It s so angry, he didn t bring anything when he asked his roommate to bring something

I... First of all, although he is your roommate, it is your business that you need things, and your roommate is not obligated to help you bring things!

Secondly, you asked someone to relay it, did the person who relayed it reply to you? Did he promise to bring something for you?

Again, maybe people forgot about it...

Again, you don't want to take him to reject him next time, there's no need to be angry, it's bad for you, isn't it?

Finally, about how to deal with it, you can ask him, did he not want to bring it in the first place? If so, ask him to reply to you in time next time, so as not to delay your affairs. If not, you can ask him to invite you to a cup of "milk tea" or something as a "compensation" meaning, or you can see if what he said is true, how he behaves, etc.; Then you find a chance to go back again, and you will get acquainted with each other for a long time.

In the end, do your own thing, and others help you to show that person is a good person; If others don't help you, it means that they are normal people. Be open-minded.

Your personality is more explosive, but I still have to tell you something that doesn't go well, if people who don't have the right values in life are often willing to persuade you, your personality will become more and more individual.

Bringing it to you is a sentiment, helping you, not bringing it to you, it is a duty, depending on how you understand it.

...How normal it is to forget to bring it, what kind of anger do people owe you?

It's not my own instructions to others.,It's turned.,It's normal to have errors in it.,Understand more.,It is estimated that people didn't mean it.。

In the future, if you want someone to help, it is best to say it directly, so as to make it clear whether others are willing to help or not.

He may have forgotten to have a generous heart.

If this happens often, forget it next time! Some people feel really unworthy, and he won't react if you do 99 things for him, but you will hate you if you don't do that last thing for her.

I owe you ??? Did you give the money??? Didn't shut up and roll.

As a sophomore, I'm a lost elementary school sister, let's talk about this question.

1.After bringing the meal this time, if you don't give the money, you won't help bring the food next time. There is no need to make the relationship between two people rigid because of this matter in college, they are both adults, with good intentions, there is no need to worry about roommates, and the pattern must be opened to grow a lot in interpersonal relationships in college.

Endorse and play with roommates.

2.You can prompt your roommate and ask him to give you the money. Generally, the roommates in the university have grown up, and there is no deliberate non-payment to you, it is likely that they forgot to give it to you, so if you ask for it generously, she (he) will also return it to you generously, the relationship between the two people is still very good, get along happily, and you can ask your roommate to help you bring food next time.

Take a picture together. 3.In the university dormitory, you can wait for him to give the money first, and then go to help buy food. In this way, there will be no roommate who forgets to give money, or does not want to give, and the two people do not have to be suspicious of each other, and the relationship is still the same.

Let's walk through the playground together.

This kind of problem is actually very common in college life, after all, roommates are people who live together every day, and they don't see each other when they look up. Therefore, the quality of your relationship with your roommates not only affects the harmony of the dormitory, but also determines whether you can spend the four years of university life smoothly. As a junior, I want to tell you that this matter is not difficult, but it is very important and should not be underestimated!

In daily campus life, more or less you will encounter the situation of roommates helping each other, maybe it is to help bring a meal, get water, borrow a card, etc., people in the social environment will inevitably trouble others, but this kind of help is mutual rather than unilateral pay, your college roommate always asks you to help him bring food, not only do not thank you but also give money, this has become a matter of money and effort, unilateral labor, obviously this is unreasonable.

First, let's take a look at problem attribution:

1. External factors: My roommate has had a lot of things to do recently, and I accidentally forgot to give money.

Maybe your roommate didn't deliberately don't give money, but because of external environmental factors or personal personality influences, he was negligent in this matter and forgot to give money. This situation is actually very easy to solve, you can send him a message directly to explain how much the meal is, if it is not intentional, then he must be very conscious to know what you mean, and give you the money for the meal, so that it does not affect the relationship between you, and easily resolve the misunderstanding.

External cause 2: The roommate was very short of money during this time and couldn't come up with the money.

Maybe it's because the roommate is shy in his pocket during this time, and he really can't afford to eat. But in fact, this is not a valid reason for you to run errands in vain and not give the money back, I think you can communicate privately with your roommate, within your financial means, lend him some money for meals according to the situation, and clarify the date of repayment, and discuss that if you regret it, you will inform the teacher or parents in time to deal with it.

2. Internal factors: personal quality problems of roommates.

If you still pretend not to know or respond after you mention the money for the meal, then you must seek help from the authority in time, such as counselors, teachers, etc., pay attention to the fact that you have not done anything wrong in this matter, and he should pay back the money, so don't feel embarrassed or even guilty. After all, it is he who should be ashamed.

To sum up, we should pay attention to the ways and means of dealing with roommate relationships, we must communicate in a timely manner, find out each other's thoughts or situations, and be able to solve them privately It is best to do it privately. When it comes to the issue of money, because you are now a student, most of your income is ** to your parents, so you must cherish every money more, and you must not retreat or be shy in the face of such things, and you must be brave enough to ask for help and inform your parents and teachers. Finally, in the face of a classmate with bad conduct, you must draw a clear line in time, and there is no need to maintain a good relationship with him on the surface.

Living in a dormitory, it is common to have some friction with roommates, and I have also experienced the fact that my roommates brought food but the roommates did not give money.

1. In order to prevent this kind of thing from happening, we can directly send WeChat to tell our roommates when ordering food in the canteen, and generally people who see the news will transfer the money as soon as possible. Because if we bring the meal back to the dormitory and then tell the roommate verbally, the roommate just doesn't have a mobile phone now, and may forget, after all, some dry rice people will eat first when they see the meal coming, and they won't take the mobile phone.

