Why do some people have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married?

Updated on society 2024-03-23
51 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Because some people just want to enjoy a relaxed and happy mood in love, and after getting married, they have to face all kinds of locks. Yes and pressure, so I just want to be in love and don't want to get married.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because they only fall in love, two people are like glue, but when they really enter the palace of marriage, there will be firewood, rice, oil and salt, love is a matter of two people, and marriage is a matter between two families, so people just want to fall in love and don't want to get married.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Because "marriage is the grave of love" is true, to be precise, love is the process of love, and marriage is the result of love, and the fruit will either be eaten or rotten when it is ripe, in short, it will disappear.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because being in love and getting married are two states. You can fall in love many times, but you can only find one to marry, and many people can't afford to get married, but falling in love doesn't cost so much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Because they are afraid of marriage, they feel that it is very troublesome after marriage, they have to take care of a lot of people, and they have to maintain the family, so they just want to fall in love and don't want to get married.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    There will be people who only fall in love and don't want to get married, generally people who are immature in mind or have not yet reached the economic conditions, and they will feel that they are not responsible for falling in love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It may be that the other party is not the other half you want to find at all, or it may be that the other party has some things or places that cannot be accepted.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It may be that many people are afraid of marriage, they think that everything will change after marriage, including their love.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may be that they know that life will become very stressful after marriage, and they will fall in love less. There will be a lot less pressure.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It is because these people feel that they will be unhappy if they get married, and these people may have been affected by their families.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    For some people, it is hoped that they can be in love for the rest of their lives, rather than immersed in the world of marriage. Now there are not a few people who have such thoughts, for them love is happier than marriage, so why do they have such thoughts?

    Most people don't want to be bound by marriage because they are married, and two people will not be subject to so many rules and regulations when they are in love, and there will be no unnecessary restrictions. But when they get married, they will live with each other all day long, and they need to report everything, which is unacceptable to them.

    For many people, compared to marriage, love makes people feel more only, at least not interfered with by the other party. When you are in love, you can still live your own life, and you can do your own things with confidence, but after you get married, you have to focus on the whole family, and this kind of life is too tiring. Many times everyone is more eager for freedom, hoping that they can live freely, if they can't get so freedom, they feel that it is better not to get married.

    There is still a big difference between falling in love and getting married, and getting married means facing more challenges, which make people feel more bearable. Many times being in love makes people feel very relaxed, but marriage makes people think about more things, so it will make people just want to be in love and not want to get married.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Some people don't want to be responsible, and after getting married, they have to take on family responsibilities, have children, and take care of the family. It is very enjoyable to fall in love, and having someone to accompany you will enjoy the sweetness and care of the other half. Two people can be together if they love each other, and they can break up in a chic way if they have no feelings.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Maybe it's because they don't want to take responsibility, but they want to be with the person they like, maybe their idea from the beginning is that they only care about what they once had, and they don't care about eternity.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Because many people feel that getting married is a very distant thing for them, or they are very afraid of getting married, afraid that two people will not have a good result after getting married, and there will be no good ending of this kind of love, so they are reluctant to get married.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    In fact, these people want to get married, as long as they yearn for love, they yearn for marriage, the reason why they don't want to get married is because they are afraid, because the divorce rate is too high now, and the cost of marriage is also very high, once divorced, they will lose the time, energy and money they spent when they got married.

    They can't afford this kind of loss, so they just fall in love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Because people nowadays yearn for freedom, two people don't have that sense of restraint when they fall in love together.

