He knows I don t believe him anymore, and what he says now means he wants to break up?

I can see that you are entangled in kissing you This man is not reliable at all Ah, according to you, your relationship is based on the money you lend him? So if you don't lend him money, what does he mean that you don't trust him? I'm a man, I think from my point of view, I won't ask a girl to borrow money unless I have to, a man must have his own sense of responsibility, especially when it comes to feelings, I believe that I can share my true thoughts with the people I really love, even if I have some difficulties, I won't get entangled in my girlfriend.

It's up to you whether you want to break up or not, but you must not lend him any more money.

From the point of view of a man who is a bystander, this man is not reliable and may even just take a fancy to your possessions. You have to think it through yourself. Feelings, in fact, rely on and support each other, if feelings make you into difficulties, it is better to get out early.

It's funny, at least a man who always borrows money from his own woman, and there are still borrowings that he doesn't pay back, I look down on them.

This kind of man is not worthy of this kind of dedication of a good woman like you, if you break up like this, it will always come, love is to pay both parties to bear the crystallization of love.

Entangled in the affairs of the two of you, outsiders can't say that in fact, you still have feelings for him, very deep feelings, right?

Get the money back and break up quickly. He's taking revenge on you.

Borrowing money from your boyfriend and girlfriend will cause a lot of conflicts.

Hurry up and break up with him, he doesn't really love you, he's using you to ask for your money, this kind of love is meaningless to stick to it, you have to find a man who loves you a little more, so that the love can last.

There are reasons to break up, so why bother!

Purely for the money.

Women should be kind to themselves, this matter depends on your own heart.

He's just for your money

It doesn't matter if he wants to break up or not, you just say break up, just don't contact him.

Without trust, there is always a quarrel, and there is no need for such feelings to continue.

Hurry up and divide it. This kind of person. What are you doing with him?

This person is unreliable, I suggest you think about it!

Maybe it's because of your money, or maybe it's because I don't love you enough.

Before writing the answer, I hope that the main question should be clear about the problem, and the contradictions should be analyzed from two directions

1. Who is the person who causes the most conflicts?

2. Who first proposed the act of breaking up (including but not limited to saying the word "break up").

What can be judged by these two points? It is who is the one who promotes the breakup relationship, that is, in layman's terms, who made the breakup.

According to the subject, since March this year, I have been losing my temper with my boyfriend because of some small things, and once I also proposed to break up, saying some very excessive things, all in order to deliberately anger him. 】

In my last anger, I deleted his WeChat, he didn't delete me at first, and his couple avatar didn't change, but one night I complained to my friend, and my friend asked me to ignore him anymore, and then I didn't expect my friend to delete his WeChat].

and other similar behaviors, in fact, it is obvious that your boyfriend is not the one who deleted your WeChat, and you are the one who pushed your relationship to break up. At this time, don't say anything like "I'm like this because he's cold" and so on.

Remember one sentence: the mode of communication determines the mode of getting along, and existence, that is, reasonable.

If you want to make amends, you must first face the mistakes you have made, and confess your problems, maybe there are still some opportunities.

I wish you happiness and good luck.

Posted on. 2018-03-26 The copyright belongs to the author.

Heartbreakers. So what do I do now?

Summary. Hello dear! The most important thing between two people is trust, you don't trust your boyfriend, maybe it's because you haven't trusted him yourself, so whenever something happens, your distrust of him arises spontaneously, if there is no trust between two people, it is difficult to come together.

My boyfriend said that if I really couldn't trust him, let me think clearly, the decision was up to me, and I asked him if he wanted to break up with me, and he said that I wanted to break up. Is it that he is filial piety and Xunqing doesn't love me, Chang's.

Hello dear! The most important thing between two people is trust, you don't trust your male Chang to call friends, it may be because you haven't trusted him yourself, so whenever something happens, your distrust of him arises spontaneously, if there is no trust between the two people, it is difficult to come together.

To love him, you have to trust him.

He said the same thing, what should I do now?

What you should do is to dispel your suspicions about him, bring it to the table if you have a problem, and don't have distrustful thoughts, it will be tiring after a long time.

If he continues like this, will he break up with me.

Yes. Even if you still love it, will you?

No man will tolerate distrust of himself all the time, even if he loves it.

Because if you don't trust him all the time, there is no point in you being together, and you will not be happy, on the contrary, it will make both of you tired.

I'm not fit to get married.

There is no suitable person, only whether you meet someone suitable for marriage.

If you say you're not fit to get married, it's that you haven't met someone you want to marry.

Is it that we are not suitable? In the past, those boyfriends were treated like this by me, and he still insisted on it.

So, don't do it, it's not easy to meet someone who really likes you, and it's even harder to be able to tolerate your little temper.

Sometimes I can't control myself and I'm afraid of losing him.

Kiss, you filial piety and skillfully change the way you get along with him, try to accept him and believe in him, you just don't love him enough, so there is no trust, if you love him as much as he loves you, there will be nothing.

You already cared about him, so you felt unwilling to turn around and leave, but there was nothing else you could do. In your relationship with him, you are passive, no matter how much you care about him, he will not take you seriously, so it is the best choice to be decisive and let go, no matter what you do, he will not have you in his eyes.

Although we have broken up, the things we have experienced together will not be forgotten, it is always a memory, and there is no need to stiffen the relationship when you break up, and not deleting the space does not prove that you can go back to the past! So let's take a look! Having a good memory in your heart proves that you have loved.

