, which is unacceptable.

I don't think middle-aged people dancing square dance is the main reason for the breakdown of the family, the main reason is the disagreement.

Therefore, such a middle-aged family, whether it is square dancing or ballroom dancing, the relationship will break down sooner or later.

I don't think family breakdowns have much to do with square dancing, and my point is: there are many reasons why families break up. Loyalty to the family is related to a person's sense of responsibility and conduct.

It's not square dancing that causes the family to break up, it's that there is no way to communicate. Many middle-aged people dance square dances, and it does not affect their families, the key is how the dancers communicate with their families.

Square dancing is not a bad thing, exercising at the same time can also communicate with peers and reduce their own pressure, but if your spouse opposes square dancing by yourself, you still have to consider your spouse, and you can dance square dance appropriately.

This is not quite right, and some of it should be based on family harmony. You should communicate with your family in a timely manner. Avoid conflicts. Communicate in a timely manner if there is a problem.

Square dancing is for exercise, and the time it takes up is only a short period of time after dinner, and if the family breaks up, it is a long-standing grievance, and square dancing is not to blame.

I think this phenomenon is particularly bad. The original intention of square dancing is to exercise the body, and there is no need to break up the family for the sake of square dancing.

Some middle-aged people are actually barely maintaining their marriage for the sake of their children, perhaps because they happened to meet some people who gave them the courage to change their marriage.

I think square dancing is a hobby that should be family-based.

The first problem is noise.

Everyone knows that square dancing generally relies on a particularly large speaker to send out**, so that those uncles and aunts dance with **, but the problem of this big speaker is also revealed, because most people are dancing square dances in the community, which affects the residents of the community, and usually wants to take a nap, but it turns out that it is deafening outside**, who can sleep. Or some families have a baby, the baby just fell asleep ** sound sounded, began to cry, noisy family members are not safe. And some people go to square dance in the morning, and before they wake up in the morning, the ** sound outside starts, which makes people can't rest well.

Therefore, the noise problem is the biggest problem. However, some neighborhood committees persuade uncles and aunts to wear headphones and dance with **, so that there will be no noise.

The second problem is the venue, square dancing generally requires a large space to accommodate uncles and aunts to dance, but the general community does not have this kind of exclusive venue. So uncles and aunts can only occupy some basketball courts, football fields and other places, many teenagers like to play basketball, but the venue is gone. The two groups often clash because of the venue, which is also a kind of trouble, and I can only hope that the community can do something and establish a special activity area for the elderly, so that there will be no conflict because of the venue.

The third problem is the problem of time, some uncles and aunts go to square dance, start to dance in the morning, and then wait until the evening to come back, usually children work, parents can also cook a meal, but the result is obsessed with square dance, even do not cook, go home can only go home to eat leftovers and cold rice, that's all. Uncles and aunts go out early and return late, they are not at home every day, and they can't find anyone if they have something, which also arouses the complaints of many family members. The above are some of my personal views on this issue, if you have any other opinions, please add them in the comment area.

No matter what you do, there is a good side and a bad side to people, and these people don't dance and there are other ways to abandon their families, so it seems to me that it is these people's own problems, and it has nothing to do with the sport. These families are scattered because she has met people who are more suitable for her, and these people often have problems in their original families.

The reason for this may be that the other half is not satisfied with himself and goes to square dance, because he is afraid that his other half will meet someone better than him, and then he will not be himself. But the vast majority of people dance square dances, just for exercise and fitness, and it is also a good insistence to improve their temperament, and there are only a few people who dance square dances to break up their families.

I don't think it's worth breaking up my family for square dancing, and I still have to take care of my family.

For "square dancing", some people dance and the family "scatters", which is the result of personal re-selection.

In marriage and family, the husband and wife must at least have a certain consensus before they can come together to form a family.

If someone goes to square dance by themselves, and their partner doesn't like it, and because of this, they have a separation from their partner, and as the separation gets bigger and bigger, the husband and wife lose common ground and have no desire to live together.

And when dancing in the square, but meeting the right person, it is possible to choose to end the existing marriage, so, dancing, the family will be separated.

This is because after the old man retired to learn square dancing, he got acquainted with another old man of the opposite sex, and the two decided to divorce each other and marry each other, which led to the breakdown of the two families!

The elderly dance square dance, must have feelings for a long time, so that the two families have a breakdown, which is also a sad thing, it is better to do less of this kind of thing.

The old man has a second spring because of the square dance, and the two juniors don't deal with each other, and they don't want the two old people to be together, so there is a lot of trouble in the family.

Maybe in the process of the old man dancing the square dance, he had an extramarital affair, which caused family conflicts and had to divorce.

Because the old man had feelings with others in the process of learning square dancing, both families were hurt.