Why am I afraid to fall in love, some people are afraid to fall in love now, why is that?

The first time I fell in love, I didn't know about the boy at all, but he just met him, but he said he liked me, and I thought it was incredible, I thought the boy just liked the appearance and didn't like me as a person. So he was very cold to him, and later, he seemed to understand my thoughts and stopped pestering me. But here's the problem, I obviously don't like him, but when he leaves, I start thinking about him again.

Now that we've been together for a long time, it's kind of ridiculous to think about it, and it's almost like my boyfriend is gone.

So you're also a guy now, do you really dislike him or are you just a little panicked for the first time? You must know this yourself, and that boy should be good, right, you can see that he did it on purpose, but think about it, he deliberately did it to attract your attention, because he likes you, don't you want people to accompany you, he is a good candidate, you can try it first, if you find that he is not suitable for you after dating, you can talk to him again. It's not a way to avoid him all the time.

My sister is going to take the graduate school entrance examination, right, the pressure must be very great, you can put these things aside first, and then you think about these things after the exam, maybe it will not be so troublesome.

Okay, bless you.

You actually know better than anything else in your own heart After all, it's going to be an exam, so let's put it down.

Men believe in love at first sight, women believe in love over time, he doesn't believe in love at first sight I don't know, I believe in love over time, I hope we can be like friends, don't deliberately, don't deliberately, say hello when we meet, laugh, send a message if it's okay, and get to know each other slowly, isn't it good "That's your opinion, oh, I totally agree.

Learn to take care of both, sister. If you really feel that he is good, it has to be because of the exam, so you can put these things aside for a while. If he really likes you, he will wait for you.

The first time I fell in love, I had no experience, it's normal. It's a lot of good things, maybe. I wish my sister's career and love all her dreams come true!

Sister, that person, let me know him, I'll be friends with him, and by the way, I'll help you spy on him.

How about Sissy.

Let's talk to him, it's hard to chase someone

If you ignore him, you will find that there is always something missing around you, and the special emptiness really doesn't lie to you

If you're afraid of getting hurt, take your time to get used to it.

Obviously, he's miserable, and I guess he's going to be very sad. I was whetted by your a. It's not like that anymore, it's miserable!

Can you know what a has said before him? Hehe. What a miserable little boy.

Just get used to it and let it go.

That's the boy you're talking about.

It doesn't seem to be the right time, wait until you finish the exam, and then calmly think about whether it is really interesting to him.

Not everyone who is in love for the first time is like this

I'm speechless, I don't think it's better to talk about what I don't like.

Falling in love for the sake of falling in love.

Learn to have fun in love.

In the face of love, everyone will have their own ideas, and some people are afraid of falling in love because of their inner fear and lack of confidence, which will lead to their own will not be in love, will cherish the time of single life, and will feel that love is a troublesome thing.

Some people are afraid of falling in love because they are afraid that they and the other party will not be able to go to the end, for him, he wants to talk about a lifelong relationship, and he is not willing to gamble on things that he is not sure of. Instead of letting yourself fight a battle that you are not sure of, it is better to let yourself cherish your single life, at least you will keep this happiness.

Relationships are not always smooth sailing, many times there will be problems and contradictions in love, and when it is serious, you will face a breakup, not everyone will have the psychology of being hurt. Some people will feel that once they are hurt by their feelings, they will not be able to get out of it, and they will not have any confidence in love when they see the people around them divide and merge, and they feel that love is poison, and many people are unhappy, so he is unwilling to fall in love and does not want to be hurt by this.

Some people are not confident in themselves, thinking that they are not good in the first place, if the other party can't give enough happiness when they fall in love with themselves, they can't delay the other party, so it will lead to staying single. Such people think about happiness too complicated, thinking that happiness needs economic support, and do not believe that love can accompany each other to the end.

Some people's fear of falling in love is also due to their own reasons, they don't see the beauty of love, and their hearts are not confident enough to lead to fear of falling in love. In fact, if you truly love someone, you will transcend all obstacles, no matter what kind of person the other person is, you will work hard for each other, and you will do your best to give each other the greatest security and happiness.

