One day, when your parents are old and need to be served, and your grandchildren are born again, wha

If I had to choose one or the other, of course I would choose to take care of my own parents, and my grandchildren would let their parents take care of them.

The sheep has the grace of kneeling and the crow has the righteousness of feeding. It was really not easy for my parents to work hard to raise me, they gave me the best material life, and at the same time gave me the best education. Watching me get married, watching me have children, and going out of his way to help take care of my children.

When my parents are old and need to be served, then I must be by my parents' side, and taking care of my parents is what children should do and what they should do.

My parents are now retired, and their retirement salaries are not low, and they were supposed to enjoy their old age, but my dad found another job. People in their sixties get up early and go to work late every day. Every time, I told him not to work too hard in this job, and to quit and go home to rest.

But my father said, "I can still move, just earn a little more, and when you are too old to move and need money, your burden will be lighter." I couldn't help but want to cry when I heard it.

Every time I go home to see my parents leaving, my mother has to let me bring some money, even if I am doing well now, she is always worried that I have no money to spend, always ask me if the money is enough to spend, and advise: "Buy what you want to buy, if you have no money, ask your mother for it, and your mother will give it to you." But my mother fell in love with a dress in the mall, and she was reluctant to buy it for just over 300 yuan, and even if I bought it for her, she kept saying that I was wasting money.

You see, this is a parent, who always knows how to give to their children, and does not ask for anything in return, and always thinks about their children in their hearts, and never thinks about themselves.

What about children? When the child is still young, the child is left to the care of the parents, and after the child goes to school, he puts more emphasis on raising the child, shouting at the child, and loving his child as the parents love us, but forgetting that he has not gone home for a long time to have a meal with his parents and chat with his parents.

The birth of a grandchild, the arrival of a new life, the continuation of life for another generation, is indeed very happy, he has a long, long time to grow up slowly, and I will have a lot of time to love and take care of him in the growth of my grandchild in the future. But my parents are already old, no matter how much I pray as a child, I still can't escape the law of life, old age, sickness and death, if my parents are old and need me to serve, I am not around, I don't even have a chance to make amends.

When a grandchild is born and the child asks me as a parent to help take care of the grandchild, I will do my best to help, but if the parent is old and needs me to take care of it, I will say to the child, "Child, my parents, I am obliged to take care of them".

Of course, I chose to take care of my parents, grandchildren and his parents, and I should have the most obligation to the person who gave birth to me and the person I gave birth to. In my heart, parents come first, and no one can surpass them.

If it were me, I would try my best to take care of both parties After all, your parents have raised you for so many years, you must take care of them, they are all old, and the only person they can rely on is you, so if you don't let them rely on them, who can they rely on, and then Sun Bei was born, and you have to take care of it, after all, it is your own grandchildren, and then it is best for you to take care of them more.

Children can't be left alone, life must go on, and the road of life can only move forward and not go back. Do you understand? What, you said old man, what old man, I don't know, I'm not free, goodbye, bye-bye.

As the saying goes: there are old and small, and you can't stand it in the middle.

Personal suggestion: The old man really needs to be served, the old man is the old man, and the old man can't do without people. When a grandchild is born, you can let the children take care of it first, or you can move in and take care of it together. Or take the elderly with them to their grandchildren's homes, which is also very convenient to take care of.

Of course, I choose the old lady. Because the grandchildren below are taken care of by your son and daughter-in-law. One generation manages the next.

Then you must be responsible for the old lady. Actually, your grandson soldiers. It should not be you who is responsible, but your son and daughter-in-law.

It's best to squeeze together. It stands to reason that it is so. But the grandson can't let go.

As the saying goes: Do your filial piety as soon as possible, don't wait until the old man is gone! Parents of grandchildren with their own children take care of them, and you can help bring them when you have the spare time!

In the past, we always wanted to run away from home, but now we always want to go home, not for anything else, we always want to accompany our elderly parents-in-law, or children, we always hope that time can pass slowly, and we don't want our parents to get old, because our parents hold up a piece of the sky for us, and they will help us solve everything, if one day, they don't have the ability to help us, we will feel helpless, and we can only rely on ourselves, so from now on, we must honor our parents and accompany our children well, So that they will have no regrets in their lifetime.

Look at your statement, you are a filial son, and the system of birth, old age, sickness and death is a natural law. While your parents are still alive, you should be with them as much as possible, and try to meet their needs so that they can be happy every day for the rest of their lives. If one day he (she) really leaves you, you have to face it and deal with the aftermath decently.

You have to be strong and learn to be independent without your father or mother.

