Have a long talk with your parents, exchange your heart, and enter each other s spiritual world

Learn to be grateful and honor your parents.

I'd like to start by telling you a little story. A large steamer with hundreds of people on board caught fire and sank at sea, many people lost their lives, and only more than ninety survived. Among the passengers, there was a swimming expert who swam back and forth more than a dozen times, and after rescuing twenty people in a row, he was crippled due to severe cramps in his feet due to overexertion and had to be in a wheelchair for life, and he kept screaming and asking himself:

Did I do my best! A few years later, on his birthday, someone asked him what the deepest memory of his life was, and he said sadly: I remember the most among the twenty people I rescued, not one of them came to thank me.

Gratitude is our attitude towards life. Gratitude is not limited to remembering the good in others, but extends to all aspects of life, and more, more. Usually, when we are happy, do we be ecstatic with joy?

When you are angry, do you get angry and thunder? When you mourn, will you be melancholy and very lost? Do you get carried away when you are happy?

How do you feel comfortable with joy, anger and sorrow? How do you keep your mind calm?

With a grateful heart, we should be happy, which is the reward for our kindness to life; Anger is the time to cultivate our patience; It is a harbinger that the heavens will descend on me, so I must first suffer my mind; Just be happy, it is the smile that life has returned to me. In this case, what will affect your peace of mind? Others treat themselves badly, and they are living in a way that implies that we have some defects in ourselves, so we must actively improve; Others are good to themselves, and life tells us that in order to make more people like themselves, we must make persistent efforts and go further.

Learn to be grateful, and don't hold grudges against people who don't treat you well. Writer Yu Jie once said: Hating a person hurts oneself far more than the other party.

Learn to be grateful, understand that Entu is not ungrateful, and the grace of a drop of water should be repaid by a spring, and a mountain will be returned to people by a piece of soil. Learn to be grateful, know that giving others a chance is to give yourself a chance, give people roses to leave a lingering fragrance, today pull someone to a hand, tomorrow in trouble will someone pull themselves. Life is a mirror, learn to be grateful, keep smiling at life, and life will return you with a smile.

So, let me conclude my talk again with a little story: There was a monk named Buddha Yin who was traveling with friends. When passing by the beach, he was slapped by his friend without talking to him, and Foyin angrily wrote on the beach: "I was beaten by such and such on a certain day in a certain year."

When walking through the primeval forest, the monk Foyin was in distress and was rescued by a friend, so he wrote on the rock, "I was rescued by such and such a day in such a year". When his friend asked him why he wrote in different places twice, Buddha Yin replied: The pain of the slap is like the words on the beach that the sea dilutes, and it disappears quickly; The grace of helping each other is engraved in the stone for a long time, and it will always be remembered.

Learn to live a life of gratitude, and we will be peaceful and peaceful.

Night Talk with My Father My father and I got to know each other and became close to each other when I was in my sophomore year of high school. Once, I went to live with my father in our forest farm, and I slept with him and talked with candles and nights. My father told me how he was full of ideals in his youth, and when he went out to the mountains alone to open up the four hundred and seventy mountains, he said:

Right under the bed where we slept, many snakes crawled in and hibernate in winter, and when they got up in the middle of the night to urinate, they had to stand on their feet so as not to step on the snakes. My father told me, "The most important thing for young people is hard work and courage."

That night, I talked to my father for a long, long time before he fell asleep. When I woke up, I was very touched because I had never talked to my father alone for more than an hour, let alone slept together, since I was a child. In our parents' generation, because they did not receive much education, coupled with Chinese tradition and Japanese education, they became serious and not good at expressing feelings, which often made us have a generation gap and could not understand and get close to each other.

After thirty or forty years of hard work, this generation of parents is closer to their children, but because things are busier, they have less time. It's been more than 20 years since I was in high school, and I often miss the night talk with my father, but unfortunately my father has passed away, and I will never have that happiness again. We should always cherish the time we spend with our parents and children, because good times are fleeting!

Feeling: There is an old saying: the son wants to raise but the parent is not there.

Now we don't know how to cherish our parents when they are alive, and when our parents are gone, how to make up for these regrets. Maybe your parents are gone, and you have no regrets, and you think that everyone will have this level when you are old. However, when your child has embarked on the same path as you, neglecting you for work, you must be able to experience the loneliness of your parents at this time, not because you are old, but because you obviously have children, but he does not have you in his eyes, and there is no you in his life.