Don't just break up, there is no love between you and him. He can do whatever he wants without being constrained by you!

Although it is said that they broke up, but a lot of love is not to say that you can forget it, some people will not forget it for a lifetime, but it will not bother you, but it is okay to look at your dynamics, this kind of person is relatively old.

I guess it's easy to say when you break up, but it's not easy, and then in the past month, he may still really miss the past. Maybe I want to keep a memory. After all, you once loved each other.

You don't have to think about it so much, I think the important thing is your heart, do you want to keep him, if you still don't want to give up this relationship, you can try to make an effort, after all, the two have been dating for so long, and the relationship is not something that can be let go.

Break up if you don't love, don't hesitate, don't waste any more time.

After a month of breakup, you thought it was a game, and after a while it went back to before, no.

Breaking up is for the next better encounter, not for waiting for the other person to change their minds.

Looking at the space, you can know that even if you break up, he is still reluctant to you.

He may have you in his heart, but you have no choice but to do so.

In fact, breaking up is just a very common experience in intimate relationships.

A breakup is a choice for one party and an opportunity for the other.

A breakup can only mean that there are indeed some problems between the two of you that are difficult to solve, so the other party chooses to separate to solve the problem, or downplay the conflict.

A lot of people ask me"He said he didn't love me anymore"What to do? Am I running out of opportunities?

In fact, this is not the case, most of the unloving words when breaking up are just excuses for separation. Rest assured, love doesn't disappear so easily, it's just clouded by some negative emotions and unsolvable problems.

Therefore, the most critical core to go from breakup to reconciliation is to solve the problem and re-establish a sense of trust and positive emotional atmosphere. After all, you know each other, get used to each other, and already have a deep emotional foundation for each other, which is the advantage of your reunion. It is not difficult to take advantage of the advantages and solve the disadvantages at all.

01. Why did we break up?

First of all, we must be clear, why did the other party break up with us? The reason given by the other party for breaking up is real, or is it a perfunctory statement. Combining the reasons for breakups that I have encountered over the years, most of them can be attributed to the following:

1.Receiving too many negative emotions and accumulating disappointment.

A good intimate relationship is relatively balanced in terms of status and needs. In an inappropriate intimate relationship, there is often always one partner desperately trying to ask for emotional value from the other party, and once the claim fails, all the negative emotions will be vented on the other party.

We often say"Personality incompatibility"In fact, it is often caused by ineffective communication, or different cognitions. There are no absolutes in this world"Suitable"We grew up from different families, received different cultures, made different friends, and experienced different experiences. Each person is meaningful because they are unique.

But because of this, we will more or less have some problems in the run-in of intimate relationships.

But there are often many issues that can be argued, and there is no need to argue. Or rather, it could have been properly addressed in other ways. Therefore, if you break up because of emotional reasons, it is very simple, improve your emotional control ability, communication skills, make the other party feel comfortable, and let positive emotions circulate.

2.The value does not match (is not satisfied), and thinks that you still have to choose.

I have to admit that there are indeed many people who break up because they feel that they can have a better choice. This kind of egoism is actually a kind of human nature. It's like when you go to the fruit store to buy fruit, you have a big, red apple on your left hand and an ugly apple on your right.

At this point, I don't believe you wouldn't pick the better-looking apple.

It's the same with people, many people are separated because they don't know each other, but they are separated because they understand. At the end of the day, it's about feeling like you can be a better match, and feeling that you don't match his ideal partner.

So what to do? First, accept the fact because you don't accept it, and the fact is already there. Self-deception is not good for your feelings. Second, break his assumptions and correct his perceptions. If only when you knew that.

Every man is different, and every man has his own bottom line, even if he may care about women. Everyone has their own pride.

I don't know about men, and I don't know why the men you said didn't keep you, and I don't dare to speculate.

It's just that, I think, you yourself should know that man, you yourself will more or less understand how much he really is, you know it yourself, it's okay.

Men are not the same as women.

Women sometimes say to break up, maybe because they really want to break up, or maybe they just want the man to stay. But no matter what the reason, women always want the man to keep it to prove where they are in his heart, no matter what the end result is.

I don't know why you said to break up, if it's a real breakup, what's the point of him keeping it or not, it's actually meaningless for you to dwell on these. Because you've already brought it up, you're responsible for what you've done.

As for men, when they care, they will accompany women to be willful, and if they don't care, they will think that you are making trouble.

Sometimes, a man is more sure about some things, and when he is determined, he will be disappointed if he changes.

In a way, he was right.

But I don't know if it's really his pride or if it's just an excuse.

But, I think, men, are always more concerned about face. At some point, a woman should give her man some face.

Finally, if, love, work hard.

Don't love, let you all be free, don't dwell on this.

It's just a personal opinion, because I don't know anything about you.

Please forgive me for the abruptness.

It means that he doesn't love you anymore! Even if a real couple breaks up, they will actually remember each other's instant goodness!

1. Maybe he's thinking that you must have thought clearly about things before you spoke, even if you keep it, it's useless!

2. Maybe he doesn't have feelings for you anymore!

This....Respect the other party's choice, maybe I'm also entangled.

He doesn't care about you, he's trying to mess with you. If I really care about you, I won't even ask about anything.