Is it true that feelings can t stand being dull Is it not love when feelings are flat?

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted to the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think about him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart will beat faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, really! Positive love a person will willingly take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, see your loved one happy you will also be happy, see him (her) troubles you will also follow the troubles, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy I am happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness

Some people say that love is like picking up stones, always trying to pick up one that suits you, but how do you know when you can pick it up? Or if she suits you, are you suited to her?

Many people think that it is because of the relationship that people will become lazy.

Wrong, in fact, people are conquered by inertia first, so feelings will become lazy.

The more you get to know each other, the more you discover each other's shortcomings. Then one problem after another, you start to get annoyed, tired, and even want to escape.

But when the other party asks you: what is very lovely, you can't do it, because you don't know it.

When you love someone, it's definitely just right to love to 8 points. All expectations and hopes are only 8 points, and the remaining two or three points are used to love yourself, if you continue to love more, it is likely to put heavy pressure on the other person, make each other breathless, and completely lose the joy of love.

If you want to maintain a long-term love, it is still up to you, love well! I wish you happiness.

Time can dilute everything, including the so-called love.

I yearn for the love that accompanies me until I grow old. So, what does love look like to grow old? Many people think that the end of love is family affection, but in fact, there is not only family affection.

No matter how passionate love is, there is a dull day. When love goes from hot love to dull, it does not mean that love is over, but it means that a relationship should enter a deeper mental state. It's just that many people will have some psychological changes at this time because of the emotional changes between themselves and the other party, and they begin to question love, not knowing whether this love has entered a cold period or the other party is not in love.

It is easy to tell whether love has entered a cold period or is not in love, and it is easy to see from the other party's mentality and behavior. 1.Whether there is a sense of dependence or not, it does not mean that the relationship has disappeared.

Since love exists, it means that the other party's dependence on you has not changed. On the contrary, because two people will establish a deeper communication after entering a quiet period, this sense of dependence will be deepened. But if you don't love it, this sense of dependence will disappear, and the other party will begin to become independent, and when you can solve it by yourself no matter what happens, it means that the relationship may have moved towards the moment when love disappears.

2.Whether there is a sense of responsibility The sense of responsibility does not disappear with the end of the chemical reaction, and if the other person still has feelings for you, this sense of responsibility will not change. He still wants to be responsible for your present and future, which is a normal state of mind between couples.

If the other person treats you very casually, it also means that there has been some kind of transformation between you. The difference between the cold period and not loving is still very big, and many people will carry out some self-deception in the relationship, for example, they know that the other party no longer loves themselves, but they will still deceive themselves and just enter the emotional dull period. This kind of situation will only make a relationship worse and worse, and in the end, it will hurt two people.

Feelings can't stand the bland, friendship can't stand the wind and rain, the heart is calm, in order to hear your own heart, the heart is clear, in order to see the nature of all things. Live your life quietly, if your heart does not move, the wind will be helpless. If you are not hurt, the years will be fine.

People who care about you will care about your feelings and will not make you uncomfortable; People who don't care about you won't care about your sadness, so why should you be reluctant. Love is the cherishing of each other, and it is also the care of both parties; Love is a weak flower, and it will be mellow when you take care of it. If you love, please cherish, if you don't love, please let go, respect others is also respect yourself, and being good with each other is a sunny day.

Some people cherish you with all their might, but you don't care; There is a heart that has been waiting for you, but you have turned a blind eye. How much affection is not taken seriously, so go away; How many figures, not cherished, become backs. feelings, do not talk about right and wrong, only true and not true; Fate, don't talk about long and short, only regret.

The person who puts you in his heart may just stay with each other calmly; Always see you as the only one, or maybe just wait silently. People always don't know how to be satisfied, and they always think that they can get it at their fingertips; The mind is sometimes confused, and I can't see the happiness behind the blandness. Don't hurt a precious fate with your pride, don't let your indifference sparse a rare heart.

There is a kind of love, which is obviously deep love, but it cannot be said; There is a kind of love that I want to give up, but I can't give up; There is a kind of love, which I know is tormenting, but I can't open it; There is a kind of love, knowing that there is no way forward, but the heart has long been unable to get it back. Does happiness hurt or not? Let her go, but you can't let yourself go.

Some things last a lifetime when you turn around. I didn't know each other at first, and I didn't recognize each other in the end. If love is just passing by, why bother visiting.

Some love, I have to go to the end of the world, suddenly looking back, I have no power to tell. Time will always give you the answer, who is the person who really loves you and really cares about you; Who is the person you care about, but who doesn't care about you? Some people are not worth cherishing too much, but some feelings are worth cherishing.

In fact, the two of them were very sweet when they first fell in love, but after a long time, one party would feel very tired, so they chose to ignore the other party. I no longer take the initiative to care about each other as before, and if I can't feel the other half in love, my love for myself should be withdrawn in time.

1. Stop loss in time.

Long-term pain is not as good as short-term pain, so if you can't feel the other party's love, you should break off this relationship in time. Many people are very easy to lose themselves when they fall in love, some love fades away when they talk, some people break up when they walk, when two people are together, they love each other very much, but in the end, one person left first. Whether it is marriage or love, there is a certain shelf life, and it is very appropriate for a normal love period not to exceed three years and two years.

If you don't feel the love of the other party in a relationship, it may be because the relationship is not managed with heart, so the love will disappear.

2. Learn to operate.

Let each other become unbalanced, if only one party always gives, the other party keeps asking for the person who pays, and if he can't get a response from the other party, he will also choose to give up. Whether in a relationship or in a marriage, we must learn to respect each other's opinions, learn to communicate more, and take the initiative to express our ideas. In fact, two people will invest a lot of feelings when they fall in love, and the two hearts will slowly get closer, but as time goes by, after the sweet period has passed, it is difficult to find the original feeling.

Everyone knows that in a relationship, you can see the other person's love for you in some insignificant things.

3. Create surprises.

There is also a need for a sense of ritual in life, and you can choose to give each other some practical and meaningful small gifts on anniversaries. These ritual gifts are needed at all times as a debugging agent, and when you don't feel the other person's love, you can choose to give them a hug and a kiss or pick a gift that the other person likes. If you blindly pay but don't feel the love of the other party, you should stop the loss in time and accompany the letter, otherwise you will be very easily hurt.

The personal understanding of the flat period is that the level of understanding of the other party has reached the apex of a stage, and it will not progress for the time being. The process of getting along with each other will become extremely natural, although there will not be too much flirting, but there will also be many big twists and turns.

Everything was as plain as plain water, but warm and needed.

And if you don't have feelings, you don't even want to do it. I didn't feel anything when I saw each other, I didn't feel warm at all, and I hope to end the interaction between the two as soon as possible. I even feel embarrassed in getting along.

To sum up, the biggest difference between no relationship and flat period is that the latter still loves each other from the bottom of their hearts, but everything has become a habit. But the former has given up or abandoned this relationship, and there is no longer the idea of "love" in the depths of his heart, so a flat relationship is not the same as no emotion.