It's not now, even in the past, and in the future, there are some people who are afraid of falling in love, because they are too unconfident, they feel that they are inferior to others in everything, and they must be looked down upon by the other party when they fall in love, and the first psychology is at work.

Nowadays, people are afraid of falling in love because: two people need to tolerate and understand each other when they are together, and it takes a lot of time. Although it is very happy to be together, sometimes it can also feel sad and sad. There may not be a person who is free at all times.

Personally, I think it's because they feel that falling in love is too wasteful of energy, which will affect the development of their careers, and it is difficult to have a good outcome in the end.

Because many people now feel that they are not very happy in love, and they will not be unhappy and sad to see the people around them because of falling in love, but they still have to always believe in the existence of love, and they must face it bravely, and the unreliable will always be people, not love.

There are many reasons for being afraid of falling in love, one is personal reasons. Everyone's aesthetic concept is different, so they may have different requirements for each other, if they don't meet their own mate selection standards, then there is a fear of falling in love.

Because when you fall in love now, maybe it's a simple kind of feeling. It's not a lot, after all, falling in love also requires a certain economic foundation, so it really feels like a lot of pressure and normal.

It may be because I have been hurt by previous feelings, or it may be because of the current social pressure, marriage requires a lot of financial support, or it may be because of the deterioration of social feelings now.

When I fall in love, there are a lot of things, and I have already led it, and I will get married in the future or something. It's a very troublesome thing, so let's put it bluntly, people nowadays are very afraid of falling in love. Because there are too many troubles caused by falling in love.

Because the divorce rate in society is particularly high now, there is no way to be sure that you can go to the end when you fall in love, so many people dare not try it easily.

This is because in today's life, people's attitude towards love is very indifferent, and there are often some scumbags.

Because of being in the family of origin, when I start a relationship and really enter the state of love, it is often difficult to really devote myself to it, because I am a person who is relatively insecure and lacks self-confidence.

The reason why such a problem arises is mainly because of the original family, in my growth process and under the long-term education and guidance of my parents, I am more reluctant to fall in love, because when I was young, my parents were especially afraid that I would have the problem of early love in order to let me study hard, so they always instilled in me some of their truths, that is, to get along with girls, to keep a certain distance, because many girls are often unreliable, Only when you have a real foothold in your career in the future can you consider falling in love, because girls are more realistic.

Therefore, under the influence of their concept, after graduating from college, I should fall in love at the age of time, I still have some resistance to falling in love, because I am not very satisfied with my state, I am afraid that after starting a relationship, the other party will dislike my job and my income, although at this time, my parents are no longer as good as when I was studying, but are particularly concerned about my falling in love, and always want to introduce me to a girlfriend. But I didn't have any interest in it, and I thought I was still young and should devote more energy and time to my career.

Hello, I think that many children who don't feel the love of their parents when they are young will become very loveless when they grow up, and they are also very suspicious, and they will always feel that the other party doesn't like them very much during the whole relationship. In fact, at this time, when we feel the other party's love for us, we should forget some of the pain when we were young.

1. How to love others?

Friends who lacked love when they were young may be less afraid to fall in love when they grow up because they are afraid that they may not be worthy of others. And I am also very afraid that when I fall in love with others, I will cause myself to be hurt, so every time I fall in love, it ends in failure. I have long hoped that everyone can know that everyone may fail when they fall in love, and failure is not terrible, what is terrible is that we dare not try to love again.

We must know that in the whole process of falling in love, the most important thing for ourselves is to calm down our mentality and not be affected by it when we were young. We can choose to think seriously before falling in love, and if the other person is good to us, we can also choose to treat others in this way.

2. The influence of the family of origin on the child.

If the child does not receive love in the family of origin, then when the child grows up and may receive the love given to him by others, he will always feel that he is very unworthy of this love. And when others are loving themselves, do we really feel that we can really afford this love?

Third, but I want to tell you that everyone is very good, and everyone is worthy of others' love, so everyone must not deny themselves in this way, when a person can love us seriously, it proves that we are very worthy. So don't belittle yourself anymore, and don't wonder if you can withstand the love of others.

Good luck.