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Learn to be grateful and honor your parents.
I'd like to start by telling you a little story. A large steamer with hundreds of people on board caught fire and sank at sea, many people lost their lives, and only more than ninety survived. Among the passengers, there was a swimming expert who swam back and forth more than a dozen times, and after rescuing twenty people in a row, he was crippled due to severe cramps in his feet due to overexertion and had to be in a wheelchair for life, and he kept screaming and asking himself:
Did I do my best! A few years later, on his birthday, someone asked him what the deepest memory of his life was, and he said sadly: I remember the most among the twenty people I rescued, not one of them came to thank me.
Gratitude is our attitude towards life. Gratitude is not limited to remembering the good in others, but extends to all aspects of life, and more, more. Usually, when we are happy, do we be ecstatic with joy?
When you are angry, do you get angry and thunder? When you mourn, will you be melancholy and very lost? Do you get carried away when you are happy?
How do you feel comfortable with joy, anger and sorrow? How do you keep your mind calm?
With a grateful heart, we should be happy, which is the reward for our kindness to life; Anger is the time to cultivate our patience; It is a harbinger that the heavens will descend on me, so I must first suffer my mind; Just be happy, it is the smile that life has returned to me. In this case, what will affect your peace of mind? Others treat themselves badly, and they are living in a way that implies that we have some defects in ourselves, so we must actively improve; Others are good to themselves, and life tells us that in order to make more people like themselves, we must make persistent efforts and go further.
Learn to be grateful, and don't hold grudges against people who don't treat you well. Writer Yu Jie once said: Hating a person hurts oneself far more than the other party.
Learn to be grateful, understand that Entu is not ungrateful, and the grace of a drop of water should be repaid by a spring, and a mountain will be returned to people by a piece of soil. Learn to be grateful, know that giving others a chance is to give yourself a chance, give people roses to leave a lingering fragrance, today pull someone to a hand, tomorrow in trouble will someone pull themselves. Life is a mirror, learn to be grateful, keep smiling at life, and life will return you with a smile.
So, let me conclude my talk again with a little story: There was a monk named Buddha Yin who was traveling with friends. When passing by the beach, he was slapped by his friend without talking to him, and Foyin angrily wrote on the beach: "I was beaten by such and such on a certain day in a certain year."
When walking through the primeval forest, the monk Foyin was in distress and was rescued by a friend, so he wrote on the rock, "I was rescued by such and such a day in such a year". When his friend asked him why he wrote in different places twice, Buddha Yin replied: The pain of the slap is like the words on the beach that the sea dilutes, and it disappears quickly; The grace of helping each other is engraved in the stone for a long time, and it will always be remembered.
Learn to live a life of gratitude, and we will be peaceful and peaceful.
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Night Talk with My Father My father and I got to know each other and became close to each other when I was in my sophomore year of high school. Once, I went to live with my father in our forest farm, and I slept with him and talked with candles and nights. My father told me how he was full of ideals in his youth, and when he went out to the mountains alone to open up the four hundred and seventy mountains, he said:
Right under the bed where we slept, many snakes crawled in and hibernate in winter, and when they got up in the middle of the night to urinate, they had to stand on their feet so as not to step on the snakes. My father told me, "The most important thing for young people is hard work and courage."
That night, I talked to my father for a long, long time before he fell asleep. When I woke up, I was very touched because I had never talked to my father alone for more than an hour, let alone slept together, since I was a child. In our parents' generation, because they did not receive much education, coupled with Chinese tradition and Japanese education, they became serious and not good at expressing feelings, which often made us have a generation gap and could not understand and get close to each other.
After thirty or forty years of hard work, this generation of parents is closer to their children, but because things are busier, they have less time. It's been more than 20 years since I was in high school, and I often miss the night talk with my father, but unfortunately my father has passed away, and I will never have that happiness again. We should always cherish the time we spend with our parents and children, because good times are fleeting!
Feeling: There is an old saying: the son wants to raise but the parent is not there.
Now we don't know how to cherish our parents when they are alive, and when our parents are gone, how to make up for these regrets. Maybe your parents are gone, and you have no regrets, and you think that everyone will have this level when you are old. However, when your child has embarked on the same path as you, neglecting you for work, you must be able to experience the loneliness of your parents at this time, not because you are old, but because you obviously have children, but he does not have you in his eyes, and there is no you in his life.
Even if you know that your child has a corner of your heart, but there is no way to be content. Spend more time with them, talk to them more, get to know them, and you will find that your parents are actually a dictionary with too many things that you can't reach, so worship them, and your parents will be very happy and happy!
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The landlord,It seems to be the second year of Licai junior high school.,This essay is so difficult to write.,Really,I'm also the second year of Licai junior high school.,North Campus.。
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Heart-to-heart communication with parents.
The timing is alternate, and this year's Double Ninth Festival is coming. At this time, the poet Wang Wei's scene of "knowing that the brothers ascending to the heights, and there is one less person in the dogwood" has become people's endless thoughts about their relatives. Even if they are really separated, that ardent concern and deep longing can still be transmitted to their relatives over a long distance.
Chung Yeung Festival is my father's birthday, and every year, no matter how far away I am from home, I will go home to accompany the second elder. Now that my life is better, I discussed with my parents to go to the hotel to celebrate the Chung Yeung Festival. The second elder readily agreed.
On the recommendation of a friend, our family walked into a hotel on Landmark Avenue. When we were led into the room by the waiter, everyone found that we had entered the Longevity Hall, and the old father was happy to boast: "Good name, good place." ”
During the banquet, the strong family affection was like the mellow fragrance overflowing from the wine glass, which had already permeated the osmanthus tree outside the window that was unwilling to be lonely. The hearty laughter of the elders turned into the most beautiful dish. When the delicious dishes were placed on the table, my mother said distressedly, "Too much, enough is enough." ”
I feel distressed to see the weather-beaten parents' faces turn from young to haggard, and their hair changes from black to white! Parents always leave the best and most precious to us, like candles that keep burning themselves and illuminating their children. And what about us?
Is there a little more space for parents? Maybe it's only when we need to dock that we think of them.
In fact, parents don't want much, a casual greeting or helping them cover the quilt before going to bed, etc., these can make them happy for a long time.
Wild soft-shelled turtle soup, longevity, please taste ......The sound of the waiter announcing the name of the dish interrupted my thoughts. The laughter continued, and the joyful atmosphere made my father's face red.
While picking vegetables for the children and grandchildren beside him, the father said: "This wild soft-shelled turtle is a good thing, you should eat more, you are tired from work, and nourish your body." "Mother was also busy serving soup to everyone.
This is my parents, for whom happiness is all for their children and grandchildren, and they have dedicated their lives in simplicity.
On the way back, the lights were already blooming, and the parents in front of them walked hand in hand, becoming a landscape. The warm and beautiful picture is fixed on the night of this festive season, and also in the eternal memory of children and grandchildren.
Don't regret it when you lose, the most difficult thing in the world to repay is the kindness of your parents, I hope we can all honor our parents with a heart of feedback, and filial piety to our parents with gratitude.
Years are chongyang, and now they are chongyang". The most beautiful is Chongyang, the beauty is in a thought, the beauty is in a scenery, the beauty is in a filial piety, and the beauty is in a poetry and wine feelings. This beauty is dyed and sublimated in the reunion with loved ones.
Learn to be grateful and honor your parents.
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