People will always grow old one day, in the face of this indisputable fact, no one can do anything, so when they are still alive and well, what we have to do is to treat them well and let them spend a happy old age. Once one day they leave us, as our younger generations, we must not disappoint their hopes for us, the old people are gone, we must provoke the family as a beam, let them happily complete the road of life, as the younger generation is now while they are still alive, ask them for advice, learn their way of life, educate our next generation, don't let them go after any regrets, people always have to take this step, in our death, our next generation will have the same confusionAs the saying goes, there must be a road before the car reaches the mountain, and the boat is naturally straight to the bridge, and there will be a way to do it, all people will encounter similar problems, and people are not also living well? We are the same, there will be a way when the time comes, what we can do now is to make their old age happy, it is not easy for them to pull us up, don't let them leave any regrets when they leave, this is what we want to do now, it is better to do these well than anything else.

So while you're still young, you'll recover.

The patriarchal system is not so old, so go to the good bai

Good filial piety to them, don't make them angry, anger will make people old fast, accompany them more, go out with them more care and care about them, in fact, smiles and hugs can convey a great sense of happiness, it is easy to make people feel happy, hug them more, I hope that all the parents can live a long life, be healthy, and hope that the landlord's father can recover his healthy body as soon as possible.

While the parents are still around.

Be filial to them.

If one day they leave.

Hold back your grief.

Make yourself live better.

Let the parents in heaven smile.

Although it is a problem that you have to face sooner or later, don't think about it, it's better to go with the flow, don't be able to return to the sky, and don't add to your troubles!

You have to learn to be independent as soon as possible, your parents will have an old day, and there will always be a day to leave, so everyone must learn to be strong, independent, and independent in order to survive better.

The years urge people to grow old, one generation pushes the other generation endlessly, your father is a hundred years old, you are also mature, and you rely on your parents to feed you.

People grow old, including ourselves. It is very common for people to have symptoms of one kind or another once they get older, so let them go! Accompany him when the old man is still there, and spend the rest of his days happily.

Hey, the natural law of birth, old age, sickness and death, set the right mentality, work hard, be filial to your parents, and let everything go naturally!

In the world, parents will naturally grow old, and everyone is like this.

Children have the obligation to jointly support their parents, and they do not have to distribute it if the economy allows.

Parents have their own rights to give their own property, it is the responsibility of every child to support their parents, you can't just because your parents don't give you money, you don't care about your parents, you don't take care of your parents to provide at least monthly living expenses, your brothers and sisters are really poor, and your parents are cold.

Have you ever seen Yugong move mountains?

Yu Gong once said: Children have grandchildren, and grandchildren have sons.

The daughter is old and has a grandson.

There is also the next generation, only the grandchildren will take care of it, and the grandchildren will definitely take over the obligation of parental support if they have money, what should they do if they don't have money, it is really inappropriate?

The old rely on the young, the children are old, and the grandchildren are the main force.

Life is always too late to prepare.

If we could prepare and implement everything according to our own plans, I don't think the world would be the way it is.

Yesterday I watched TV and said that a bus driver suddenly fell ill and died while driving, my old woman said"Man does not know death".I think it's also how people know when they will die, if they all know when they will die, they have already planned everything.

In the face of our parents, the more serious problem is that we don't know when they will leave suddenly, and of course, this also includes ourselves, and we don't know which time to go out will become the last train of our lives.

We can still be thankful that they are alive and we are alive, and I think at this moment to see my parents grow old, although it is a little sad, I would rather them live.

There are a lot of things that we can't control or plan to solve, I just know that fate will take you to a specific place at a specific time to accomplish a specific thing.

So we should always be ready for anything.

I think it's important to learn to be independent and strong in life, and it's never going to be good if you always rely on others.

Grandchildren who can afford it, grandchildren who don't have the ability to afford it, grandchildren and grandchildren who can't afford it, look for ** to apply for a subsistence allowance or something, it's really not okay to ask for food, and if you want to eat, you feel that it violates your self-esteem or you want to deliberately commit some crimes that don't violate your conscience, don't you go to the country to raise them?

Article 28 of the Marriage Law: Grandparents who can afford it have the obligation to support their minor grandchildren whose parents have died or whose parents are unable to support them. Grandchildren who can afford it have the obligation to support their grandparents who have died or whose children are unable to support them.

As long as the parents are dedicated to raising their children, then the children should be filial, no matter how old the children are, the women should be filial, and the children also have their own children

The biological mother is not as big as the adoptive mother, and whoever pays more to you should be good to whomever you want.

Both are their own parents.

It's good for everyone.

This is not contradictory.

Just to figure out why this is happening.

There are many cases where parents are good to you.

I'm sorry that no one is good.

Affection is a basic human instinct.

The grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of birth, and emotionally speaking, it is also a deep relationship with adoptive parents.

Of course! When we find out that we haven't touched our parents, we feel very sad and feel heavy in our hearts, especially when we feel that we haven't grown up, our parents are old, and we feel a little panicked and feel a pressure, forcing ourselves to work hard to grow up and be ready to take on our own responsibilities.