    Once you really get married, then you will lose your freedom, so many young people nowadays do not want to get married so early.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Because the cost of falling in love is not very high, you just need to care for each other and trust each other, then the relationship will be stable, but marriage is different, marriage requires more responsibility, you need to work hard every day, to give the family a better life, a lot of pressure.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    It is the idea of boys who just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, most of the girls want to enter married life quickly, although boys are more spoiled by girls when they are in love, but girls will be insecure, and feel that boys don't want to marry themselves, and their feelings are more shaky, and girls still want to get married as soon as possible.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    The reason why so many people think this way is entirely because getting married now is really a test of a person, because most girls are too materialistic and will not easily marry a boy, so this situation will occur.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Maybe it's more free to fall in love, if you want to get married, you have to have a sense of responsibility, and you need a lot of economy to support it, and you need a lot of money to get married and have children to support your family.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Some people do have this idea, it may be that their lives are more stressful and financially constrained, and two people fall in love together, which may be a little more free and less stressful.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you just fall in love, you only need two people to feel good, but if you get married, there are too many things to consider, and then you will not only be responsible for yourself, but also responsible for the parents of the entire family and have children, and you will have a heavy responsibility.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because life after marriage is very tiring and tiring! If a man is responsible, then the family will be better, but there are still many men who can't take responsibility! Ma Bao, a self-centered man, marrying will only ruin his life!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    People who just want to fall in love and don't want to get married are people who have no responsibility, he just wants to enjoy the happiness that love brings him, but he never wants to take on the obligations that he should bear.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Maybe it's because there are too many people who need to be responsible for getting married now, you see those rich people, most of them fall in love first, but they don't want to get married.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Marriage is not a commitment, marriage is fear, fear of the other person leaving. Are there any more benefits to getting married for two people who don't want children? You can love for a lifetime, you can't just go your own way, divorce is troublesome

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    After getting married, life is not good, so they will run away, look around us, people who have been married are not happy, either quarrels or cold wars, and run away from home, and there is a lot of domestic violence.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You don't need to be irresponsible when you fall in love, you just need to enjoy the beauty of love, and once you get married, you need to face all kinds of responsibilities, and many people are not willing to take responsibility now, afraid that the pressure is too great.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Because marriage is a responsibility, a commitment, and at the same time a union between two families. After getting married, it is not only a matter of two people, but also a matter of two families, and there will be a lot of problems.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Because these people don't want to take on the pressure that comes with family. Think about getting married and having children, so if you want to raise the children to the elderly, you have to pay for the elderly's medical treatment. So these people don't want to take on that kind of pressure.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Nowadays, many young people have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married, which is also very strange, some people complain that this behavior is "hooligan" behavior, and the reason for this idea is also related to many factors. Marriage and love are two different things, love seems to be a matter between two people, and marriage will be a relationship between two families, and marriage may also face many problems. So why do some people now have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married?

    Personally, I think there are three reasons:

    It may be because the economic strength does not allow, if the cost of love will be relatively small, but if you get married, it will involve all aspects of expenses, in addition to the preparation before marriage, house, car and bride price, etc., after marriage, you may face a person's salary, to pay a family's expenses, the pressure is very high, so you simply don't want to get married.

    Only fall in love and do not get married, there is not enough responsibility and responsibility, we know that only a marriage certificate is legally recognized husband and wife, and not wanting to marry each other is unwilling to give the other party a certain amount of protection, and it is enough to see that this person is very "selfish" and only thinks about himself.

    Nowadays, young people have a greater "playfulness", and it may be that they have seen too many divorce cases, and sometimes they think that not getting married is a very free thing. Only falling in love only has to face two people, but if you get married and face two families, you may be bound and controlled, so you don't want to be shrouded by "family".

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Because after getting married, a new family is formed, and there are no restrictions on falling in love, and it is relatively free, so most people don't want to get married.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Maybe it's because they think that getting married will have a lot of troubles, and there are also a lot of contradictions, so it's better to fall in love directly.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Because most people are afraid of marriage now, they are afraid that there will be a series of conflicts and problems after marriage, and they may have some worries about their children, so they want to only love and live freely.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Because marriage is stressful and requires material things. Today's young people can't bear the huge pressure and can only choose to only fall in love and not get married.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    Nowadays, some people just want to fall in love and don't want to get married, mainly because falling in love is compared to getting married. It's more relaxed and free, and there are not so many chores.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    Because people nowadays feel that getting married is very stressful, and it will bring great difficulties to themselves and limit their lives, so they just want to fall in love and not get married.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    Because marriage brings so much trouble and pain to people! Especially women, after getting married, they do everything by themselves, and the children are brought by themselves, and their jobs will have to be given up because of this!

  39. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The reason why some people now say that they only fall in love, that is, the idea of not getting married, is because they feel that marriage is more troublesome, the cost is relatively high, they want a bride price, they have to buy things, and it is more troublesome to live in the future.