Even if you know that your child has a corner of your heart, but there is no way to be content. Spend more time with them, talk to them more, get to know them, and you will find that your parents are actually a dictionary with too many things that you can't reach, so worship them, and your parents will be very happy and happy!

The landlord,It seems to be the second year of Licai junior high school.,This essay is so difficult to write.,Really,I'm also the second year of Licai junior high school.,North Campus.。

As children, we clinged to our parents. Adore. After entering adolescence, we have our own minds, begin to act independently, longing to receive a "certificate of liberation" from our parents, longing for our parents to treat us like adults, and even challenging our parents' authority.

In the eyes of our parents, we are always children who do not grow up, have no life experience, do not have rich experience, but have our own ideas. Our parents blamed us for becoming more and more disobedient and ignorant, and missed the way we behaved when we were young. Their love for us has not changed, but they are more demanding, and they inevitably give us a few more words, and when we don't listen, we feel that our parents are nagging.

Wordy. As a result, there is a conflict between us and our parents.

Expect one’s son to be talented. Wishing for a daughter to become a trend is the common wish of parents all over the world. Our conflicts with our parents are often based on their high expectations of us.

Strict requirements. This kind of "strictness" that seems to us to be a bit demanding reflects the love of our parents for us. We want to understand.

Be considerate of your parents' hard work.

Conflict with parents, if you take a tough attitude, resist with a rough demeanor, or ignore them. It is wrong to be indifferent, or to move from a disagreement about something to a bad feeling towards the parents themselves, or even to deal with it in an extreme way, and it will cause great harm.

At home, there are conflicts and generation gaps between parents and us, which cannot be denied or ignored, but also cannot be exaggerated. The positive approach is to build bridges of communication from within. Communication is a two-way business.

As children, we must get close to our parents, get close to our parents, strive to cross the generation gap, and walk hand in hand with our parents.

Have a long talk with your parents (relatives and friends) to exchange your thoughts, try to get close to your parents (relatives and friends), listen to their stories, learn to understand them, and then write an essay on the subject.

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As I grew older, I gradually noticed that there seemed to be less and less communication between me and my parents, replaced by the soul-stirring sound of the door closing after eating. Why is this happening? I don't understand it myself.

Is this what the teacher usually says?"Generation gap"?

Every day, when my parents dragged themselves home exhausted, they fell on the sofa, lifted their legs, and closed to recuperate. In my memory, the scene of my childhood playing with my parents seems to have long been frozen, and it has become an object of nostalgia.

Today, I sat down face to face with my mother, ready to go"Heart-to-heart communication"。My mother said that I usually don't study hard enough, and I only know how to watch TV all day long, and I don't know the importance of reading. It made me very sad to listen to it.

Mom, I'm not what you say, I'm sensible now, I know how to learn, but you, but you don't give me any free space, I always think that I'm still the little child who hides under the eaves and sheds tears and never grows up!

Looking out the window at the birds flying with their wings, I wish I were one of them. A carefree life, when thirsty, drink the water of the rushing stream; When they are hungry, they eat the wild fruits of the mountains. Flying in the air, there is a beautiful blue sky and white clouds as a foil, and there are envious eyes underneath.

Mom, you always say that I don't have the motivation to study, and... Every time I hear such words, I will hide under the covers alone, secretly sad. Shed tears.

I'm trying, but you don't notice it; I'm worried, but I don't show it on my face, I just don't want you to worry about me.

Although I am still some way from the goal you have set, I will work hard and prove it to you with practical actions!

Child, you have this determination, I'm glad that we blamed you before, it turns out that you have been working hard, but I didn't pay attention! Ha ha... "

Open the window and breathe in the fresh air outside the window, and you will find that the original communication feels so good and wonderful! The flowers turned red, the grass turned green, and the birds on the branches were there"Chirp"Keep calling. Now, I have realized that communication will not disappear because of age, and the most important thing is to have a pure heart!

Communication is really more important than anything else. Through communication, you will find that the starry sky of growth is so gorgeous and colorful! It's really beautiful!

I suggest you take a look at an article by Lin Qingxuan - "Night Talk with Father".

For example, you don't usually understand the behavior of your parents, and through conversation, you find that they really care about you and love you.

It's all inspirational, and I won't sweat.

Do you think 10 points will be worth an essay???

Communicating with parents is an expression of filial piety in itself.

Know them, understand them, care for them.

A good article must come from your heart.