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I think there is still a lack of communication, you don't like to have some surprises, little jokes, take a walk together, chat, talk about your heart, listen to his advice, give him a romantic meal, in fact, the vegetables, rice, oil and salt in life are all topics, try to say,

OK! But personal opinion! If he really wants to take you, you should!

Because he wants you to melt into his group! And that's a good thing! If you don't have a job, it is recommended that you find one.

Or at least you have to learn (some people are waiting to give birth at home), if you don't have merit, you can't be proud of your man in front of others (friends)! And he has to be better at dressing up than his friend's wife! If they can't see it, your man will have a sense of superiority!

It's okay not to go, but are you willing to do that? If you are alone at home, you will think more complicated, and it is imperative to find a job, so that your stress will be reduced, and relatively speaking, you will be very confident!

Find something you're interested in and don't always pester your husband.

Give him some space, men are rational.

The main thing is that after having my own home, I don't often walk around with others, which makes me feel very strange. Or it can be understood that it has something to do with people's personalities. For example, people with a quiet personality and people who don't like to talk will feel like this.

Many women feel that when they are not married, they feel that it is their own home, and when they get married, they think that it is still their own home, but after a long time, their mother's family has no shadow of their own life, first give you your clothes, I am afraid that you will use it in the future, and then this is in the mother's room is gone, it is better to move out and put something if you don't go back, and slowly find that going back to your mother's house is like a guest visiting the door, go back to make something delicious, and go back to your own home after eating! Another stool book lost a home.

In the in-law's house, you feel that you are an outsider, most of these women are more cautious and sensitive, and they will think before and after saying a word, worrying that others will cause misunderstanding of your words. I'm that kind of person too.

In fact, people's magnetic fields are mutually induced, you are careful, others are infected by you, and they are also cautious about you, and the estrangement will slowly rise. You will find that people who are confident and have the ability to call will always infect those around them.

The son is married, in his own home. The daughter got married and went to someone else's house. The period when a woman gets married is the beginning of the evolution of the original family.

The son is still in the original home, there will be no strangeness, and the daughter-in-law is different, she came to a strange family, and many people are not familiar, only the husband is relatively familiar, according to Chinese tradition this is her home, if this new home is not friendly enough for her to accommodate, there will be a feeling of exclusion.

But for her, it takes time to get acquainted with all kinds of people, things, and things. She is familiar with her mother's family who has grown up for many years, but if there are brothers and sisters-in-law, younger brothers and sisters, according to tradition, they or they are the heads of the next generation, this is the traditional concept. Soon after getting married, if the new family is not very well accepted, and the original family has brothers and sisters-in-law, it is more difficult for women at this time, which is the status quo of Chinese families, and this situation is more common in rural areas.

But a lot of things don't fall into a pattern, it's about how you see it. If you don't see it that way, you wouldn't be in such a state of mind.