How to use concise and non hurtful words to get the blind date to give up the relationship?

You don't need to think about it like this, since it's a blind date, that is, both of you are already planning to get married, in fact, what you need at this time is to be honest and explain whether you want to look at each other everywhere, and it won't hurt anyone.

Tell him directly: "Actually, I'm not ready to fall in love and get married right now, and I don't have these thoughts." Most people will voluntarily quit after hearing this sentence.

You should tell him tactfully that you have a boyfriend and girlfriend who have been hiding it from your family.

Blind dates are more repulsive to me, but they are also a more effective way at the moment, and if I don't like it, I will tell him that there are a lot of conflicts between us, and the personality may not be suitable.

Haha, doesn't it feel like this thing is particularly simple? True love is pursued by oneself and obtained by getting along with others, through blind dates, what true love can you get? So as long as it's not the kind of good baby who only listens to his parents to solve lifelong events, the rest of the individuals are pulled over by their parents.

At this time, you just need to communicate with the other party, whether it was pulled by your parents, and cooperate with the acting of a scene. Then everyone pretends to have a happy meal, and you may be able to make a new friend after a blind date. <>

I still remember that in "Ode to Joy 2", Xiao Guan was pulled on a blind date by his parents, and the boy opposite was also pulled over by his parents, so he looked reluctant, the boy here has stayed in school, advocating free love, the two communicated with English that their parents didn't understand, and they decided to play a play with their parents. Then the two went home and told their parents that the other party didn't like them, so they successfully completed a blind date. This method is worth learning from and adopting.

Of course, most people are brought on blind dates, and there are people who really rely on blind dates to solve lifelong events. If you don't like him, it's a bit difficult to do it without hurting people's feelings. At this time, it is necessary to adopt a roundabout policy, let him introduce himself first, put on a careful listening appearance, and his face is full of admiration, so that he feels that he is very awesome.

When you hold him up to the sky, you will belittle yourself again, saying how you are not good, how you are not worthy of him. Finally, I will say to him again, I'm sorry, I still have something to do, my mother arranged the next blind date for me, let him know that the two of you are completely out of play, and it's okay to block his next thoughts, but I still have to think about how to deal with my parents.

In fact, if you don't like a blind date, you decisively tell your parents that you don't want to go, they really nag you that you should get married, so you can go out decisively to find a partner, I really don't like blind dates.

If you feel that it is not suitable for the blind date, it should be over, if you are afraid of hurting the other party, you can choose to refuse in a tactful way, and you can use some examples to express your thoughts, which is also good.

It can only mean that you have not suffered hardship, and you have this kind of condition better than many people. The management aspect can be accumulated slowly. You didn't enter society.

A lot of business is done in this way. I think you have to learn to get used to this way of life. You haven't been exposed to it like this since you were a child.

Your lifestyle has always been like that. So when you see something different from your lifestyle, you don't fit in, try to adapt. Parents can't support you until you're old.

You can't do it, the family is good, there are so many things, how many children, they don't even have their own home, they can only envy others, they have to rely on their own for everything, you don't understand at all, as for this,

Speaking of the wind, it sounds good to the ear (reasonable), but it is a mess to do.

It's not much more difficult to persist than to give up, it's just too lazy to change.

Is it an only child - if not, then it will be easy -

Dude, you have a good dad and a good mom. You yourself said that you are a rich 2nd generation, so does the proof count? Prove that you can know yourself correctly, which many people can't do, especially the rich 2nd generation.

You're probably looking for that kind of uninhibitedness. Live freely, I personally give you some advice: talk to your dad and be independent outside for a while, and your dad should agree. Okay brother, I'll top you, buddy, to put it bluntly, you're running away, you're running away from your responsibilities, pressure? It's all added by yourself, the pressure on you at home is not great, in your heart you just want to be a rich 2nd generation who has nothing to do, if it doesn't work, buddy, I'll teach you a more radical way, leave a letter for the family or something, go out and catch up with what you want to do, remember that if you go, you can only bring 1w yuan at most, don't have a bank card, and you'll understand when the time comes

I'm also a post-90s generation, I didn't like to read before, I sleep in class, otherwise I listen to songs, play with mobile phones, watch **, I used to make noise to go out by myself, I went out for 3 months, a monthly salary of 1000-1300 sometimes not even 1000, only, the place where I live is the kind of dilapidated apartment, there are 2 meals a day to eat instant noodles, 3 months later I lost 20 pounds, my face is very yellow, almost a layer of skin to touch, my parents found me, my mother cried on the spot, Dad, a man's eyes were red at the time, I had no money in those 3 months, and I didn't have a friend who called me **, maybe the people I knew were pig friends and dog friends, I understood at that time, my parents' lives were half over, and I made them so sad and sad, I really wasn't human! Do you want you to see your parents like my parents did? Do you really think that you can live outside forever without your parents?

