Am I a psychological disorder, am I a psychological disorder?

I don't think it's a big deal, you should read more self-actualizing, self-motivational books.

In this way, you can hone your mind.

Because everyone grows in constant failure and setbacks.

After transferring to another school, I was unable to actively adapt to the new environment and deal with my psychological state. In fact, the most difficult problem to solve in transferring schools is psychological adjustment, to a completely unfamiliar place, strangeness is not terrible, what is terrible is the pressure of the new environment, this pressure comes from worrying about the conditions of the people around you or the knowledge ability is stronger than yourself. But these are in the past, it's best not to play games anymore, learn a skill first, if you want to build self-confidence, you must first gain a foothold in society, and self-confidence will naturally arise with this ability.

Decisiveness is a psychological barrier.

Home love is just a sign that you're not really a family lover, you're just used to being protected or a relatively closed environment.

I don't know if you're a boy or a girl? There are a little more men in this case.

If you have never had a traumatic memory associated with water before, it could be one of two things:

The first is that the traumatic memories related to water are repressed, that is, there were actually traumatic memories related to water before, but they were completely forgotten due to fear. This condition can be regained by deep hypnosis.

The second is the fear of water, which is a somatization of the unconscious fear of intimacy. Many people with aquaphobia are actually afraid of getting too close to people in their lives.

Close your eyes when you wash your hair! Something that everyone has to worry about or be afraid of. It doesn't matter.

I'm the same, I'm very much looking forward to the answer, and I also have the feeling of being out of breath when I wash my hair, when the water passes by.

Water is a part of you, it's an element in your body, it's you, you love them.

It doesn't have to be drowning, depending on the trauma you experienced in your childhood, hypnosis or sand play or deep psychology** will have an effect.

Hello this friend;

You've read the books on psychology, then, you should know; Happiness is the highest state of human beings. And where does happiness come from? For you, it is important to note that;

1 There is a problem with your values, and there is a dark side, unfairness, and irrationality in the world. You blame yourself too much and always think about what you should do for others. Actually, it's just a personal matter.

If you don't have moral judgments, you can simply ignore them and help them. The person you want to help is not someone else, but "yourself".

2 You are already in a problem with your current state, and you need to keep the "love" to yourself. You need to be happy, you need someone to give you energy. To put it bluntly, "you need to be selfish, as long as you don't break the law and commit crimes".

3 Your questions are also "demanding" of yourself. It's right to ask yourself, however, not to go overboard. Otherwise, it is abusing oneself.

You think so much about others that you are miserable, and you lose your meaning. How much love can such a miserable person give to others? How many people can I help?

Landlord, I'm similar to you, but when you're like this, you can ask yourself: why do you have to care so much about other people's thoughts? What if others think so?

Usually don't think too much, if you can't help but think more, then you can do something to divert attention, such as listening to ** or something.

It's okay, don't blame yourself all the time, just do what is in front of you.

This kind of psychological situation is not uncommon, you can first get acquainted with similar people (this kind of psychological similarity) on the Internet, after all, they both understand each other's weaknesses, get along in such a situation, and gradually perceive the communication with individuals other than themselves. Then you can say a little more inconsequential things to your family, classmates, or colleagues, and gradually experience how people get along in the real world... Auxiliary to take on some duties ...

In short, it is only in contact with people that you can experience and improve, good luck!

Don't you have any hobbies, don't waste your time and energy on cranky thoughts. In fact, the world is not as complicated as you think, you don't always have to care about what other people think, even if you do something wrong, what can you do, there will be no serious consequences, right? Don't think too much about it, just do what you want.

Do more and think less, and you will be happy.

You are very introverted, a bit autistic, and even a little inferior. Don't always be cranky, go with the flow, do your best to take the initiative and help others, and you will receive unexpected results.

To be sure, you don't have a mental block, just confusion.

Based on your description I think you are a good boy, really, a good boy with absolutely kindness. You will condemn yourself because you have negative thoughts, and you will immediately and unconditionally protect your sister when your parents condemn her, so you actually love your sister very much, and your condemnation of yourself shows that you are not selfish.

Maybe you don't understand what I'm saying, but I'll first analyze the reasons behind your behavior.

