Why does the old man always disagree with the boyfriend we are looking for ourselves!

Understand some of the reasons why your elders don't like him, and also ask your boyfriend to try to make up for his shortcomings in order to bring them closer. Also start from the heart and say that you like his many strengths. In the end, they will make concessions.

The old man has lived for so many years.

Look at a person.

You know what kind of person it is.

If you are an old man, you will not regret it.

It's your boyfriend who puts in the most effort, not you...

You have been living with your parents, and the key to getting along with one more person again depends on how your boyfriend uses wit and sincerely feels your parents... But you can't wait to see the results. In the same way, you have to be patient and convince your parents to accept him, and you have to work hard

Hello, the old man cares about you, and he can't let go of you, this is family affection.

And your age, I don't know if you've grown up.

Because they think they're experienced, and they're old haha.

In fact, it is still the world of our young people.

I'm sticking with you... You can control your own happiness. But there must be a scale.

Do you love your boyfriend? Do you love your mom? If your mother is not in good health, you should still pay attention, in case something happens, you will regret it for the rest of your life.

I don't know how you want to Bo, and did your mother give you a blind date? I used to have the same problem as you, but I chose family affection. I was separated from my previous boyfriend, and now I am very happy with my husband, and my husband was chosen by my mother.

Maybe the old man's vision is more long-term, but after all, it is you who are looking for a partner, and it is you who live a lifetime, maybe you only value the comfort of two people together, and you don't think more, but you must at least know whether he is self-motivated, positive and enterprising, sometimes the husband and wife who share weal and woe are the longest. Maybe he looks inconspicuous now, and he may be a big boss in the future. Take control of your happiness.

Behind a successful man there must be a successful woman.

Falling in love is your own business, even you think this way, even you yourself have no hope for him, you look down on him, do you think you will have a good result if you go down? What age is this? Still listen to your parents, of course, your parents are also very far-sighted, afraid that you will suffer, afraid that you will not have a good life, love is your own business, you need to listen to others, if you think you are willing to follow him in the future, whether it is suffering or happiness, as long as you say your own words, it seems that you don't love him so much, do you still need to ask others about such things?

I've been with him for a year, what kind of person he is, you should know very well, you can know whether he will give you happiness in the future, your own happiness is your own, others can't help you, maybe you just missed him like this, maybe you are right, nothing is absolute, look at your own vision, it seems that you and him have not reached the highest level of love,!

Nowadays people are very realistic, the old people hope that their children will find a rich one, yes No money is not good, but it is not omnipotent, your boyfriend is not rich, but he knows that he struggles, he has development; Although he can't give you material security now, he can guarantee that he loves you. No one can explain love. In the end I can only tell you:

Find someone who loves you!

It's hard to say in this life, although it is said that character determines fate, but people will change, the old people's vision is good, it depends on whether you want to find an honest and down-to-earth man to live a lifetime, but when you see what to say, buy a house, do business, or something, it seems that there is no assertion and no goal, you should grow up with him! To be a man, we must have a goal, step on the strength, and move forward along the goal

I'm in the same situation as you. I'm in the city, he's in the county. Now we are happy. Go your own way.

I think it's a kind of happiness for people who love each other to be together, but there are many people who love each other in real life who can't be together. So it's no use complaining. There are many reasons why we can't be together, and external factors such as economic ** and parental disapproval may be the most critical.

If it is the opposition of the relatives, then there must be their reasons, after all, the elders have more knowledge than us, and in some cases we can listen to their advice. If it's due to economic reasons or distance, it's up to you to stand the test. Willingness to endure poverty and the blow of time.

In real life, there are many lovers who are broken up like this. Because this world is too realistic!

The old man is right, they don't disagree, maybe they think you spend money too casually, but they have no way to blame. The old man has good intentions

Don't worry, they will naturally handle it for you when the time comes, and it is best for you to save a little in the future, so that the old man is happy, rest assured, everything is OK.

Don't forget to say oh to me when the time comes

Tell your man to get the certificate first.

It's still the same old saying, raw rice is cooked and ripe!

Are the old women worried that you will occupy their property?

If you get married and divorced, you'll get a share of the property, I think that's probably what they think.

In that case, you should be anxious with your boyfriend, and it would be better for him to do the work.

If you really love each other, it's been so long, and if you both want to get married, don't care what other people say, because happiness is your own, not someone else says it to you, don't be like you say, if that's the case, you just listen to "Ten Years".

Tell you, tell your man, secretly go to get the license, break up if you don't get the license, don't drag you down. Don't tell his family, raw rice is cooked and ripe, it must be certain, and you must cut through the mess quickly. It's also a test of whether your boyfriend really loves you.

Mr. has a baby, and the old man can't object, this method has been tried and tested repeatedly

I'm having the same problem as you, my boyfriend and I met in college. Because of my parents' opposition, my parents suggested that I go find a little driver or something, but I never had the courage to stand with him.

In fact, among parents and boyfriends, we need to judge who has a higher status. I am the parent of choice.

