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After reading the above, I don't think anyone needs to put up with anyone, let them let everything take its course. Come to think of it, that couple was not reconciled in conflict! If there is no conflict between a couple (which is simply abnormal), it means that they are putting up with each other (it is very hard to hold something you don't like in your heart).
People are meant to vent, it's just that they don't do it right. So, you have to mediate them at the right time and in the right way (the child is the pistachio of the parents), and you have to work hard.
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Let your dad let mom more. Your mother is a leader, so she must worry a lot, and a little temper is inevitable. If you don't love your father, will you be wronged and married? Your dad should be generous.
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It is difficult for a clean official to cut off family affairs.
For example, you can let your father go on a business trip for a while, so that your mother will miss your father and will slowly realize the importance of your father to this family.
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Let them know that home is a haven of love and needs to be inclusive. To love each other is to tolerate everything about him (her), and if you tolerate it, it's fine.
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I advise your dad not to work in that unit, how faceless, and find a good job and be a leader yourself, won't your status be equal. Then there will be a psychological balance and there will be no quarrels.
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At home, there is no leader, just a mom and a dad! ~
Invite the two of them to have a meal, and tell them naturally and happily. Don't bring the company home! ~
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Originally, I just came to see it closely. But no one'
Then I'll just say a few words
You can't help with this kind of thing. I can only help more and more, but I can't do anything.
I can only give you some comfort.
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Tell them that this is not a unit. Everyone is equal in the family.
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Hello! Housework should be shared by their other half, every newlywed couple will encounter such a situation, because two people may be working, and the work day is not easy, but housework always has to deal with the fight, and if you don't deal with this home, it will look very dirty and messy, and there is no home atmosphere, so the two imitations still have to assign tasks.
If both people are working, then the husband should share the housework, because both people work, no one is easy, no one stipulates, women must handle housework, men can not help, some jobs are suitable for women to do more detailed work, there are some physical work or do a relatively large amount of work, suitable for men to do, both people work naturally, no one wants to do housework, but if the family environment wants to maintain well, both parties must work together, so that there can be a family atmosphere, Men can also take on some housework appropriately to share the pressure on their other half.
If only one of the two people goes to work, for example, the man goes to work, and the woman takes care of the children or cooks at home, in this case, the woman should deal with the housework, and whether the man is willing to share is his problem, but you can't make mandatory requirements for the man, because after all, he has worked for a day, he is the main breadwinner of the family, and he naturally wants to rest at home, if you don't do anything, you don't eat at home, and you don't care about anything except taking the children. That is obviously not in line with a wife's obligations, and vice versa, if the wife is working, the husband should also take care of the housework at home, after all, the workload must be properly distributed, you can't stay at home and do nothing, all counting on your other half.
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Of course, men should do some housework while raising their families, but in fact, everyone must do it. Of course, being a man is also to do it. In fact, it is not just the men who support the family, but now the men and women jointly support the family.
Nowadays, everyone in the family is more under financial pressure, so. Basically, they are all dual-employed, and if they are dual-employed, it depends on who comes back earlier and who will do things.
For a modern family, everyone. Work is very busy, especially everyone. You may often have to work overtime at work, so in this case, let's see who comes back first, and whoever will do it, and there is no need to negotiate this matter at all, everyone works hard.
I don't believe it, the most important thing for a family is to cultivate tacit understanding and tacit understanding, which comes from the sense of responsibility of two people for the family, so since they have a sense of responsibility for the family, then. Naturally, they have to share the household chores.
There is no need to be so clear about sharing household chores, who does what and who does what. This will make the atmosphere of the family boring and disadvantaged is not good, so in the current situation, my family and I are doing as much as we can, after all, everyone is busy, so whoever comes back early will do the housework first. This is a well-known situation in our family, and the housework should not be divided equally, I should see who is free to do the housework, which is the most reasonable.
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It's good to do it with your heart, as long as you put your heart into it, you can do everything well.
It's a bit messy, but if you look closely, you can understand that the main problem is that you and your sister still have 1w debts and your sister is married, and because your father left early, you and your wife have to accompany and send things, right? >>>More
When I encounter something annoying, I think the best way for me to turn my attention is better, and at the same time it will make me happier.
You said you want to buy things for the family, is it a house you just bought, is there nothing at home, I saw that you first said that you simply cleaned up the house, I think it's okay, why take out the 100,000 to buy things, now you are not rich at home, just live at home, and 100,000 is not a small amount, you originally wanted to spend the 100,000, just tell your wife, if your wife doesn't agree, don't force it, you tell your mother-in-law again, isn't this a muzzle of a gun, In the past, you and your wife didn't expect the 100,000 yuan, can't you live together, now, you can stand in your own perspective and spend the money, you think it's not a big deal, but things don't necessarily develop according to your imagination, you think everything should be a family, in fact, there are things between husband and wife to hide from each other, as long as it does not harm the interests of the other party, you can ignore these, if you are afraid of divorce she will take the money, this is really not necessary, she will take it away, not your money, Even if you ask for it, you won't be happy to spend it.
Quite rightly, the family is also part of society, not a place outside the law. We must be guided by the law in everything we do.
This is not simple, you can cook and wash it, just one person, if it doesn't work, you won't eat, whoever makes it eats.