Seniors, how should you spend the emotional lull?

Maybe I should advise you to focus on your studies and study hard every day. But I don't want to do that. Now that you've only been together for six months, and now you have to face the college entrance examination, she may also have some struggles in her heart and wants to shift her energy to studying.

Talk to her and tell her that love may not be fresh and surprising every day, but it's okay to have each other in your heart. You are the same, don't be immersed in your children's private affairs, the more you push and care, the more she feels that she doesn't care about you. Perfect yourself with a text message before going to bed for a day, enough.

During the emotional dull period, what should be done is to do what you should do, supplement the connotation, improve your cultivation, and have a sense of freshness, understand? As for the rest, I advise you to go with the flow, you love her, then, let it be. If you don't love her, then, let it be.

In fact, after a long time, it will be dull! But bland the reaction of the girl you described! I don't know, you have tried to ask her if she has encountered any difficulties recently, or if she is about to take the college entrance examination, and she thinks that the most important task for you now is to study hard and be admitted to a major university!

She's probably more introverted! I didn't communicate my true thoughts to you! I think you guys should have a good talk!

Let's learn! Put more of your mind on going to university! I think you'll get better!

Learn to communicate effectively! Do you understand?

Students should be academically oriented, but nowadays children don't talk about feelings.

In fact, you both feel that the relationship between you is flat, so it's better to separate, which is good for both of you.

What you can't get is always the best. It's not a bad thing to get separated.

I'm confused about it, probably because of my studies, supplemented by my feelings.

I'm still in school, so let's separate if I can't do it, and focus on my studies.

Break up for a while, not break up.

The word love is so hard.

Focus on physical health: Maintaining a healthy lifestyle, such as exercising, eating a simple diet, and getting enough sleep, can help improve your mood.

Seek mental health support: If you're feeling emotionally distressed, consider seeking help from a mental health professional.

Keep in mind that emotional lull periods are normal, and different people experience different situations in this situation. Most importantly, don't be too yourself and learn to accept and understand your feelings.

1 Face up to the lull period.

The hot love period is very happy, but a relationship will eventually go flat, this is a normal phenomenon, we always need to return to real life, no need to be anxious, but we also need to use a positive attitude to treat the flat period, not to avoid the problem, or even to break up to solve.

2 Get along like friends.

When the relationship enters a flat period, you can try to get along like a good friend, pay more attention to each other's study and work, and try to grow synchronously and make progress together. Of course, if there is any dissatisfaction, we must also raise it in time, communicate with each other and understand each other. We can also simply put down the so-called shelf of being a boyfriend and girlfriend, and sometimes, getting along easily can often reap the feeling of comfort and harmony.

3 Learn to surprise people.

Unlike when we first fell in love, when the relationship tends to be flat, we should learn to create surprises to cause waves in the other person's heart. A quick trip can reinvigorate a relationship that has become dull.

4. Maintain your independence and charisma.

You know, what attracted each other to Sakura in the first place was the charm of both parties. No matter at any stage of love, we can't give up on improving ourselves, broadening our horizons, and enriching ourselves.

5. When the novelty fades.

True love will emerge.

When I first fell in love, I was greasy, there were endless words, endless things, **I was reluctant to hang up until late at night, and I was in love for a period of time, and slowly** there was less, and the information was not replied in seconds, why did I start to talk cold after a period of love?

6. When the novelty is over, the real love is coming, it depends on whether you can grasp it, if you can't do it, you will never be able to escape the cycle of novelty.

7. When two people fall in love together, there is a lull period, no one will continue to be enthusiastic about you, you say that she is not enthusiastic about you at the beginning, it is absolutely impossible, but if after two or three months, his attitude towards you changes greatly, he may ignore you, or ignore you at all, then there is a problem.

8. Give each other enough freedom and space.

After the love period, the other party still has to devote himself to the previous work and life, if they are still stuck together every day like the love period, they will"Greasy", and easy to lose yourself. Then it's better to loosen the tie moderately, to have confidence in yourself and your feelings, and also to allow them to have other things to do. Of course, a moderate relaxation also means that you can also have time to do your own things and enrich your life.