If you can, then I can tell you how to get there, but you have to know that one is more than 1,000, except for the rent, you eat worse than fast food every month, can you persevere? , Your father's hard-earned career must have been inherited by his son, it was a drop of blood and a tear, this society is so realistic, it's not you who use me, I'm using you, those people who go out to socialize and see are nothing more than trying to use to find money, you have to know that many people in this world are very cunning, you have to learn to face it, what I'm thinking now is very simple, since you want to use me, you are not my friend, why don't I also use you, that's mutual use, it's not something ruthless, It's not really good to you is not going to use you like this, if you're good to you, you will accompany him to be good, and if you use your people, you will try your best to use them, don't let others treat you as a monkey, you really haven't seen how realistic this society is, men and women in this society are the same reality, women are looking for a car and a house now, you don't believe you can find a girlfriend now, and then he takes you home, you tell her parents that you don't have a house or a car, more than 1,000 a month, and her parents will let you be there Up? Even if the woman is willing to leave the house with you, can you bear it?

Maybe you haven't found a woman you really love now, and when you find it, you will be willing to give everything for her, my dad often said to me Parents will never harm you, parents will only be good to you, even if parents are not as good to their parents as their children Your parents just want you to live a good life in the future, you just want to listen to your parents now, or just leave the house, tell your parents to let you go out for a few months, and then you will know whether your current thoughts are right or wrong, But I want to tell you that you have such a good pair of parents, don't break their hearts. Don't run away, you have to learn to face this society, this is a matter of time, and learning it early is only good for you.

Do the most meaningful thing to the best of your ability.

In fact, I can still understand your feelings, you studied hard in high school but did not achieve results, and you want to do a good job when you return to China after graduation and have nothing to do with your family, which means that you are not hopeless. I think you can do something that interests you with limited resources, after all, everyone has their own dreams. Your parents don't rely on you to do anything earth-shattering now, then you can do what you like, on the one hand, to release yourself, on the other hand, to accumulate some social experience, and constantly enrich yourself is the most important thing.

Seeing that you don't want to go home behind you feel that you owe it, why do you say that people are so "cheap", you have an economic foundation and family conditions that others do not have, face up to these innate conditions created for you by your parents, those are just the glory of your elders, and your life is out of your own.

Actually, I think you should put aside your father's background to think about the problem first, or your father's success has become a kind of pressure on you, but we are all young people, young people have ideals, we can make reasonable use of the family to provide us with favorable conditions to help us achieve our ideals, this is not to rely on the family, but a kind of favorable conditions for development. This may be exactly what your parents want them to give you. A lot of the struggle of the elders is for the children, I hope you can understand your parents, talk to them about your thoughts on the future, communication can solve a lot of problems, how can you know that it will not succeed if you don't try.

You are a very lucky child, at least you don't have to worry about money, people in business should be smart, sometimes the shopping mall is like a battlefield and hate, you work in your father's company slowly, you have to communicate with your father at the beginning don't put pressure on you, slowly you will like it, you have to have perseverance, nothing but you don't have that interest now. A lot of people want to be blessed with you.

As a father, I hope you have the ability to inherit his inheritance! If you can't do it yourself, you can find a helper! Explain your affairs to your *** people! But isn't it OK if the initiative is in your hands? I can go over and help you!

All I can say is that I support your idea, everyone's personality is different, there are many.

Things can't be forced! I can only hope that you can see the point for yourself! You can't encounter a little thing and you have to die or live! Have you ever thought about how many people in this world are not as good as you? For them, none of the problems you have now are a problem!

Actually, you are not sad. You should value yourself and believe in yourself. I was only able to get my graduation certificate in July this year, and I came out in April to take the civil service exam a few points, but I was not shortlisted.

Or the idea of a sub-exam, in the exam, a better unit, why is that? I didn't get good grades, just a junior college student. Now working in a company, only 800 1000 yuan salary, black to death, why, I want to struggle, I want to be strong, you have an advantage that others have not had.

You didn't cherish it. I hope you have read it and learned from it in your business system.

Strive hard to make others look up to you! Cherish the happiness you didn't care about, how I wish I had your conditions, the reality is cruel, so I have to continue to take the exam and get out of this black company.

You should go to a psychiatrist, you are too dissatisfied, how many children can't go to school

Your life is so good. Alas, I have dreamed of such a life for you all my life. But you are not satisfied.

Hello! It's a bit complicated, you should have a 50% chance! I can't say anything else.

There are two possibilities based on the above situation.

1: She rejects you on the surface, but in fact you have entered the 'investigation period', she should want to know more about you as a person, so as not to have another tragedy.

2: After rejecting you, she is afraid of losing you as a friend, so she treats you better and better.

Feel free to ask me any questions.

Again, if he says he doesn't want to or says he's waiting for a while, then give up.

We've always been good friends, but not anymore. Because I love you.

Don't be ambiguous all the time, and chase after it if it's appropriate.

Of course, let's confess it again and create some romance.

The important thing is whether you like her or not, just chase it.

Yes! To put it simply, she already accepts you in her heart. Love should maintain a hazy beauty, and if it is broken, it is better to tacitly do it. The girlfriend is not the one she admits in her mouth, but the girlfriend. It's that your relationship is like a lover, and she is naturally your girlfriend.

You can refer to Wang Xiaobei's practice in 33 days of broken love.

Don't be ambiguous with others, figure out the relationship as soon as possible.

Dear landlord, I'm happy to answer your questions: Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness. True love is not necessarily a perfect match in the eyes of others But the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other is to make each other's lives better and silently dedicate This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts True love is when you can love, know how to cherish True love is when you can't love, know how to let go Because, letting go is to have everything....Please love well when you cherish it When you let go, bless it well....True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm.