I have low self esteem compared to introverts, I am too inferior. And very introverted

Updated on psychology 2024-05-17
37 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Life should experience humiliation, rejection, these situations, too much face-loving, sometimes make yourself very tired, is that your mental effect? How do you know the result without trying?

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Without confidence, opportunities will be far away from you, look in the mirror before going to work every day, tidy up your appearance, smile and say to yourself loudly, I have confidence, I can win. If you go to work with such a mentality every day and communicate with colleagues, will you still have low self-esteem? Come on, friends.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    First of all, men from the Imperial Tomb are active, please don't miss the great opportunity, and take the initiative to show your love when you meet the right one; Secondly, men are strong, not for the sake of a relationship that can be destroyed, so we must be psychologically prepared to fail and hide; I would like to remind you that if you continue like this for a long time, you should pay attention to your mental health.

    Finally, I wish you to be brave and bold and achieve happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I feel like you're too introverted. Boys can't be too introverted.

    Try to talk to others!

    Communicate more.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It's normal to think about women in adolescence, if you feel that you haven't talked to girls, you can talk to someone on QQ, first exercise your eloquence, and then find someone to ** (normal), and when this psychological hurdle has passed, you will be fine, there is no need to feel inferior.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You really have excessive low self-esteem! In fact, you don't have to feel inferior, although you are poor, but as a girl, I think that looking at a boy depends on his connotation. Besides, you're pretty handsome, aren't you?

    Be confident, give yourself a little courage, take this step, I believe you won't be so shy in the future, you have to believe in yourself. I used to be an introverted and inferior girl like you, since I took classes abroad, the teacher asked us to cooperate with our partners, so I talked to others, and then I slowly became more cheerful and confident! Come on, believe in yourself!

    ps: If a girl only values your wealth and poverty, then such a girl is not worth having.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Brother, I understand your thoughts. Because you are an introvert and you are poor, you think that you are inferior, and you always think that people look down on you. In fact, no one looks down on you and thinks you are poor, it is you who first look down on yourself, how can a person who even looks down on himself feel useful?

    People are not short of ambitions. You need to change yourself, give yourself some confidence and be brave enough to face everything around you, and you will find that it is a big change from before, because I used to be like this, I always felt like a wreck, and then I realized that I was the stupidest person. You're so handsome and quiet, what girl doesn't like that?

    I'm sure that girl has a crush on you, everyone has a crush on you, let's get in touch with it, first love is the most wonderful thing in the world. May you regain your self-confidence and find your other half.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    There is personality.

    But it's easy to find a girlfriend on your terms, but it's hard to marry a girl.

    Introverts like you actually have a lot of advantages, and many of the successful people I know are introverts.

    So I met a lot of people like you, and I found that most of them didn't find a way to soak in such a psychological disorder.

    They are all working hard for their careers, and when they don't have a girlfriend, they don't have a psychological burden, and it can be said that they are the best time to develop their careers.

    Please don't be blinded by the current difficulties, you should look ahead.

    Good luck!!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    ……You're too inferior...... aren't you?

    Girls don't like boys to say words like "cheap" and "garbage", so you don't say these things about yourself, boys, since the external conditions are very ok, then you should have self-confidence, about you are very poor, this is now, it doesn't mean what will happen in the future, so, don't look at yourself, if you are timid, start with a smile, smile at her, if he likes you, he will take the initiative to chat with you, hehe......

    I wish you happiness ......

    Hope it helps ......

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Your personality is polarized, you don't say a word with the living, talk endlessly with acquaintances, in fact, whether it is the former, or the latter, you have a bad impression of people, first say the latter, in fact, when you talk indecisively in front of others, you may not feel anything, or even feel very good, in fact, your friends may feel very annoying, like a long-tongued woman, you should also change in this point, you are like treating yourself as your friend's girlfriend, for example, you are playing with your friend, but your friend's girlfriend calls him out, in fact, it's nothing, it's just boring, call him out, and your friend will definitely say goodbye to you and go to his girlfriend. I think you're too insecure, always protecting yourself, afraid that others will hurt you, but with acquaintances, you will tell everything. If you fall in love with a girl you know well, you tell everything about yourself, and she just plays with you and breaks up, you must be very sad, and honestly, if you fall in love like this, you are just looking for security and let the girl give you security.

    I think you don't talk so much in front of acquaintances in the future, you are too simple, too unurbanized, in addition, you don't always think you are so handsome, don't you think you are too courageous, too unmanly, you can be a little bolder, in the worst, you always hope that those girls are a little worse, take the initiative to find you to fall in love, in fact, girls are generally reserved, and we boys do bad things.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Eh, do the task and randomly select 10 tasks, which can be slightly more normal Send you 2 sentences: no face and no skin, invincible in the world; If you are observant, you will have no disciples, and if you are cheap, you will be invincible!

    Since that girl also pays attention to you, you can use something to start a conversation, maybe that girl is still waiting for you to start a topic, most girls are like this.

    You can use the question of learning to drive, such as saying what you think is so difficult, and then ask the girl next to you what she thinks, the girl may think it is simpler, and then you ask why she can do it so easily, if she says it is difficult, you can have a resonance, and then just... This is just an example).

    But you must be careful not to look like you are too flashy, girls generally don't like boys who are too floaty, just do it in moderation, accept it when you see it, and then just let it flow.

    I hope you can have a good relationship...

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, girls of your age have not yet reached the time to get married, girls of this age are very weak, so the first criterion for finding a boyfriend is whether they are handsome or not, and of course there are other aspects.

    If you are really handsome, don't be too poor, you don't need to have low self-esteem, because you have the capital to fall in love.

    It's good that you take the initiative, but don't rush it or it will be self-defeating.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    It shows that you are not handsome enough, not attractive enough, I used to have a friend who was the same as you, he didn't like to talk, and he didn't have money, but he never had a girl around him, even if he didn't like to talk, he was a woman, and he still didn't like to talk after being together, and women liked him, because he was handsome, maybe you were really not handsome enough, you yourself were too narcissistic, and you said that you were still handsome, and collapsed.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You can slowly start to exercise your strength from the girls who are easier to get close to, and slowly get used to it, or you can find friends to join you and observe the ...... of the people around you

    In fact, the most important thing is that you have to know what you want and what you are afraid of, so that you can face your own fears.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If that's what you say, there's no need to worry about it. Girls around 20 years old have no resistance to being handsome, as long as you give them a small hint: for example, your hair is so beautiful! Then say anything about surfing the Internet, watching movies, and going to the playground, and she'll fall in love with you forever.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Big brother, you are handsome and you still have low self-esteem, you spoke boldly for the first time when the beauties were looking for you, and then you found that after saying it once, the beauties had a special number for you, and you had confidence, haha, try it, I hope you can get rid of the status quo!!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Seriously, I really don't think you're introverted, you have low self-esteem, you swear a mouthful, what is this like! I think you think it's your own, and you're a little bit narcissistic. If someone looks at you, it means that she likes you, so if passers-by look at you, will everyone like you?

    If it's communication, you can say it boldly, just say what you want to say confidently, don't care too much about other people's opinions, and poverty is not a problem, the most important thing is to be poor and have backbone. Well, come on.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Since you look good, and therefore have a good girl's fate, what does it matter if you don't have money, as long as you work hard, it's nothing, why bother to make yourself so entangled, you're not cheap, just a little worried about inferiority, the next time you meet a girl who you think is good and she seems to have feelings for you, talk to her, what era is it now, are you still embarrassed? It's been 21 years, in order to say goodbye to singleness and welcome love, let's go out. The most important thing is not the technique, but your mindset. Come on.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    To get out of the shadow of introversion, you still have to rely on yourself, and others can only comfort and enlighten you, whether you can do it or depends on your own attitude. If you just want to do it, then you can only stand still and nothing will change.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    You have to believe in yourself, be confident, and I'm willing to be your friend if I can.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Smile in the mirror every day, show your most beautiful smile, say come on to yourself, you can do it, and then communicate more with friends around you, don't be afraid of losing face, don't be laughed at by others, communicating with people is the premise that you can become cheerful, and then like more bright things, don't always face some gloomy and unexciting, if you want to change, you have to start from the roots.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm just like you, my favorite thing to talk to my best friends is, I say everything anyway, and I don't like to talk to strangers! Since we're all in the same situation, why not make friends

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Well, introversion is a personality problem, which is understandable, and low self-esteem is really unnecessary, but all people with low self-esteem have a period of unbearable, or a little flawed, I don't know if you have it? But this can't be a reason, in fact, if you think about it, Hawking can move with one finger all over his body, but he can still think about a brief history of time, and it does not prevent him from making a difference and becoming a man who stands up to the sky, and who can look down on others, are you more unfortunate than Hawking? So you don't have to feel inferior, choose one that you are interested in, and continue to study it, one to divert attention, and the other to achieve something in the future, why not!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Low self-esteem is not that you are not good enough, but that you think of others too well!

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Introversion leads to a small social circle, which in turn leads to low self-confidence and low self-esteem. Experience it for yourself. It's much better to go and communicate with others.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Because I'm introverted, I think a lot. Sensitive to a lot of things. Once you think too much about anything, it will be more or less biased.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Because you can never find your own sense of existence, live in the world of me.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Introversion is because it doesn't interact with others, and low self-esteem is ability.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Lack of self-confidence leads to low self-esteem and introversion.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Introversion and extroversion are natural. Do you think Gao Fushuai will have low self-esteem, he is also likely to be introverted.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Family reasons, personal reasons.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    No matter how beautiful others are, you always have to believe that "I am unique, I have my own strengths, I love myself".

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Such a simple and esoteric question, worth pondering.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    First of all, you have to make it clear that introversion is not inferiority, introversion is a kind of appearance of personality, and rarely interacts with people. Low self-esteem, on the other hand, is a kind of self-doubt that arises from not having confidence in oneself. People with low self-esteem are generally somewhat introverted.

    Regardless of the previous inferiority complex or introverted, you must have confidence in yourself, create confidence in yourself if you don't have confidence, confidence in strength, correct mentality, everyone is born with nothing, start from scratch, accumulate little by little, believe that you are not worse than others, or even better, come on, give yourself a better future.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Answer; Definitely not. Introversion refers to the fact that one's personality is not easy to be seen through, and compared with extroverted and cheerful personality, each has its own strengths. It doesn't have to be a disadvantage!

    And low self-esteem is a psychological pathology that is negative, people with low self-esteem have no enthusiasm for life and lack a lot of abilities. Excessive low self-esteem can have a serious negative impact on people's study, work and physical and mental health! It is a disadvantage that should be changed!

    So introversion is not inferiority.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Introversion actually has some inferiority complex, there are always some things or things that are a little troublesome to yourself, such as me, it is this type, in fact, you can overcome yourself, in short, you are not confident enough, create some reasons for self-confidence, and know yourself anew, only if you recognize yourself, others will recognize you!

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    No, introverts are just reluctant to talk much. I don't like to communicate with people other than close friends. And low self-esteem is the feeling that you are inferior to others in every way. I am always afraid to communicate with others for fear that others will look down on me.

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