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It is also a problem of moral kidnapping, as long as it is normal interpersonal communication and normal contacts in society, men and women will encounter grievances and unfair things, but some people blindly feel that men should carry it themselves, women are qualified to say grievances, in fact, this is a great mental torture for men, so men also have the right to say grievances and dissatisfaction, general things men can laugh off, but when men really feel wronged and need to express it, I already feel very sad, if the people around me don't understand, this man will slowly despair, everyone needs a place and way to express their feelings, if the people around them don't understand, it will be very shocking.
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Men and women are definitely equal in terms of grievances, but in the traditional concept, men can't easily say grievances, and men can't put pressure on themselves everywhere, but it doesn't mean that men don't have grievances.
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Because women have already obtained a certain amount of equal rights, they are also human beings, women can be wronged, men can't be wronged, men can show their tops, women can't.
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Because girls lack a sense of security, and because they are misunderstood, they are sad to the extreme, so boys have to protect girls!
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To put it bluntly, because you are a man, reality is not something that can be represented by a grievance, who makes a boy a backer.
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Men can only bear their own grievances. Others don't understand, they only care about the result.
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In marriage, men and women should be equal, but often women will be more aggrieved in marriage, of course, this does not mean that men are not aggrieved, they must have their own hardships.
Maybe after getting married, a man may be faced with earning money to support his family, dealing with colleagues outside every day, and sometimes encountering some unpleasant things at work.
But after a woman gets married, she has to have children, take care of children, take on housework, educate children, and some women will also take care of the family and children while working, so in fact, I think many women are really like a spinning top, from the morning when they open their eyes, they are constantly turning, busy.
And many men after returning home from work, may be lying on the sofa, nothing will be messy, once someone complains, men will feel that the other party is not considerate of themselves, in fact, if women can choose, they must want to make money outside, but there is no way to give birth to a child will face the child to breastfeed, after feeding and have to face taking care of the child, if the conditions are better, then you can ask a nanny, but the child's education and other issues also need girls to worry about.
It may be a particularly easy thing to do housework in the eyes of many men, and it seems to be really easy all the time, but when you are faced with getting up very early in the morning from a smile every day, and then tidying up, washing clothes, cleaning, cooking, and coaxing the children until the children go to bed at night, it can be said that there is a little time for a woman after 10:00 in the evening.
And only mothers with children can realize that maybe they just spent a few hours cleaning up their home, and it won't take long for them to mess up with the children, of course, it is really hard for men to earn money outside, and women are also hard, so it is really necessary to understand each other, and the husband should also help his wife share some housework after returning home, after all, this family is for two people, not a nanny, and the child is also for two people, not a nominal father.
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I think women are the most wronged. Because women are often very sensitive in marriage, they often pay attention to feelings and are very emotional, but men are often very rational, and there are many women who give up their careers and take care of their children at home, which is very hard, so women are the most aggrieved.
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Marriage requires two people to maintain and operate together, both parties must continue to invest, and if the communication is not in place, both people will feel aggrieved.
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It is a woman's banquet, this is because after a woman marries a boy as a wife, she needs to be a good wife, she also needs to be a good daughter, she also needs to be a good mother, and she also needs to experience October pregnancy and childbirth.
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Looking for the right talent, both of them are not wronged, and they don't understand that people must suffer when they encounter unkind people, but when they meet kind people who don't understand are not kind, then the other party will eat the key dates and lose money and the men and women will slow down the demolition, and now the two of them are not together, and the woman will suffer, and the green man will lose a lot, in short, it is better to find a really good person to understand.
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The male digging has tears and does not judge the code lightly, but the mold is not to the sad place.
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Whether a man can cry or not depends on what the outside world says, but whether the man himself will be noisy. There is no can't, only whether it will be. You can choose to cry in front of your partner's parents and Fan Shen, or you can choose not to cry, carry it on your own, and cultivate your own strong inner filial piety.
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Because women are more delicate and diligent in doing things, men have to look towards women.
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<> "First, he gives you the feeling that you are not important, other people are important, customers are more important than you, friends are more important than you, family members are more important than you, and in his heart, it seems that you will always be at the end.
Second, what you said seemed to be nonsense, and he didn't take it to heart at all, but he kept it to heart because of someone else's Hanzhou dialect. It's very polite and polite to others, but there is no way to communicate with you.
Thirdly, whenever you encounter problems with each other, you start to avoid talking and not facing them at all. Hide if you can, and finally let you compromise.
Fourth, it seems that he is always on top and never thinks about you, and he seems to be right.
Fifth, you are to blame for everything.
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<> hello, if a boy often makes a girl feel wronged, then it means that the boy does not care about the girl so much, his feelings for this woman may not be deep, he may not like this girl very much, so he will let this girl be wronged all the time.
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Because men and women think differently most of the time, for example, when a woman goes home and confides in a man about the grievances she received in the workplace that day, the man will often understand that the woman needs help, and will immediately start to give the woman "ideas", telling her "what to do next time she encounters a similar problem", but women may not need a solution, they just need men to show more care and love for themselves, they don't really care about the problem of "what to do next time", I just hope that I can be cared for when I have grievances in my heart.
There is a book called "Men from Venus, Women from Mars", which means that the difference between men and women in this world is no less than that of species from two planets.
In addition, you should know that just as men do not understand women, most of the time it is difficult for women to understand men.
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It is normal for men to show their weak side in front of their lovers, otherwise men will not have the opportunity to show weakness and pressure. Crying in front of your girlfriend is also a trust in your girlfriend and will increase the weight of your feelings. As long as you have a sense of responsibility in life and society, and can shoulder the pressure, your weakness in front of your girlfriend is a foil to your strength, and you will have more masculine beauty. Blessing.
Employees who work in the company are inevitably "scolded" by their superiors. If a colleague blames you for the problem,1 you can find evidence and hand it to your boss, but it is not your doing, and it has nothing to do with you. 2. Ask your colleague in front of your boss why you keep pushing the problem on me, and see how your boss reacts. >>>More
If your wife feels this way, you have to be nice to her at this time. Tell her that you are always there for me and I will know what you are doing.
Proper consideration is due, but always giving too much consideration to the feelings of others is a kind of inferiority complex and weakness mentality. Thinking too much about this person's feelings will definitely neglect to consider the feelings of others, because you can't take into account everyone's feelings, and in the end you will live in a state of eternal squeezing, and anyone can ignore you.
The wife is his own person, and other women are outsiders, sometimes he does something, maybe you are uncomfortable, but because you are his wife, so when he comes home, he can explain to you well, and to other women, it is not so much that he is good to this woman and wrongs you, but that he is so polite to her because he treats that woman as an outsider The man who really feels sorry for his wife will never wronged his wife, and he does not want his wife to endure the suffering, and will bow his head first to coax his wife, I don't want the relationship between the two to have a gap because of these little things. On the one hand, such a man can be seen to be more generous, to see the big from the small, from these can be seen, in marriage, such a man is generally very good to his wife, will not make his wife angry, and otherwise the wife thinks too much! Marrying such a man is really a blessing from my previous life!
I always think that people's hearts are a place with a fixed volume, some people may not be able to pretend to have anything in their hearts, a little unpleasantness will be manifested on their faces, and they will be comfortable when vented, but some people are like a huge pocket, bottomless, he can hold a lot of things, this varies from person to person, some women are this kind of people, they have been wronged. >>>More