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I think such a person is a person who doesn't know how to cherish, and at the same time, such a person is also a person we don't deserve to cherish. Sometimes we can't fall in love for the sake of falling in love, but because of love, we choose to be together, so we must recognize the essence of falling in love.
If you meet such a person who neither loves you, but also does not want to lose you, does not cherish and does not let go of you, I think you should decisively give up such a person, because being with him is simply a waste of your time, a waste of your energy, and at the same time you will not be able to gain anything. Although everyone has the right to choose love, I think we should look at feelings correctly, so that we can find our own emotions.
And it is not easy to cultivate every emotion, no matter what, we should not pester others casually. Everyone has the right to choose love or not to choose love, we don't force others, since others don't like it, since others have chosen to give up, then we don't want to force others.
Of course, none of us want to meet such a person in our own relationship, because we all want that person to truly love us, but not all of us are like this. If we are unfortunate enough to meet such a person, then we must recognize the reality and make the right choice, without procrastinating, hesitating and not being able to judge, the more you are like this, the more the other party will not let go. This kind of emotion should be broken, this is the most correct choice, we should not blindly always be soft-hearted, unable to make up their minds, soft-hearted people are always bullied and suffered by others, so we must make up our minds to make decisions, do not put their time on a person who is not worth paying.
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This kind of person just treats others as spare tires, doesn't love you but is afraid of losing you, has no better object to replace, and doesn't know how to cherish and look down on you when he has you.
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Such a person is completely a selfish person, even if he doesn't like it, he won't let him have freedom, so when he encounters such a person, he must stay away, otherwise he can only be hurt.
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Such a person is a kind of person who has no opinions, he is not sure about what he thinks in his heart, he is always hesitant, and he will definitely live a very poor life with such a person.
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I think such people are particularly selfish, because most of them are to satisfy that little tsundere, and they don't love each other and pester, that is, under the guise of love, and then satisfy their selfishness.
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I think such a person is a garbage, a waste of people's feelings, a waste of people's time, just satisfy yourself, never care about what others think, to put it bluntly, you are a scumbag or a scumbag.
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, scum. It's too contrived. This kind of person is selfish, arrogant, only thinking about himself and not paying attention to the feelings of others.
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This type of person is generally very indecisive in real life and has a hard time making choices. If you have a relationship with this kind of person, you will feel very sad in life.
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Psychologically, even if I don't like it, I'm not willing to give up, and I haven't found a suitable home, so I don't want to let go for the time being.
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It may be that two people have developed some habits together, and they have become accustomed to their own existence in life, so they will not let go of themselves.
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may be because the other party is unwilling, so he is unwilling to let you go, and wants to continue with you, but in fact, he doesn't love you at all in his heart.
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This is because they are very selfish and don't love you and don't want you to be with anyone else, that's why they are like this.
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The reason why he did this before was because these people were very possessive, and they were very selfish and emotionally domineering.
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It's very likely that they don't want you to do well, and they are very possessive of you.
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He's already treated you like a dispensable.
He doesn't treat you coldly and hotly, he is the same to you, that is, dispensable.
Only you feel that he is hot and cold to you, only you suffer from gains and losses, it is your own psychology that is changing, he doesn't have it at all, he thinks you are just nervous.
It's that you can't do without him, and you don't dare to say that you will end contact with him, because in this unfair relationship, once you say it's over, it's really over.
He will never look for you again, never again.
It's still the sentence I said above, baby, it's always your own psychology that is changing, his heart has no waves, and he even thinks you have a nervous disorder!
It's not that he won't let you go, it's that you won't let go of yourself!
Why don't you try to cut off the contact, and you see if he will look for you?
Beloved, you will find that this man will be like a dead man, never to appear again! He let you go a long time ago!
So, again, it's you who doesn't let yourself go, not him who doesn't let you go!
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Such people are very selfish, they can't get it themselves, and they don't want you to be obtained by others, and they are psychologically abnormal.
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This is their strong desire for control, that is, their selfishness at work. Although he doesn't love you, he doesn't want others to get you. This is a psychological distortion and, to put it bluntly, a person with mental illness.
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The reason is very simple, it can only mean that the other party treats you as a spare tire, although he doesn't love you, but he doesn't want to let go of you easily, after all, he doesn't want to see you with others, if he sees you with others, he will be jealous, so he will treat you like this.
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It may be because he has not found a more suitable person, or it may be because if he lets you go, he will be very unwilling in his heart, so there will be such a situation.
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That kind of person is selfish, he doesn't have a good life, and he can't see that others are better off than you, that is, he only thinks about himself, and never thinks about others.
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What about people who neither cherish nor give up? Then we can make our own choice, and we will give up on our own.
I like a boy, the kind I like very much, and I can't help but take the initiative to contact him and buy him a lot of things, but he always ignores me, which makes me feel disheartened and feel humbled to the dust. ”
I want to say that he must not care about you. A person who doesn't cherish you and doesn't care what you give, don't worry about it anymore.
Your concern and care, what you get is just perfunctory, your blood, a red heart in exchange for only coldness and heartbreak, why bother yourself?
Some people are destined to be guests in our lives, not forever, just staying, when they decide to leave, don't let yourself be humble to keep, don't exhaust your good temper in them.
Because it's just futile to do so, it's hurting yourself, and it's not interesting to you.