First of all, you will target your sister, and the point is not whether your sister is good or bad, but actually reflects your dissatisfaction with your parents. You feel that they don't love you enough, they prefer your sister, and you say bad things about your sister and mess with them is actually a way to get their attention, because you want them to see you and care about you as much as they care about you. But the effect of this method is awkward, and you should experience it yourself.

In this regard, it is recommended that you talk to your parents and sister, talk to them about your feelings, so that they can understand your thoughts, tell them that you want them to care more about you, and tell your sister that you are not actually your intention to target her.

Secondly, there are all kinds of contradictory thoughts about how you do things, which has to do with the way you think. Your understanding of things is either/or, either good or bad, in fact, there is no absolute good or bad thing, it just depends on how you understand and deal with it. Correspondingly, you think that being a person is either a good person or a bad person, and you will one-sidedly deny your good aspects because of one thing, but have you ever thought about whether a person will become a bad person because he does something wrong?

You can't accept that you have a bad side, but you are good-natured, so when you do good deeds, you sarcastically pretend to be a good person, and when you do bad things, you blame yourself for moral anxiety.

Human beings are multifaceted, and each person is unique because we have different understandings of everything. An important task of growth is to recognize yourself and accept yourself, both in good and bad ways. We must dare to face our complete selves, identify our strengths and weaknesses and then continue to improve.

Another point is that you condemn yourself because of the common rule that "you must not disrespect your parents." Education from an early age tells us that our parents raised us, and our parents essentially love us, so we should be grateful and honorable. So, because you can't express your dissatisfaction with your parents, you blame yourself for it, saying that you are a bad child, because "you have become bad" can explain why you deliberately targeted your sister, it can be said that it is because you are selfish and not because of your parents' fault.

I don't know if I have made it clear, but the last thing I want to say is that you are your own baby, and I hope you accept yourself and treat yourself well.

Hello, it's not a psychological disorder, but it's really psychological distress.

I think it's better for you to consult a professional counselor.

Note that it's not psychiatry, it's psychological counseling.

It feels like you're a little troubled by some ,,, you're a little troubled by your so-called moral judgments.

If possible, it should be helpful to seek a professional counselor to clarify your current ,,,. Otherwise you may take quite a few detours in life.

It's important to accept yourself as completely as possible, unconditionally.

Judging by the messages you sent, you just don't have an opinion.

What kind of psychological disorder, that's all mediocre self-disturbing.

You are not a psychiatrist, as long as you have a mind to have such and such problems, only the dead do not have psychological problems.

At least you have a little bit of a mental block, and it's not good for yourself and others to go on like this. Now, what you have to do is to be open-minded, open-minded, sincere, and tolerant. Think of it this way, there are no perfect people in the world, and different people have their own strengths and weaknesses.

If you feel that others are wrong, speak frankly, and if you really don't accept your kindness, forget it. You can do what you have to do, as long as you are above board and have a clear conscience.

Don't blame yourself too much, just adjust your mentality now. The years when people grow up are always full of contradictions, with advantages and disadvantages. If you look higher, read more stories of great people, pay more attention to the world and society, and you will naturally get out of the small space and improve your own realm.

It is said that the psychological disorder is somewhat serious.

But are you only dealing with your sister in this situation?

If so, then you are not mentally handicapped, but you want to be valued by your parents, and you must be sad and jealous when they praise your sister and love your sister. I don't think you're in pain. Your parents ignore you too much, so they hope that your sister will not get better, and let your sister break your parents' hearts, so that you will be the darling of your parents.

But if your sister really called your father, you still won't bear it, because you still love your sister, and then you will naturally be entangled.

People can't draw absolute values like mathematics.,I'm almost the same as you.,My friend is close to the person I like, I started to provoke.,Only a root of the family is hot.,Life is multi-faceted.,You should talk to your little sister.,Open your heart and talk to him seriously.,But you also have to admit your mistakes appropriately.。

Mental disorder does not mean that there are some bad symptoms, it depends on your actions, etc., you are asking these things, which means that you are not, even if it is not serious!!

You are right, it is a psychological disorder, I don't know if you have other physical discomforts besides confusion, such as chest tightness, shortness of heart, etc., if not, you can get better through self-adjustment.

You're tying yourself in a knot.