Big city or small town, how do you choose?

Depending on how ambitious you are, if you just want to live a stable life, it is better to be in a small town, and if you want to go to a big city and have a better life, then you can want to go to a big city.

In general, big cities are chosen because there are more job opportunities in big cities and transportation will be more convenient.

Individuals prefer smaller towns because life in small towns is more leisurely and the pace of life is comparatively slower.

Under normal circumstances, I will choose to stay in a small town, because I yearn for a calmer life, and I want to get away from the hustle and bustle of the city and find a slower-paced life.

I will choose to go to some big cities, because the development will be better, and there will be many opportunities and challenges for me to develop better.

I would choose to go to some small towns because the pace of small towns is very slow, not so fast, and I can keep up with the pace of the city.

I used to be best at literature, but I was engaged in teaching foreign languages. For example, I obviously like to live in a big city, but I suddenly feel so stressed that I will go to the town home.

Select "? Everyone should live in their place of residence.

With housing prices in first-tier cities rising again, the argument of fleeing from Beijing, Shanghai and Guangzhou has opened again.

There is no hope of buying a house in general, and in the face of the high housing prices and high living costs in first-tier cities, they all say that they should continue to work in Shanghai to fight for one.

In the future, should you go back to your hometown early to start a family? The friends gave answers enthusiastically, some supported returning to their hometowns, and some supported continuing to stay and struggle. In my opinion, you should think differently, and maybe there are more suitable options for you.

Best friend Xiao Wenzi, who has studied in first-tier cities for 6 years, because she likes the financial industry, joined a commercial bank in a third-tier city in the south as a management trainee after graduation. In the past few years, I have worked in three cities, and when I was doing marketing business, I often drove to the grassroots to conduct research, and it was common to work overtime. Every city to work.

In addition, backpacking with colleagues and travelers has become a local travel guide.

My girlfriend didn't like the high-pressure life under the fierce competition in the first-tier cities, and she didn't want to live a comfortable life in her hometown, so she finally chose the beautiful second-tier city of Hangzhou to settle down, and lived a petty bourgeoisie with a house, a car, poetry and a distant place.

Live. My parents are close to retirement age and can come to live in Hangzhou in the future.

My best friend has a lot of plans for her life, and she declares: try more in her limited life, experience the ethnic customs of different cities, and then choose the favorite place to love him. The big city is not necessarily the best choice for everyone, the hometown of a small place is more suitable for us who are used to seeing the big city than to stick to it, for the choice of the city that you want to live in, you should only choose the right one, not the big one.

Humanity is the pursuit of a better life and better self-realization for all people. For most people, it is the pursuit of higher income, more suitable for their own work, and better living conditions. Can you provide these? Big cities without a doubt.

Why do big cities have such capabilities? This is determined by the historical stage and the level of productive forces in today's human society, and from the perspective of industrialization and informatization, large cities are obviously more efficient and more competitive, and they can provide more relatively high-paying jobs, which is the embodiment of economic laws.

For example, a few years ago, I was researching in a village in Hubei, there was a family usually only the hostess and the elderly at home, the husband and children were working in other places to go to school, her husband was working in Wuhan, I asked why my husband didn't work in the county or nearby prefecture-level cities to take care of his family, she said that the income of working in Wuhan is much higher, and now the high-speed rail home is very convenient, it's as simple as that. There are also many graduates who can only find jobs in big cities, and there are no such opportunities in small cities, let alone self-realization. Of course, the benefits of big cities go far beyond that.

However, everyone has seen the disadvantages of big cities, such as traffic congestion, high housing prices, high competitive pressure, etc., but there are also many disadvantages of small cities - few employment opportunities, low income, relatively monotonous life, etc.

Some people say that small cities are cost-effective, with a monthly income of three or four thousand, although the money is not much, but the local consumption is also low, the work pressure is small, and the life is very comfortable; The monthly income of one or two hundred thousand yuan or more in big cities, but it is swallowed up by high housing prices and high consumption, but it is also necessary to buy a car of 200,000 yuan, which is a year's income for people in big cities, but it takes three or four years of income accumulation for people in small cities.

Of course, large cities will not expand indefinitely, small and medium-sized cities have their own advantages, and the countryside should be revitalized, and the filial piety labor force with different education levels and different regional backgrounds will comprehensively consider income, family, personal development, social interaction and other factors, vote with their feet, and make their own choices, this collective rationality will achieve a relative balance between urban and rural areas, between cities, and promote the coordinated development of large, medium, and small cities and small towns.

To sum up: both big cities and small cities have advantages and disadvantages, and the lesser of two evils is chosen. Don't go against the laws of the economy, let alone test human nature, everyone will make their own choices rationally.

Because of the epidemic, school has not started, and I have been at home for a long time. I never thought about whether I would stay in a big city or return to a small county town after graduation. I'm sure many people will have such doubts in their hearts, but in my opinion, no matter which choice you choose, as long as you don't regret it.

Recently, I followed a vlog blogger who I like very much, and after seeing her attitude towards life, I understand better: the quality of life actually depends on your mentality. Big cities have the advantages of big cities, many opportunities, good infrastructure, and relatively high living standards.

Relatively speaking, the living standard of small counties is average, the pace of work and life is relatively slow, and interpersonal relationships may not be so complicated, so they may be more "ordinary" days. However, if you can be closer to your parents and familiar with the people around you, the number of trial and error may be relatively less.

Later, when I went to university, I did go out and saw the outside world, but slowly my idea became that I wanted to go home and build my hometown into a world like the outside.

For me, working hard in the big city is the distant place of my youth, where it is a dream, where I first wanted to go. And the small city is where my original dream gradually became clear after such a journey.

In college, because of my major, I often stay up late to draw, which leads to poor health. Therefore, I gradually understood that "the body is the capital of the revolution", and I will consider my own ability more when making choices. I also thought about working hard in a big city, but looking at my body, I was only in my twenties, but my function was like seventy or eighty.

Think about it, forget it, do what you like, and don't have to squeeze into crowded places.

It's becoming more and more clear that how well you live depends on your attitude. No matter what your choice is, as long as you don't regret it. All the silence in times of adversity is to accumulate strength for the good times one day. Some people will also ask me, what about love when I go back to a small city?

I have seriously thought that when we are in our twenties, we should all work hard for the future, whether I choose to return to the grassroots to practice my original mission, or he chooses to go to graduate school to continue his personal studies, we will understand each other's choice. I hope that neither of us will give up our ideals for each other, and that we will have no regrets on the road to becoming a better version of ourselves. After all, we only have one life.

Maybe we'll meet again in a higher place in the future? Or can we go through the stage of chasing our dreams together? What will happen, who knows?

But what is clear is that if one of the two of us gives up their dreams for the sake of the other at this moment, it should be regretted for the rest of our lives.

But no matter what kind of choice you choose, now that you have decided, let's take the path you have chosen. I hope that all the tangled considerations can finally have a clear result. Live up to your youth, live up to yourself. Poetry and distance are not limited to the place, but to your heart.