Which person is sincere to you, which person really cares about you all the time, the eyes may only see the appearance, but the heart feels the most real.
Those who really care about you will not be willing to make you sad or neglect you, and those who don't care about you will not estimate your feelings, even if they are suddenly enthusiastic, it may be because they ask you.
Sometimes you have to calm yourself down, be sober, and don't try your best to be good to someone who doesn't deserve it, because your efforts are likely to be in vain.
I can't see a trace of return, it's not that the other party doesn't know to give back, but he is deliberately pretending to be stupid, enjoying your efforts, but being stingy with his true feelings.
You tried your best to be good to him, but there was never a trace of reciprocation, and you stupidly didn't admit that he did it on purpose, deliberately turning a blind eye.
Why bother to let yourself live so humble, live so inconspicuous in order to please someone, you are not humble, you deserve to be cherished.
Not only in love, making friends is the same in the end, making friends is not in quantity, but in quality, not more and truth-seeking, feelings lie in treating each other sincerely, not about how many years you have known each other.
True friendship, even if it is just to accompany you through a small intersection in life, is better than some people's long-term use of you and false foolery.
People's hearts will become fanatical because they are moved, and their feelings will be excited because they are moved.
Don't grieve yourself because of the other person's deception, and don't let yourself be deeply tormented by your separation. Learn to take the time to wait for a relationship that is really worth your waiting, and learn to make the most sincere friends yourself.
Let yourself be a confident person, laugh when you're happy, cry when you're unhappy, people who appreciate you will naturally see your goodness, and people who don't understand you don't have to pay attention.
No one will always follow anyone, living their current life is true, is the most important thing, those who are really willing to go with you, you can't get rid of it if you want to.
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I think it's probably better to give up at this point, and I think it's a more straightforward approach.
Since the other party doesn't give up, I think it may actually be because he hasn't thought about it in his heart, so I think you can choose to give up at this time, so you may face a lot of problems, and he doesn't cherish you, I think the heart may be without you or he doesn't like you at all, so I think at this time you can choose to give up first, which may be better.
In fact, I think it is better to be direct, because he doesn't cherish it, I think there may be some special reasons, or I don't have such thoughts in my heart, so I think in fact, I still have to have some other special thoughts in my heart, which may be better, and I think in fact, we still have to learn to give up, which may be better, because only by learning to give up something, we can better receive goods.
After all, the other party doesn't cherish you, and he doesn't give up, maybe he didn't expect some of these results, so I think I still have to take the initiative, because if you're together, in fact, the most tired is yourself, so I think you still have to learn to find some more reasonable ways.
Yes, no matter what, I think that for those who don't cherish you and don't give up, I think you can actually take the initiative to give up, so that the other party may realize some problems, and there are many benefits for your future development.
I think it is better to pay attention to it, only in this way can it be better developed, and everyone may face different problems, so no matter what, I think the most important thing is to find a model that you like better.
The most important thing is not to base other people's happiness on your own pain, so I think you still have to learn to find some more reasonable ways, only in this way can you make yourself more happy.
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If you're talking about love, you're a lot like me, and I'm like you. But if I were you, I wouldn't give up. Because it's a very happy thing to love someone who deserves your love, even if you can't get him, it doesn't matter.
In the beginning, I was just like you. But now I feel that I silently bless him and cherish every day with him, which is also a happy thing. I will not give up now, because "never give up on someone you love" is the spirit of love.
Besides, there are only a few people who deserve your love, and we should cherish them. Please, don't give up, just like me, I didn't give up, and in the end he knew I loved him the most and I was with him again. Come on.
I hope you're like me.
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For those who neither cherish nor give up, it is up to you to cut through the mess quickly. With such a person, you have no reason to continue to get along with him.
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What about people who neither cherish nor give up? You have to let go decisively, turn away from those who don't love you, and go to find your true love.
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Such a person seems to be quite hateful.
It should be ignored and should be kept away.
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I think that such a person, she is a very contradictory individual, for not cherishing, I don't think you should keep in touch with him for a long time.
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You can't give up on him because he tortures himself, he gives up on him, and lets him give up passively.
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If the other party doesn't give up, you can give up the other party.
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For people who neither cherish nor give up, it's good to be an ordinary friend and don't associate too much.
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Personally, I think that the reason why I can't let go of the person who doesn't cherish me is because I still have a very high evaluation of him in my heart.
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Personally, I think that if you can't let go of the person who doesn't cherish you, it actually means that you still love him very much. Because only when you still love each other will you remember and can't let go. But personal advice, for people who don't value you, there really is no need to reminisce.
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Because often such people, they will create a false impression that girls love each other very much, so that girls plunge into love, and it is difficult to get out when they are finally broken up.
That's being irresponsible to yourself and to others.
In fact, the main reason is that the man treats you as a spare tire, but he has not found the other half he likes for the time being, so even if he doesn't like you, he hasn't left.
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If you really love you, try to make his mother like you, otherwise it's an excuse, if you really can't get it back, give up, because you can't be nostalgic anymore, otherwise it's yourself who suffers, don't be deceived, not to mention that you shouldn't give up so easily if you love you. Or give him up, it's hard, I can understand, but sometimes there are things that can't be forced. And he made it clear to him for the last time.
The more you want to forget, it only means that you care, don't have too strong a heart, and live an ordinary life. Then be better.