How to observe whether two people get along

It will be pleasant to be together. Although I can't say why, but with him, you feel very relaxed, very happy, don't pretend to be yourself, always feel that time flies, like to be with him, and always look forward to the opportunity to be with him, then you are suitable for each other.

When I went to the restaurant, I ordered food, and I didn't like most of the dishes ordered, and both people liked to eat.

It still takes a long time to get along with each other to feel whether the other party is what you want, or whether the other party's temper and living habits are acceptable to you.

Time is the best proof.

When we are together, we can have topics to talk about, have more than one hobby, and match the class status.

I think it's important to see and feel good when you first meet to make friends, and the following are three perspectives

The importance of first impressions: When we meet for the first time, we form a first impression based on how the other person looks, behaves, and how they talk. This impression can have a profound impact on the rest of the relationship.

If two people have good communication and interaction when they first meet, and feel comfortable and happy with each other, then they will have a more positive evaluation of each other and are more willing to further deepen their interactions.

Common topics and interests: When you first meet new people, common topics and interests are important bonds to build connections and deepen communication. When we find that we have similar hobbies, values, or common concerns with each other in some way, we will feel more compatible with each other and it will be easier to build deep friendships.

Understand and support each other: If you can understand and support each other when you meet for the first time, you will be more comfortable in the process of communication. Understanding each other means that we are able to tolerate each other's shortcomings and differences, and provide support and encouragement to each other.

When we encounter difficulties, friends who support each other can be lucky enough to give more help and comfort, and this emotional resonance will make the friendship stronger. There is a certain gap between my impression of my friend and my subsequent contact. Over time, I learn more about each other's characteristics, interests, and values.

This can lead to a gap between the first impression and the actual situation. My friends made a good impression on me when they first met, but as we got closer to each other, I found that their true personalities didn't match my first impression.

I think it can be seen from the following points that the two people are not suitable for the human tan, such as:

character, one day you will understand that life can be long or short. When two people are together, it is important to cooperate, it is also important to like, but more importantly, to get along well. Without first-hand experience, you can't imagine how long and difficult it is to live with a grumpy, moody person.

If two people want to get along, there is a very important key, and that is personality. Lively is character, dull is character, straightforwardness is character, and strength is character. The most suitable is complementary, in addition to being short-tempered.

It's like two people who talk a lot get together all day and tweet. Be cautious every day, for fear that this Buddha day accidentally angers the other party, and you will be out of breath sooner or later. Nazen personality is innate, and it is almost difficult to change it after tomorrow.

Therefore, the feeling of the different characters is really painful.

Spending money, some people may wonder what money can say. In fact, not because spending money is best a reflection of one's values. Do you want to?

If two people have just been together, the other party can't understand your consumption, and you can't understand the consumption of Changji Chenfang. Will you get married in the future? There is still a long way to go, how?

As a simple example, you are a diner, usually your biggest hobby is eating, so you always like to buy some delicious food, but the other party does not understand, scolds you for spending money indiscriminately, scolds you for being greedy and useless, and finally conflicts naturally occur. Also, you get a fitness card, he doesn't understand; If you buy a book, he won't understand. Even if you buy a dress, he will think it is too expensive.

So, by spending money, we can see a lot of things. If the other person can't understand your consumption, that's normal because of different living conditions, living habits, and even family circumstances.

Pursue. It is very important that two people have some common interests, but more important than that is whether they have a common pursuit. Because only when two people have the same goal can they agree and avoid many unnecessary contradictions and disagreements.

You have been afraid of poverty since you were a child, so you spend all your time on your career, while the other party is a person who is content with the status quo and has no desires. If that's the case, you won't even find a common language. Communication is the foundation of feelings.

If you lack communication for a long time or can't talk together for a long time, your feelings will fade away and be dispelled by reality. So I think from the above points can see whether two people are suitable or not, and the above is purely a personal opinion.

In marriage, the spiritual right is very important, and two people can live more easily.

Clause. First, the three views are very important.

A person's three views are directly linked to his spiritual guessing world, so if your spiritual world can't be right, then your three views may be difficult to be consistent, two people with different views live together, it is very tiring, and marriage is naturally useless after a long time.

Clause. 2. Life goals.

In marriage, the husband and wife will be able to achieve long-term harmony if they have the same life goals, but if the husband and wife are inconsistent in spirit and ideas, then it will directly affect the goals and structure of the marriage.

Therefore, many people do not care about the family background and family background when they get married, thinking that as long as they have feelings, they can overcome the habits brought by the original family of Huaiqiao, compared to these, the spiritual door is more important, because it will directly affect whether your married life is relaxed and spiritually happy, so if you want to have a happy marriage, you must not ignore the spiritual match.

Clause. 3. Common language.

The most direct manifestation of the spiritual level is whether there is a common language, you are talking to him about the world political situation, but he replies to you trivial, like a chicken and a duck talking, you can never find a topic to chat with, slowly you will be alienated, and the spiritual world will feel very lonely.

Match the love story in your heart with the love script in real life. And the feeling of the two yards being together is very important, and the feeling is happy, happy, and full of expectations.