If your boyfriend can give you the happiness you want, then stick to it, after all, it's not easy to fall in love with someone. But if you don't see any hope, think about it.

Let your boyfriend behave well in front of your family! Especially when your family needs help, his outstanding performance will surely win the recognition of your family.

The family is afraid that you will have a bad life, in fact, as long as you are happy, which parent will disagree? It's your boyfriend who has lived with you for the rest of your life, so you have to stick to it...

Ask why you don't agree, and then ask your boyfriend to visit you in person.

Why don't you agree It's because his personal or family conditions are not good Personally, it seems that it's okay, or you don't have to work so hard Now that the family has one child, the economic conditions will not be so bad I want you to believe in yourself Time is the best run-in I wish you to fulfill your wishes.

Tell them to find it themselves, all right.

If you insist, your parents can't help it.

Not everyone's relationship is so smooth, and the relationship that can stand the test will be happy.

The point is, how is that man?

Maybe you are a simple person, but this kind of thing is not simple and can be solved, I will tell you a few kinds of complicated things, if you want to be with him, you must do it.

First of all, you say it's because you're 6 years older than him, are you sure about that? Is it just because of that? I don't think it's possible, and if that's the case, you don't have a chance at all.

Second, see if your personality is the same as the personality that the old man likes? The elderly are generally more conservative, and in the same way, they all like to be simple. Frugal, conservative woman, you have to do as much as you can, at least in front of them.

Third, develop a common language with the elderly, that is, the topics they like to talk about. I talk to the elderly, we usually talk about some things when they were young, most of them have experienced the Anti-Japanese War, the starvation era, you can strengthen your knowledge in that area, talk to them more, this topic can generally immediately evoke the memories of the elderly, they are not willing to stop, this is the fastest way.

Fourth, try to make your heart a little younger. That is, to make your language, behavior, and manners as much as possible like your boyfriend's age.

In fact, to be honest, it's normal for siblings to fall in love, not to mention that you are only 6 years apart, the best thing is that when you get along with his family, understand whether they have anything else besides minding your age difference. If not, then when you meet, you can say something nice or send something practical according to the preferences of the elderly, I think it's better.

Chatting with the old man, showing a good wife and mother.

A man must eat a peck of salt with his friend before he knows him. You're mentally prepared for that. It's time to fight! Influence them ...

You have to figure out why he doesn't agree, find the reason, and solve the problem.

Ask him why, how he wants to get more involved.

What is the reason for his disagreement?

You don't have an opinion, huh? It's all so old.

The daughter's boyfriend is her father's imaginary enemy.

First of all, you must understand your daughter, what her personality is, what her thoughts are, and your daughter's emotional orientation. Observe words and deeds. And her boyfriend's personality. People are the most important, and everything else can be mediated.

This is a matter of two people, don't let you worry about it alone. If you want to be together, what is your boyfriend's attitude? If you want to be together, you can't be lazy.

He has to make an attitude and put in the effort! Convince your parents that you can live well so they don't worry. My parents were the same back then, they didn't listen to the old man, they were together privately, and finally they were together, but life was not good.

I was happy for a while, but when I was forced to be together, there was a rift between the families of both sides, and then I won't be verbose about many specific things. Just wanted to tell you, be cautious! Happiness depends on your own efforts, and I hope you can go through hardships and be happy.

You do have to think about it. According to your description, your boyfriend is a little lazy, and you will have a hard time in the future, because you are older than him, so he can rely on you to live, are you sure? Poor family conditions will also affect your future life, imagine, if your future in-laws are sick, don't you see it?

What if it's tens of thousands? Your parents are actually thinking about you, they don't force you to marry anyone, but want you to find a nearby one to get to know each other better! Besides, after you and your current boyfriend get married, how should you deal with it as soon as the novelty passes?

Of course, if your current boyfriend has the courage, that's another story!

Then you can choose to live in the city you want, and this should be a consensus among you.

In addition, do you also need a plan for living, managing money, and making money? This is more conducive to achieving the life you desire, rather than living a blind life!! If you can't plan a future and plan that suits you, or your boyfriend is really lazy and can't give you a good life.

Then you should seriously consider whether the love should continue!

It's okay if two people work together individually.

This is related to your happiness, so let's make up your own mind.

First of all, you have to be clear: whether you are true love for him or not, true love is the premise of happiness in life. Secondly, whether he has true love for you or not, true love does not matter about sacrifice, and "laziness" is a manifestation of unwillingness to sacrifice.

Again, the opinions of parents can only be referred to, not blindly followed, and your satisfaction is the premise of your parents' satisfaction. In the end, if there is true love, the two of you work together, and happiness will be yours.

In fact, you said for a long time, I think this man is not good, family conditions or something, it's fine, but people can't be lazy, if a man is lazy, the burden of the family will be on you in the future, you feel that you can work hard now, and you will feel wronged in the future, women should be self-reliant, but there is absolutely no need to make yourself too hard, so you will age quickly!

Listen to your parents, they won't hurt you, falling in love is not the same as getting married, you can talk to anyone when you fall in love, but you can't just look at feelings when you get married!