  40. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Because the cost of falling in love is low, you don't need to spend too much money, and if you get married, then the pressure will be great, and you need to spend money everywhere.

  41. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    It's because there are a lot of contradictions after getting married, and after getting married, it means giving up a lot of things, so people enjoy falling in love more.

  42. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Because once the relationship process into the marriage has become a greater responsibility, to bear the relatives and friends of both parties, and even the other party's family, the other party's family is responsible for all kinds of things, it will increase invisibly, now a lot of pressure between young people, coupled with the current social cost of life pressure is very large, many people fall in love in order to transfer their own pressure, find someone to bear together, share pain and share happiness, but once married, those many things are not chosen.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Nowadays, many people want to fall in love and not get married. You don't need to bear any consequences when you fall in love, as long as you are happy. But marriage is different, it's a responsibility.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    That's because falling in love is a matter of two people, it's easy and interesting to fall in love, and after getting married, it's a matter of two big families, and a little bit of a small thing can cause a big chain reaction.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Why do some people now have the idea of only falling in love and not getting married? Because some people are very selfish and irresponsible, they only pursue romantic love and pursue good looks, such people are unreliable, they are selfish, and they may be caused by social pressure.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Nowadays, some people only fall in love and do not get married, which is actually an irresponsible idea and should not be admired.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Modern people often lack responsibility and have no sense of responsibility. Because the cost of having children is high now. Some people just don't want to get married and have children. They often only think about having fun and eating well in their lives.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Now there are some people who are only in love and don't want to get married because they don't want to take on the responsibilities of the family, they just want to be alone and relaxed, and over time he also has the possibility to change his mind.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    Nowadays, some people only have the idea of falling in love and don't want to get married, that is, in the real society, marriage can't put a lot of pressure on young people, so they have this idea.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Don't want to take on the responsibilities of marriage.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    It may seem to some people to be in love and not get married, but this is indeed the relationship pattern that many young people like nowadays. Because there are too many trivial things to face in marriage. So, are you okay with just being in love and not getting married?

    It is reported that in recent years, most of the urban residents who have passed the marriageable age but are difficult to enter the marriage threshold are white-collar workers. The growing phenomenon of non-marriage has become a cityscape and a prevalent infectious disease throughout the country.

    There are various reasons for not getting married, and some people have been emotionally hurt and do not believe in love, so they choose to live together with "only love and not marriage". Not for love, but for physical needs. However, even if they have met women who betrayed them, not all women treat feelings as a game.

    The reason why some people choose "not to get married" is because they are afraid of the trivial life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea after marriage, and think that marriage is not romantic, "romantic marriage is unstable, stable marriage is not romantic". In fact, romance is something more feeling, create and experience it with your heart, and the heart-warming things will still accompany you.

    With a heart, even small things that are incompatible with romance, such as pots and pans, firewood, rice, oil, and salt, can occasionally create romance to share with your lover. This can be much longer than the taste that one enjoys. It is also the most romantic thing for two people who have love to quarrel together and grow old together.

    Marriage is realistic, but there is absolutely no rejection of romance.

    Some people who choose not to get married don't want to see each other's lazy and farting posture, thinking that it will disturb their good mood. It doesn't make sense either. It's vulgar to pee and. Do you refuse to do these things to keep your mood and turn yourself into an immortal?

    Netizen 1: Yes, it's just that parents can't accept it. Mom called me a scumbag again, said I was playing hooligan, and didn't let me talk nonsense......I?

    Netizen 2: Isn't this a waste of my current time, a waste of my future marriage partner's time?

    Netizen 3) If you like it, you will be together, if you don't like it, you will leave, what to do when you get married, life is not a transaction, is there so many theories?

    Netizen 4) fully accepts, it is a comfortable thing for my wife to fall in love for a lifetime. Get married, do all kinds of little things, firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, tea, father and son, is it okay to only be happy now?

    We always involve love and marriage, but it is undeniable that not everyone falls in love for the sake of marriage. This statement is unacceptable to some people, but it is true. There are people who are in love for the sake of getting married, but love is in love, and there are people who don't want to get married.

    Everyone must recognize this fact. Don't think you're in love to get married. The person you are in love with must be in order to get married. You need to understand the other person's thoughts before love begins.

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