My husband never lets me look at his phone, is it normal?

Updated on psychology 2024-05-06
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    I can tell you very decisively: it's not normal!! Some people will say that mobile phones are private items exclusive to each person, and that both men and women should have trust in each other and should not look at each other's mobile phones casually.

    Then you will also see through this sentence that it is to say, "Don't just look through the other person's phone, not say that the other person doesn't let the other partner see it at all". There will also be people who say "even if he lets you see it, you shouldn't look at it casually, that's a statement of your trust in him", and you will also see this premise that the other party is willing to let you see it, and it is you who are unwilling to look at his mobile phone out of trust. So I think it's a bit abnormal like you said that my husband never lets you look at his phone.

    I'm a more lively and cheerful person, and I have a free-range attitude with my boyfriend, and that's because he always gives me enough security. He took my fingerprints into his unlock, but I never tried to go through his phone. Even if he wasn't on the spot, and the phone was left alone in front of me, I wouldn't move it casually.

    That's because he never shy away from me, and if there's anything he feels he needs to let me know, he'll take the initiative to hand it in for me to see. I don't actually look at it casually at this time, I usually refuse. Because I feel like I have to respect him and give him personal freedom.

    Unless he begs for nothing, I can't do it, I will go to see what he lets me see. I can't turn over anything else, it's a personal quality. So I don't think it's right for your husband to never let him see this.

    A mobile phone is a summary of almost all the characteristics of a person, and it contains content that can reflect many things about him. Modern people really have to learn to respect others and not touch other people's mobile phones casually, which is someone else's privacy. Even if others ask you to look at it, you can't move other things casually, you can watch whatever he asks you to see, don't flip around, this is a matter of human quality.

    We don't want others to mess with our own things, so why don't we empathize and not mess with other people's things?

    But you respect him for yourself, your attitude towards him, and it's his problem that he doesn't let you see it. I think even if there may be some secrets of his work or something in his phone, or something inconsequential, he doesn't think it's necessary for you to see it, but it's not right that he never lets you see it. It's not that letting your partner look at her phone is what it means to give her a sense of security, I think it's a sign of trust between you.

    You are not strangers, you are each other's other half, what secrets must not be fully known to each other? I don't think even if he doesn't let you see it, you shouldn't think about peeking at it yourself, that's not right. You need to talk, what can't be solved by talking to each other?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Although there should be a certain space between husband and wife, or what, but if he never lets you see the mobile phone number, I personally think it is very abnormal, and I personally think that husband and wife still have to communicate with each other and understand each other, that is, it is okay to look at the mobile phone, like me and my boyfriend now know the password, and the mobile phone can also be seen casually, that is, there is a certain amount of trust.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    It is not normal, and there are two reasons why you don't look at your phone.

    1. There are secrets in the phone, and I dare not let you see it.

    If a man has other women outside, or is in his mobile phone, and often has an affair with other women, then of course he will always keep an eye on his mobile phone and will not want you to look through it. He is afraid that if you are not careful, you will discover his secret, let him lose his ambiguous object, and make you angry, and he can't control that kind of situation, so he simply finds all kinds of reasons and never lets you take advantage of it.

    The man who has secrets in his mobile phone, he always carries his mobile phone with him wherever he goes, and he often changes his password.

    2. I'm tired of you and refuse you to touch his phone.

    In a relationship, if a man starts to get bored with you, then his attitude towards you will often change. Not only will he be cold to you, but he will not even let you touch anything of him. Even if he is outside and there is no other woman, he will not want to let you look at his phone.

    Because you no longer have any place in his heart, he will unconsciously reject you.

    At this time, no matter what you do, he will feel unaccustomed to it, and often find fault with you in various ways.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's hard to say, if there is nothing strange about his behavior, but he doesn't show you the phone, it may be psychological, or it may be afraid that you will see something he doesn't want you to know, such as browsers, folders, etc., if there is strange behavior, then I suggest finding a time to sneak a look.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    It's normal! Everyone has their own privacy.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is a secret, it may be an affair with other women.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Haha: I can only experience this by myself.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I feel very normal, no matter who Bi Shun Nai is, he should have his own regret and privacy, anyway, I am very disgusted with the husband and wife looking at each other's mobile phones, this is a manifestation of distrust.

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