Do you want to continue to cling, is it useful to keep clinging? Or is it better to give up?

Updated on workplace 2024-05-18
20 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Friends, life is like this, I want to open a little, I believe there will be a better waiting for you, if you feel very wronged, you think about the more people who are worse than you! At least you still have parents who love you, friends, a job, health, and at least life, so you just lost someone who doesn't love you and treats you badly, right? So, from now on, you have to take good care of yourself and make yourself better, so that's right!

    Good luck :)

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's just that it's too strange for the time being, there is not much contact, naturally there is no topic, you just want to talk to her about ordinary things, talk about things she is also familiar with, but you find that there is nothing you know, you are either familiar with her, or you just start and yourself, take your time, you want to climb to the sky with one foot, what topic is not a problem, the problem is that you are all relieved to really interact with each other, then there is no topic that is not a topic!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Let it go, it's useless to think about it, wait stupidly, and he won't come back.

    You should think about the future for yourself.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Silly, he walked away, and he looked at his back and cried. Calm yourself down and talk to your friends.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Such a person is not worth your grief for him, leaving is the best outcome.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I'm just like you, but I'm just a boy. actually broke up for a trivial matter, and said that I delayed her for two years. Alas!!! 1

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's open it! Sometimes giving up is also a kind of beauty!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Forget about this ruthless man and let him know that you are doing better than him.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    He doesn't love you, you don't love him, he loves you, you love him, will you love me?

    When it's time to let go, let go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget what you should forget!

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Sometimes giving up is also a kind of beauty!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The old doesn't go, the new doesn't come!!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It's pretty much the same as me.

    It's a hard life. I think it's better to keep trying.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    If you really can't do it, just give up, not so humble, don't need to lower your status, she doesn't cherish you, naturally someone will cherish it, why humiliate yourself, don't adopt yourself and look at it

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    There is a degree to everything, persistence, and success is called persistence; If you fail, people will laugh at you for being stubborn. Success is good, but failure is not necessarily bad, and if we don't achieve our goals, at least we understand that this is not the way forward, which can also be seen as another form of success.

    It's hard to tell the difference between attachment and abandonment, but just like confessing to a loved one, there is at least half the chance of success when you say it, but if you give up, there is no possibility at all.

    Does attachment work? It must be useful, although it will scarred you, but people always grow up from injuries, and only in this way will we become better and stronger.

    But if you choose to give up, maybe you won't be hurt for the time being, but at the same time, you will choose to escape forever, so isn't it equivalent to suffering a lifetime of injuries that dare not face reality?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    1.It refers to the delusions and delusions that understand and cling to things in a one-sided and isolated way. Such as the Great Prajna Sutra, Volume 71:

    can truthfully all the laws and not be attached, so the name of the reinstatement is Mahasattva. Another example is the "Treatise on Bodhicitta Theory": "Ordinary people cling to fame and fortune to nourish their livelihood, so that they can live in peace."

    There are many vain "attachments" of sentient beings, mainly "self-grasping" and "dharma-grasping". To put it simply, "self-grasping" is the "me" that is always the same and unchanging, which gives rise to all kinds of "self-seeing".

    "Dharma-cling" is the "Dharma view" that stubbornly exists in the external realm, thus giving rise to false distinctions. Later, he also used "persistence" to refer to stubbornness and did not know how to change. Such as the second and second chapters of "Water Margin":

    I'm only afraid that Lei Heng will be persistent, and he won't be considerate, and if I see Brother Lafuzi, there will be no place to do round work. ”

    2.Today's "persistence" means unwavering. For example, he persistently pursues artistic innovation.

    3. If the direction of persistence is correct, it is unswerving, and if the direction is not correct, it is "stupid".

    4.Song: Persistence.

    5.Famous quotes.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Love, mainly depends on how you treat it, I think: plain love is true, when you fall in love with someone, don't care about the romance of love and many kinds of love methods, everyone has a different way of love, don't be dissatisfied, too greedy, will lose the gear of the reed to rare true love, some people say that love will not last long, I think it is wrong, love has a long time, because it is not done to protect true love, it will lead to love is short-lived, think that love will not last long!

    Love someone: trust each other, love someone to understand each other.

    Love someone: Be tolerant with a lot of heart.

    Love someone: Be open-minded.

    Love someone: Respect the other person's thoughts and opinions.

    Love someone: Support him or her behind his or her back, not hinder him/her.

    Love someone: When he (she) can't accompany you, don't complain, and say to him (her) with a smile that I'm good and happy.

    Love a line of personal divination: to hide the fragility and grievances in your heart, don't let him (her) know.

    Love someone:...Too much love.

    Maybe it's hard, can't it be done? Actually, it's not that difficult, and the most important point is:

    Love should be selfless and unrepentant, love should be clean and pure, without a trace of impurities, willing to do anything for him (her), when you fall in love, let him (her) be happy, as long as he (she) is happy, is the most important thing!!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    First of all, it is important to understand that liking and liking are different concepts! Secondly, it is necessary to understand:

    Love and love are also different feelings! Illusory affection and curiosity are something that everyone has! But many people misunderstand what it really means!

    This is what Liang Ku needs people to slowly experience with their hearts! Keeping a calm heart is the most important thing! Only by holding on to it will you live more peacefully!

    For this congratulations, true love is certainly worth it! The key is to see if you put it yourself! Good luck :)

    Thank you! ``

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There is no need to be attached to lovers, there is no absolute eternity, happiness and wait!

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you don't love someone, let go so that others have a chance to love her.

    If the person you love has given up on you, please let go of yourself, so that you can have the opportunity to love others Some things you like will not belong to you, and some things you are nostalgic are destined to give up, there are many kinds of love in life, but don't let love become a kind of harm.

    Some fate is destined to be lost, some fate will never end well, you don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love him well.

    The man cries because he really loves;

    The woman cries because she really gave up.

    If sincerity is a hurt, I choose to lie;

    If a lie is a disservice, I choose silence;

    If silence is a hurt, I choose to leave.

    If loss is suffering, are you afraid to pay.

    If confusion is bitter, you won't choose to end.

    If the pursuit is suffering, will you choose to be obsessed?

    If separation is suffering, who do you want to confide in, many things are seen clearly later, and many things are not bitter at all, but I can't find the way to come.

    There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said.

    There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up.

    There is a kind of love, which I know is torment, but I can't open it.

    There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward. But the heart has long been unable to be recovered. Some feelings are so direct and cruel.

    Because you love him, you leave him. I love this quote.

    Some love can't tolerate any twists and turns.

    It is better to leave with a warm heart than the pale truth, pure things die too quickly.

    It is a kind of happiness to be understood in feelings, and it is a kind of loneliness to wait to be understood!

    Because I have loved, I understand; Because of loss, it is easy to be satisfied;

    Because of nostalgia, so cherish.

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I think if you have experienced a very depressed emotion, then you must examine whether you are suitable for this relationship, and what kind of role you are in this relationship, if you really can't release yourself, I don't think there is any need to continue.