How to educate children who are curious and do things against your will?

The more afraid he is, the more he will be put into the group, so that he can learn how to communicate with others by himself! The principle I teach my children is "what to be afraid of", now we are afraid that we can help him, and when we grow up, we may not be able to do anything, so we must cultivate the child's tenacious character from an early age, but then we must also tell him the correct concept of right and wrong.

Children, just be naughty, don't force him to do what you think he does, as long as what he does is not dangerous to himself, nor is it dangerous to others, it is conducive to his kind and innocent quality, don't erase the child's nature, otherwise this time it will be very unfair.

Parents should be patient, face it with him, calm the child down, and tell the child what the consequences will be if he acts according to his ideas.

Parents can set a correct example for their children, tell her how serious the consequences of extremism will be, and let him understand the truth himself.

Teach by example instead of preaching Parents are accustomed to preaching to their children, and the tone of instruction is very disgusting to children. For example, parents play computer games every day without moderation, but reprimand their children for not being able to play computer games, and the children are of course not convinced. Therefore, it is better to say more than say and do more, and it is especially important to lead by example.

Replace negation with affirmation Some parents always unintentionally use negative sentences to negate their children, and such negative labels can make children feel very disgusted. It is impossible for children not to make mistakes, but children also have a good side, so why don't we let go of the bad side of children and grasp the good side to give affirmation? Let the child see hope, and the child will also develop towards the good side in the continuous affirmation, praise and appreciation of the parents.

Denial will make the child lose confidence, and it will certainly strengthen the child's confidence, so that some people say that "good children are boastful". Caring instead of nagging One of the reasons why an adolescent child is disgusted with his parents is that he does not feel the love of his parents, because this love is cut off by endless nagging, accusations, and preaching. At this time, if parents try to put their mentality back to when their children are two or three years old, then I believe that the unconditional love of parents can soften the opposition between children and themselves.

Discuss instead of command Many parents are accustomed to speaking to their children in a commanding tone, such as when it is time to go to bed and the child is still watching TV, they give an order saying, "You should go to bed, do you hear?" "Adolescent children openly rebel against this coercive command.

If you talk to your child in a deliberative tone, the effect will be different. For example, say to your child, "Isn't it time for you to go to bed, you see that it is so late, can you get up on time tomorrow?"

If you're worried that your child won't listen, use a choice sentence such as "Do you go to bed at eight or a quarter past eight?" "It's easier for children to accept. Replace the protagonist with a supporting role When the child is young, parents are generally used to being the "conductor" at the front desk, but when the child is older, parents should move behind the scenes and let the child star on stage.

This concession is very important, it is to give respect, democracy, equality, trust, to give children room for growth, to give children responsibility, but also conducive to the training of children's creative thinking. Hands-off instead of control Parents always think that their children are still young and will get into trouble when they let go, so they need to be strictly controlled. No matter what, there will be no rules, and the heart will be wild.

As everyone knows, this kind of control makes the child lose his sense of responsibility and makes it impossible to cultivate the child's self-control. In order to break free from the shackles and seek self-space, children will confront their parents. Therefore, parents should let go when they should let go, teach their children to take responsibility for themselves, and give their children the opportunity to exercise.

In this way, children can grow through the experience.