You ask your roommate to bring you a boxed lunch, but he doesn t bring it, what should I do?

What's the big deal?

I used to ask why I didn't bring it directly in the dormitory.

If you can't do it, you will fight until he takes it!

If you can't beat it, you can sweep it off with a table!

That's what we do!

He didn't look at whether he had any other reason.

Besides, you shouldn't always bother others to do things for you, once or twice is okay, too much is not good.

If he deliberately doesn't bring it to you, you won't help him the next time he needs your help.

Is there a mistake? There are three people in my dormitory who play with the computer, and I often help them bring food, supper, etc., and sometimes I ask them if they want to bring food. Isn't it just bringing food?

If it doesn't work sometimes, of course I'll say "go by yourself". It's all classmates.,Usually bring it when you can.,If they want to play, they can play.,If you don't bring it, you won't bring it.。 Helping doesn't mean that you have to help me back next time and pay me back; Not helping you is not saying that there is a big reason.

If I don't help you, you can't bring it yourself.

Why do you want people to bring it to you, besides, if people don't bring you a box lunch, you will ignore them...

You can't look at the problem from your own point of view, but from the other person's point of view.

People don't bring it for you, they have their own opinions.

Friends, we have a lot of people like you. That is, when someone wants to go to dinner, you ask him to bring it, or when someone asks you if you want to go to dinner, you don't go and ask him to bring it, and you play something else in the dormitory. People like you are very selfish, I have a few classmates like you, every time someone wants to go to dinner, I carefully avoid them, because why don't you go and ask someone to bring it to you every time, you think it's so easy to bring food, don't have time to wait?

So why don't you bring it a few times for someone else? People like you are actually very ostracized in college, so be careful.

When he rejects you, don't choose to be silent or sulk, say a few more words, ask him why he can't bring it, or jokingly use force to solve it. The more you communicate, the more you understand.

If it's your fault, always ask your roommate to bring something, and you have to have the courage to admit your mistakes. Only those who dare to admit their mistakes are the bravest.

Thank you still to say, whether he helps you or not, you can't change your attitude towards him, and you have to be very polite. The relationship has improved a little and it should be okay next time.

If you don't ask for it, you won't be in trouble, and if you care that he didn't bring it to you, just ask why, and be straightforward.

It's very simple, when he asks you to bring food, you don't bring it to him, and take your share back to the dormitory to eat.

Give money, what's not to do.

You can just bring it yourself.

Be generous with the boy and infect him with your behavior.

Isn't it just a boxed lunch?

This depends on the situation, whether the other party is a person who likes to take advantage.

If it is a very good friend, it is okay to invite your friend to a few meals, it depends on the attitude of the other person, she knows that it is very important for you to have a friendship with her. Affection is maintained by mutual fingering and care.

If the other party feels that it should be taken for granted, and there is no sense of courtesy, and he thinks that you should buy food for him, or the roommate is very greedy for a small bargain, deliberately delays and does not pay back, and pretends to forget about it, in this case, you have to ask him to come over, even if it is a roommate, since he is not sincere to you, the account that should be settled still has to be calculated.

A word to my roommates:

1. The unfathomed have affection, the ruthless have money, the unwealthy have strength, and the powerless have heart, and I, the friend who only has a "heart", sincerely wish you good food, good drink, and good health!

2. No amount of flowery language can correct my mistakes, and no matter how sincere the source book apologizes, it can't express my guilt. I only hope that you will forgive me for the sake of years of friendship.

3. Just now my roommate kicked the quilt, afraid that he would catch a cold, so I broke his leg wittily.

4. Only uncertain things will make people suffer from gains and losses. Hmmm......So is it because of this that the roommate is drunk and still obsessed with a person?

5. I said in the dormitory that I was a descendant of the sun.

Do you want to see it, it's Song Joong Ki I talked about last time.

Super handsome, roommate said it was the fire brigade.

Ah, I, Zhongji Yuiho, am a soldier brother who went up to the sword mountain and went down to the sea of fire to fight.

High emotional intelligenceThe rejection of specific you have to do these three things:

First: timely.

If you choose to refuse, you must say that you don't want his gift at the first time, don't procrastinate for a long time and don't reply to the other party, you must know that if you refuse early, maybe people will find someone else to solve it in the next minute. Refuse in time and don't waste time on both sides.

Second: Clarity.

Since you choose to refuse, don't be vague and make your position clear. If you are not clear, it is easy to leave room for negotiation, and if you are not clear, there is still hope for it, and if you don't plan to ask for people's things, you can't leave hope for others. Rejection isn't really hurting, ambiguous rejection is.

Third: Simplicity.

When he comes to you to give you a gift, he may have several plans in mind, so giving him any of them is what he expected. If you refuse, no matter how much you explain, you still refuse, and if you explain too much, others will think that you are not sincere, you deliberately refuse, and you have too many routines. And a lot of times, rejection doesn't need a reason, because a lot of rejection is not that you can't do it, but that you just don't want to do it.

So why bother to explain it yourself?

NEED KNOW;

Everyone must learn to help others as well as reject them. At the same time, not only is it an ability to learn to reject others, but it is also an ability to understand the rejection of others to you.

A good old man who never knows how to reject others may never hurt others, but he is hurting someone who is closer to him, that is, themselves. To outsiders, they are warm-hearted, helpful, and trustworthy, but the real pain is probably only known to them.

jokingly said to his roommate, "The takeaway brother has five yuan for running errands for delivering a meal, I bring you food every day, should you also give some compensation." I don't ask for much, just three dollars. ”

When you are going to eat your roommate asks you to help bring food, you can ask her what she wants to eat first, if she wants to eat something from a canteen, then you tell her that what you want to eat is in the third canteen, not by the way, at this time you are generally embarrassed to trouble her to take a detour, or you invite her to go to the canteen with her, tell her that freshly made food is more delicious than packing, when you are outside and ready to go back to the dormitory, your roommate asks you to help bring food, then you will reply to the message later and go back to the dormitory later, After a lot of times, anyone who knows a little bit knows that you are politely rejecting her.

If your roommate often asks you to bring him food, will you choose to refuse?

It should be refused outright and let them buy their own food. If you always help them bring food at first, they will think it is reasonable for you to help them bring food. Then, if you don't want to help them at a later stage, say no to them, they will be upset and may speak ill of you behind your back, so you should simply refuse their request to let you help bring food, usually minimizing the time spent in the bedroom.

You can start by asking her what she wants to eat.

If she wants to eat something from the first cafeteria, you tell her that what you want to eat is in the third cafeteria and is not on the way. At this time, you're usually embarrassed to take a detour for her, or you invite her to the cafeteria and tell her that the food she is making now is better than packing.