What is it like to like to like a woman who is older than you?

To be honest, more than a month ago, I was still looking at various kinds of this question, and my heart was full of entanglements and doubts, and I really didn't expect that I would be here now. I'm afraid I'm immature myself, I'm afraid I'm an inexperienced person with low emotional intelligence, and basically don't expect her to be with me. It wasn't until late that night that she told me that she had liked me, and I suddenly realized how worried and inferior I was, I have always been a person who is not good at expressing my inner thoughts, but she seems to open the door of my heart like a key, and I am really happy.

The next night we walked together, talked a lot, exchanged ideas with each other, and also confessed to her, which she accepted. Since that day, I feel that my life has changed, I have changed a lot of my previous style, and I have grown a lot.

My current girlfriend is a year older than me, and when we first got together, she liked BB when she was fine, oh my god, how could I be with a guy younger than me, incredible. After being together for a long time, I didn't talk about it. As long as a person is mature enough, age is just a number.

The oldest girl I talked to was 29 years old (I was 21 years old). With older girls, it feels really more mature than peers, girls of the same age will only want you to take care of her, want you to spoil her, but she will not think like this, will treat you as a husband to take care of each other, and will also assume their own responsibilities and obligations. Assertive, decisive, and well versed in the subtle relationship between people and things, just like she decisively dumped me when she realized that the two of us had no results.

Extraordinarily decisive.

My girlfriend is five years older than me. It feels like people are already urging you to get married, and you haven't reached the age to talk about marriage. It was nice to get along though.

But it's hard to get through this. Except for cheerful parents. However, there are not many parents who are cheerful about this problem.

There is a feeling that a son is with his mother, but marrying an old woman is right for a man, and our lifespan is generally longer than that of a man. Wouldn't it be a beautiful thing to find an old woman to accompany you to your old age, and to care for you like an old mother?

Age is not a problem, my girlfriend Tsinghua, three years older than me, grew up together, the relationship between parents is better, just the day before yesterday, when I came out of the Tsinghua library, I nervously secretly held her hand, just like that, I have been sending her back to the dormitory.

7 is 28 years old and likes a woman who is 7 years older than himself and divorced with a 12-year-old child. In short, I am very tired and there are not many times when we are happy together. She's pretty good-looking, and I'm more than worthy of her, but she's always been at odds with other men older than him.

If those men are really good, forget it, the key conditions are not as good as me. I really wanted to marry her, but she would rather be with men who had families. I don't care about her past, but when I was in a relationship, I kept in touch with those people, and I could infer every time, but she didn't admit it.

Sometimes I think it's really not a good thing to be too smart, and it would be nice if I was stupid. I still can't forget her after 3 months of separation, I haven't contacted her for three months, and I feel like I'm going to collapse. I'm going to contact her once in a while, give myself another chance or give up completely.

The biggest feeling is to be cheap, there are a few excellent girls of the same age or younger than me who like me, but I just like her, repeatedly break through my bottom line, I can't stand the deception and perfunctory, but she keeps hurting me with this.

Disdain, the first time was to give me a year older junior high school sister, at that time in school sister and brother love is more rare, behind the back of many people will talk nonsense. After coming out of society, sibling love has become commonplace. I can't tell it's a sibling love at all at the age of three.

There's nothing special about falling in love with a girl older than you, it's just that she may be more mature, and I like that feeling of being taken care of.

I'm going to like girls who are older than me. Because it's really good to be together and it's comfortable to get along with.

Eight benefits of sibling love:

1) In terms of age, older women are more likely to hurt people. And men will also be troubled because of machismo, and they will take good care of women.

2) From the perspective of life, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions in the lives of two good individuals. And women are a little older and a little more mature in their thinking. Even if a man makes her angry, he won't be as stubborn as a little girl.

And men will also play the role of big men, to tolerate and love women.

3) In terms of lifespan, women usually live longer than men (on the street, it is common to watch grandma walking with grandpa, not grandpa with grandma supporting grandma). The two have been together for most of their lives, and no one can do without each other in their old age. Not as the saying goes:

Do you not seek to be born on the same day and month of the same year, but to die on the same day of the same month? The older the woman, the shorter the time the two will be separated.

4) In terms of appearance, women will pay great attention to maintenance after reaching 30, while men don't care. Even if you are a few years older, it is a good match to walk on the street.

5) Physiologically, female sexual development is earlier and lasts longer, while male development is stunted. At the age of 17 and 18 in women it is mature and does not decay until the age of 50 or 60, while in men it matures until the age of 18 and 19 and does not decay until the age of 40 or 50. Women who are 3 to 6 years older than men are the best mates.

6) In terms of dealings, women are generally dependent on men. It's different when women are older, they think they should take care of everything and can't rely on others. And men are born with the advantage of being open-minded, and with a sensible woman, everything will be handled better.

7) In terms of social interaction, when you are out with your friends. The most talked-about thing by men is their big wife. And women can talk about their grievances the most to vent their grievances are also their little husbands, I have never heard of a man saying how his daughter-in-law is a few years younger, nor has I heard a woman talking about her husband who is a few years older.