2. In fact, if the roommate does not give money, our handling method will be divided into situations.

The first is that roommates have a bad memory and often forget things. Then we will remind him more, provided that the roommate is really easy to forget things, for this kind of person, it is enough to remind him more.

The second is that you want to pay it back, but you can't pay it all back at once. Maybe the roommate just knows that he owes money, and he wants to pay it back but can't afford to pay it all at once. In this way, we can wait until the beginning of next month to ask him, remember that we can't forget, we must write it down in the memo notebook.

Look at the personality of the roommate, if the roommate has a more straightforward personality, explain the situation directly to the roommate, and if the roommate is not a more straightforward personality, just knock on the side to hint.

The third is knowing that you owe money, and you have money, but you just don't pay it back. My advice to this kind of roommate with bad behavior is to stay away and refuse to bring him food after he owes money and does not pay it back to you. Don't say that you think everyone is a roommate and repeatedly tolerate it, this kind of person is picking soft persimmons.

And tell your other roommates to be wary of this person.

The most important thing is to remember that there is no shame in asking others for the money they owe!! Shame on those who owe money and don't pay it back!! For us college students, most of us have no ability to make money, so we have to protect our money.

For this kind of person, I can only say that he is really thick-skinned. I don't know what kind of psychology they have to eat the food brought by others, and they don't give money!

My personal family is not in the very affluent category. When I was in college, I had a roommate, the family conditions were not bad, the two of us were born in the same year, the same month, and the same day, especially fateful, and the personalities were also very consistent, so the two of them had the best fun in the dormitory, but my friend had a problem, that is, I didn't take it seriously before I loved to be cheap, and I thought it was nothing, but then he became more and more excessive, and it became more and more obvious: at the beginning, he went to the canteen to eat together, and he always excused himself by saying that he didn't want to change his whole money, so he always said to lend me a piece of 2 yuan and 3 yuan. He never said that he wanted to return it, just said, use you 2 pieces 3 pieces, next time you use mine.

Because it's a dormitory, I don't want to care about it so much, so I don't take it seriously, thinking that two or three dollars is okay once or twice, and he should pay attention to it next time, but I was wrong, not only did he not know, he was wrong to do it himself, but he also intensified it. <>

Once I went to the cafeteria to eat, he didn't care about the code class is lazy, often slept until 12 o'clock and didn't get up, and told me that you can help me bring a meal, in fact, I also helped him bring food before, he didn't give money, I didn't say anything, this time, he said again, let me help him bring a meal, and then said, come back and give me money. I thought about it and finally said to give me money, and then I thought that he should give me the money from the previous time, and when he bought me food and brought it to him, he didn't mention the money to me at all, but got up and finished eating, threw it back and went back to sleep, and he didn't mention anything about giving me money in the whole process. My whole body was very angry, and I thought, how can people be like this?

Other people's money is also earned by their parents, and you are too much to do. Later, I couldn't bear it anymore, I didn't buy anything for him again, I didn't lend him any more money he borrowed from me, and I even told him directly and clearly that I owed me money, please pay me back.

For this kind of cheeky person, you can knock on the side and say, for example, you said, who borrowed my money, I originally thought he would not pay it back, but he returned it to me today, see if he clearly understands the meaning of your connotation, if it still doesn't work, in fact, you don't have to ask him directly for his face, tell him, I don't have any money, and the money I eat is also earned by my parents, since you asked me to help you bring food, you should give me the food money, you don't need to be embarrassed, after all, he owes you, It should be returned.

The roommate brought food, but the roommate didn't give money and asked for it directly.

School dormitory precautions:It can be difficult for the Office of Faculty Affairs to assign a roommate to a new classmate. According to some statistics, a person's academic performance, reading style, personal behavior and personality in a dormitory can have a big impact on their roommate's studies and life.

Living with roommates enjoys less privacy than living in a single room, which can be a lot of psychological stress for some people.

In university dormitories, roommates are usually of the same gender, and some university dormitories are co-sexed, while others are co-sexed. Some institutions prohibit the opposite sex from being brought back to the dormitory at any time, while others allow the opposite sex to enter the dormitory during visitor hours, but are not allowed to stay overnight.

3 It's all very simple, just ask directly, many people will be embarrassed to ask, I don't understand, what is embarrassing to ask. You brought him something and asked him to give money, right, if your friend thinks you're bad or something, then it's better that you should see a person clearly.

If he even thinks it's your fault, then what's the point, as the saying goes, the brother also has to settle the account, let alone the roommate who just asked me to bring food.

Don't be embarrassed to ask, it's yourself who suffers like this, in fact, it's nothing to suffer a loss. But they are all students, whose money is given by their parents, how can they squander it like this.

It's also possible that the roommate doesn't want to give, but forgets, as long as you remind it. People will give it to you, you don't ask, and others don't think about it for a while. In this way, it is easy to cause misunderstandings, and you think that people are deliberately not giving, and your feelings will be hurt.

But if you say that he doesn't give it, then you can only admit it, just eat a trench and grow wise, and don't help him bring it in the future, there is no loss, and it is worth it to see a person clearly in one meal.

My friend's friend is that every time she goes out to eat, my friend won't give it to my friend, and he still doesn't give it to him. After a few times, the feelings are getting weaker and weaker, and now there are not many friends with this mentality, and it is not important if there is none.

His friend really doesn't know how to be a person, and my friend lent him a few hundred and he didn't pay it back, and in the end, it was gone.

So the roommate is bold if he doesn't give it, there is nothing, and after asking for the first time, the roommate will be more conscious, and he will give it to you very consciously. I would ask my friends every time, and then I would give it to myself every time, and I didn't want to ask again at all. The money between friends must be calculated clearly, otherwise the relationship will not last long.

I know that.